Need Permission for Wazifa

Question:

AsalamuAlaykum,
I am from Kashmir India. I want permission for wazifa that is 11 times Durood, Bismillah hir rehman nir rehim 1000 times, 11 times Durood.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Please refer to the following posts:

Dhikr Ijaaza

Doing any zikr I like

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Scolarship

Question:

Asalam Aleikum,,,my name is [private] and am 36 years old, single mother of two, my daughter 17 and my son 11, living in [private]. Am asking this question because i do not know what or where to start.

My daughter she is in [private] she is studing Qur’an has finished primary and at he moment she is in secondary Muslim girls boarding school and she already knows what she want to do next, is to continue to college.

I would appreciate very much if you could help me in any way in this matter on how she could get a scholarship to come and study in Europe Inshaallah.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Please refer to this post.

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Best dua for shifa

Question:

Assalamu alaykoum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh,

What is the best dua or amal for shifa from polycystic ovary syndrome and are there any foods I can eat to help me fix it.

jazakallahu kairan

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam wa rahamtullahi wa barakatuh,

Please see Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s advice in the Post “Polycysitic Ovarian Syndrome“.

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Regarding marriage

Question:

salam
I like a girl and she also likes me and we want to marry each other but due to cast problem her parents are not willing. Plz tell me some amal by which they will allow our marriage happily and plz pray for my emaan…..

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Please see: Rejected Marriage Proposal.

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Please address the post of Sayyid Ahmed Amiruddin

Question:

Can you say something regarding the post by Sayyid Ahmed Amiruddin
http://ahmedamiruddin.wordpress.com/regarding-lines-of-succession-to-shaykh-nazim/

Answer:

“Obey Allah, Obey Prophet and those in authority among you.”

Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his soul) has said time and again that Grandshaykh has two other khalifas besides him. These two khalifas are Mawlana Shaykh Adnan Kabbani (quddisa sirruh) and Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani (quddisa sirruh). It is everyone’s duty to emphasize this at this time.

That means that after Mawlana Shaykh Nazim these two khalifas are next in line in our silsila. The Knowledge that Saves and the Secret of this Path comes through them. Anyone who tries to tamper with that sequence — which is Grandshaykh’s Wasiyya and Mawlana’s Order — is making up his own tariqa and therefore cut off: They follow no one but their nafs. If any of this is wrong let me be corrected by Mawlana Shaykh Adnan or by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham.

If these two khalifas will not say it and proclaim it out of humbleness, then we lovers and murids should say and proclaim the Haqq that is right under our nose as spoken by Mawlana Shaykh Nazim so many times! “Be defenders of Haqq.” Our masters also said: “Whoever witnesses falsehood and remains silent instead of speaking the truth is a mute devil.”

In addition to this still-standing stipulation of Grandshaykh and of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless their souls), the latter has contributed one principal khalifa of his own, namely his son Shaykh Mehmet whom we all love and respect, saying: “He is now part of our Silsila also.” By the term “also” Mawlana Shaykh Nazim means “together with those already appointed to that Silsila by Mawlana Shaykh Abd Allah al-Daghistani generations ago.” If anyone denies this let them step forward and say it; if any of this is wrong let me be corrected by Mawlana Shaykh Adnan or by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham or by Mawlana Shaykh Mehmet (may Allah bless them all).

So then, there are three appointed main khalifas whose authority supersedes everyone else’s and whom we all recognize exclusively of anyone else near or far. Even so the rule remains — and this is the final point — that in this Tariqa, as it has been from the beginning, and as it was also in all Tariqas, it is the ox that pulls the cart, not the other way around. So draw your own conclusions in light of the hadith “Whoever does not know the rights of our elders over us is not one of us.”

We should be lucky to at least make niyya to know and defend the rights of our Elders as ordered by Allah and Prophet, and by Grandshaykh and Mawlana Shaykh Nazim!

As for the hundreds of other khalifas all over the world — those who passed away and those still with us — they are all rays of the megasupernova that is Mawlana but none of them can carry the Inheritorship of the Prophet (s) and anyone of them who claims that ability is, in reality, a counterfeit. They want others’ bay`a but cannot even correct themselves, not to mention incapacity to bring themselves or others to the Prophet (s). So they will all have success only if each knows his/her place and keeps to it. Meaning, if you cannot follow, at least cooperate; if you cannot, at least do not obstruct! Otherwise prepare for disappointment; and Allah is our refuge.

wassalam,

Hajj Gibril

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About zakat mal

Question:

On October 2014 I sold part of my piece of land, after I put down our house for 40 years to the ground, and I received from the buyer about $200,000. So I can build a smaller house, and use the balance for our daily expenses for the rest of our life, because I do not have other income since 2003. Our children supported us since then.

