Question:
Salam,
I’m a teen-aged old girl and I was wondering if there is any specific dhikr I can do, for general family problems, like getting rid of angry or frustration or just for more happiness in the home and to bring the family together. There’s a lot of anger from my mother and then disobedience from my sisters and sometimes even from me…. And I have noticed that increasing within my family. I know that respecting my mother is very important in Islam so, I really don’t want me nor my sisters answering back to her rudely… Please let know what I can do to change things…. Thank you.
Answer:
Wa`alaikum Salam,
Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you.
For the family issues please recite daily 100 times “Ya Ghani” and “Ya Salam”.
For your own anger try to pray Salat an-Najat before Fajr, and ask for Allah to replace the destructive qualities with praiseworthy ones as indicated in Naqshbandi Handbook of Awrad. If you keep with this consistently and swallow and digest your anger and jealousy you will benefit greatly. Also keep wudu at all times if possible.
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1. Family Problem
2. Ridding Anger and Jealousy]
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