As salaam alaikum wrwb,
I pray this question will receive you in good health. How to spend sadaqa wisely in a group of needy relatives and needy sisters? So much work to be done, don’t know where to start.
Allah razus,jazakAllah khair for answering.
Make a list starting with the neediest, give them the most and divide the rest among the remainder in similar proportion. Another way would be to give everything to the neediest, and the next time around give everything to the next neediest, and so forth.
Hajj Gibril Haddad