My question : do I have to pay zakat based on $200,000 or based on the balance after I build our new house? Thank you.

salam

Answer:

Your question makes no sense because you use the past sense for a future date.

If you mean October 2013, then you do not have to pay zakat on that amount because you have not owned it for a full year yet. Zakat is owned only on money which you have possessed in full for an entire year.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Zakat: Important Question

Question:

Salaam,

I have signed an agreement to purchase a property in the last month of which 90% of my liquid cash will be used. I usually calculate my zakat during the month of Ramadan and make payment during this month.

I wanted to know given my current obligation commitment for funds to be used in the next few months whether these funds should be included as part of my zakat calculation I.e. Added rather than subtracted.

InshaAllah you can revert back as soon as you can.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Whatever portion of committed or promised funds which is still your property and under your control as part of your own wealth, if it has been thus for a full lunar year, is zakatable.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Father has passed away

Question:

Assalam,

My Father has been returned to His Lord. I have few Questions. JazakAllah Khayr. Any further advise on coping at this difficult time will be much appreciated.

1. Is it permissable to read the Qur’an on behalf of the deceased. If so, is it permits able to share portions between people to finish it?

2. What are the best of deeds one can do to benefit their deceased parent?

3. Is there a recommended time one should mourn for?

4. How should a son or daughter help their mother who has lost her husband (and their Father). Any recommendations?

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

May Allah Most High grant your father Paradise.

1. Yes to both questions.
2. Du’a and sadaqa.
3. Three days and no more.
4. Through kind presence, listening and support. Also, for a son, financial support.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Emaan is dwindling with Family issues

Question:

What do you do when no matter how much you try to do good actions it is never enough from those around you. I never thought the day would come where my own flesh and blood would hang me up to dry making comments and judgements about my deen and saying it’s pointless learning as I am not practicing. Other members of my family making grave calls about my actions being a means to “killing” my dear mother. I can’t write anymore as it hurts thinking about this.The last few months have been a real challenge. My wife went into labour on two months ago and delivered our first born after an emergency cesarean which followed by a further operation within a space of a week. Wife and baby remained in hospital for two weeks and I went in everyday staying on occasions sleeping on a make do chair. Further more having come back home after a few weeks my fathers health deteriorated. He failed to talk freely which after a fw weeks progressively became worse. Even with me having a new baby to deal with it was again me taking full care of my father even when other siblings were around. It was I who notified the Gp got the rapid response team involved to check dad out day in day out for over a week now. Whilst all this was going on. In parallel mum was also unwell and she mentioned chest pains to my siblings. And then to me on one occasion which due her history I called the gp and furthermore notified emergency services. In summary she experienced heart failure and its almost two weeks that she remains in hospital. I have been going almost everyday to visit her and speaking to the a doctor’s about the status of her condition. Yet with all this going on I have also tried to look for a job as I my role was made redundant over 3 months ago. I have been getting very little support upto now and really been trying to support others, new baby, wife, mother and father. Also keeping my eyes on maintaining the home keeping up to date with the shopping and bills which I am fully responsible for getting absolutely no support from those siblings working. With all this going on my siblings still have the nerve to say I am not doing enough for my parents. Making astonishing comments and holding me to a barrell reminding me of sins I have done over 20 years ago as a means of playing ball.Now what do I do my faith is dwindling. I continue to pray and read Quran and attend lectures and courses. But now feel really disheartened and very disappointed with my siblings. Feel my emaan is taking a dive and I am reaching out to anyone a cry….What should I do im only human. Should I look to relocate with wife and baby nearby still close proximity to parents? I am the only son and single sisters live with us at the moment with no urgency to get married.

Answer:

Salam alaykum,

Stay positive with everyone, focus on the blessings in your life, make a list of them and give thanks every day. Join a gathering of dhikr and keep your salat. Recite Astaghfirullah x100-1000 daily.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Zakat to Sister

Question:

Are you able to give Zakat to your own blood sister, who has no husband or children? Sister does not have much to live on, lives alone.

Answer:

If she is poor or financially dependent, then yes.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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