Murid has Various Questions

Question:

Asalam!
I’m mureed of Shayk Gibril Fouad Haddad when he came to Mauritius lately and he came at Riviere Citron Mosque for Jummah, Alhamdulillah! He hold my hand and i repeated what he said (1) How can I achieve his faiz? (2) I took baya`at first from [private] via internet, is it acceptable? In fact, I’m a mureed to whom? (3) I get angry over petty things and i lost control of me often and I squeeze my teeth … My wife`s scared & terrified, what can do? Jazakallah

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Gibril has no murids, he himself is a helpless murid such as yourself and in worse need than you. Therefore please realize the basic fact that there is no Shaykh in this entire Tariqa except Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and his Khalifa Mawlana Shaykh Hisham and his brother and brother-in-law. Shaykh Hisham himself has said on countless occasions that (i) Bay`a is to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and no other; and (ii) Rabita is to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and no other. Regarding anger recite Ya Haleem before Fajr x100 daily, and control what you watch (TV, internet…) and be kind to your wife as in Islam marriage is religion, so goodness in marriage is goodness in religion.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Nazi Cross

Dream:

As Salaamu alaykum Beloved Mawlana, Hajjah Nazihe and Family, and Staff.

BRR. In my dream there was a stream running on my right side,and on the surface i could see something that i felt were the Nazi cross. But they were green in color. They were one behind the other, and many in number. I also noticed a stream to my left, with similar symbols.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,

Dajjal tries to pollute the sources of your purity. Focus during wudu and salat, in sha Allah before sleep also.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: My murder

Dream:

Salam,
I had a dream that someone was chasing me and that person is trying to kill me. Its blurred the ending but I guess the dead body was mine and it was opened as if someone had stabbed it multiple times. In the same night I saw another dream and if was during the time of Fajr . I saw that I was on a cruise and it was sinking into the cold ocean and I just grabbed a baby and an unconscious man with me in a lifeboat and rowed the boat to the safety. I do pray 5 times a day. Could that man and the child be my family I mean when I’ll get married in future Inshallah please interpret my dream.
Jazakallah khairan

Interpretation:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem
BismillahirRahmanirRahim:

wa `alaykum salam,
If the first dream was a nightmare ignore it as from shaytan’s disturbance. The second dream is that you will reach safety after difficulty. That safety could include a good family life.

Wallahu alam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Dream: MSN Gave me a Turban

Dream:

Bismillah:
As-salamu ‘alaykum
,

I was sitting at Mawlana Shaykh Nazim’s bedside (apparently he was very ill). He then took a white Naqshbandi turban and put it on my head. I think he took my hands too. Then he said he gave me khilafa.

As I’m a very bad excuse for a mureed I know not to interpret that literally, but how should it be interpreted?

Interpretation:

Bismil’lahi’r’Rahmani’r’Raheem:

wa `alaykum salam,
This dream can mean that Mawlana is saying to you to keep following the tariqa and you will be honored and respected by people, the turban represents that. To make dawa`, to bring people to the  Naqshbandi way is what it means to be khalifa. And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Dream: Taking money from the deceased

Dream:

My widow mother saw my father twice saying that don’t worry about money and then giving some bags of money.

Interpretation:

Message is straight out of Qur’an, it is Allah Who sustains you and your dependents. It means halal rizq from a familiar source in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: My Husband Left Me

Request:

Asalam alaikum,
I hardly need a prayer, wazifa or dua for my husband. After 2 weeks of our wedding my husband behavior was changed, he doesn’t want to talk to me, or to love, or anything . I just didn’t get what happened. Now it’s about 2 months that i lived by my parents and he doesn’t even call me or try to have contact with me. His mother was against our marriage and she doesn’t want that we live together! It’s very painful and i am depressed now! I try to pray and read Qur’an, but i can’t. Please help me, i really love my husband and i don’t want to get divorce. I want to rebuild my life with him. Please please help me !!

Response:

Alaykum Salam,
Write your husband a letter where you express your love to him and your gratitude to Allah for your marriage, and ask him to keep you as his wife for the sake of Allah and love of His Prophet. In sha Allah he will improve. Recite Ya Fattah ya Jabbar x100 daily.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Home Looks Like a Grave

Dream:

Recently, I have seen my entire family in a house which was brought by me (that is, in the feeling of the dream), the house was on the place where was no other house (there was only house) and railway iron-line was very close to my house, the shape of the house was look-like a grave (and there was also a grave on the south-side of the house)…. there was something written in Arabic on the North-wall, but I was not able to read, then I and my family entered to the house. after entering, the rain-falling was started, thereafter, I realized that my family is now safe from the harm of rain-falling.

Interpretation:

Bismil’lahi’r’Rahmani’r’Raheem:

This dream can mean that your love for your family is strong, and the wish to learn more Arabic to understand some secret knowledge is represented by the grave.

And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Prayer Request: Delay in Marriage

Request:

Assalam o Alaikum,

I am 32 years old and engaged since 2006. But due to different reasons my marriage is getting delayed. Kindly Pray for me.

Jaza’k Allah

Response:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem
BismillahirRahmanirRahim:

wa `alaykum salam,
The shaykh is praying for you inshallah.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Istikhara Request for a Suitable Marriage Partner

Question:

Aslaamoalaikum,
Please can you do istakhara on behalf of [private] he wants to marry a girl called [private] if this is beneficial in terms of his faith and worldly life and please can you let me know. If she will adjust well in the family and respect her husband- basically a well mannered girl. Can you please make dua for [private] that Allah SWT guides him on the right path he comes towards deen and Islam.
Jazakallah

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you and them. It is a good match
provided they pray their five prayers.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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A Potential Suitor

Question:

Assalamu Alaikum,
I am in my 40’s and interested in a man who is in his 40’s as well. I’m divorced and I’ve been living on my own for [blank] years, mainly due to family complications, and he lives on his own too. How can I get to know this man in the most halal way possible when there are no available mahrams? My brothers are older, with their own families, they’re rarely available and my dad is mentally incapable of making decisions so having them around would be complicated and impractical.

Would it be acceptable for me to get to know him in a public place so as never to be alone with him at any time?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,
Use your judgment responsibly and go ahead with meeting him in a public place.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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