Question:
Ive gone through much pain and trials in my life and Im now of marriage age and Allah (SWT) has clearly shown me my future spouse . I receive many proposals from pious families, but Ive been shown over and over again that my spouse is a rising Pakistani singer, comes from a very liberal family, drank alcohol, attended haram parties/clubs, openly touches other women,has many friends whom are women, watches haram, etc. I have not spoken to him ever in person, but hes fallen deeply in love with me and tries to show me, but I try to stay as hidden as possible. I dont know how to handle my situation and I cry so much in this patience with Allah (SWT) that one day he will be a great Muslim, but I dont know what my role is in this situation, can you please help me?
Answer:
Can you explain how he shows you he loves you if you have never spoken?
Dr. Aziz Hussein