Breaking relationship

Question:

Have been married for 20+ years and tried every level to save my marriage; no respect, no relation for 7 years. An affair with younger sister since 14 years confirmed, gambling all the time. I just stayed for Allah and kids. I just waited that they should grow up and judge what is right and wrong. Now I can’t tolerate anything, anger and abused life, I can’t bear it. I am very much disturbed and my kids are disturbed. My one girl starts abusing me since 4 years old. Husband’s in-laws are also with me. My husband is rich man. In-laws and husband’s negative shaitan attitude has ruined my angel kids. Please help me, guide me by Islamic rules. I’m ready for everything. I have done every dua and every action. He hates me, only kept for kids. Dua for me.

Answer:

Make a list of the blessings in your life and add to it something new every day. Recite Ya Razzaq Ya Shakur x100-1000 daily. This will help banish anger and sadness from your heart and clear your vision in sha Allah. Have patience, Allah loves those with patience.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Isthikhara dream

Dream:

Salam alaykoum,

I am studying history and asked someone to make isthikhara for my work, this person dreamt:

You worked in a store. I came to see you and you were behind your wooden counter and walls were beige, you had money in yours hand. You wore kamis and white turban and you came to me to send me salam.

Sorry for my English.
JazakAllahkhayr . Wasalam.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa alaykum salam,

Alhamdulillah, a good sign seeing you adorned with the turban, a sunnah of the Prophet (s). As the Sahaba were both devout in their worship and most were active in their merchant activities as well, consider a career that is interesting and profitable to you while at the same time beneficial to your community. Success is from Allah, and Allah knows best.

Abdul Karim

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Permission dhikr & hadra

Question:

Assalaamaleykum,

In 2003 I visited Mawlana Shaykh in Lefke where he unexpectedly gave me ijaza to lead Khatmul Khawajagan. At this time the hadra was not yet being done openly in the dergah. Do I now need separate ijaza to lead the hadra or is it automatic? I ask since many (younger) attendants want to do hadra.

Jazakallah.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

You do not need fresh ijaza.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Guardian of Jannah

Dream:

AsSalamuAlaikum,

I was in front of a door of Jannah like a guard, and I saw people rushing towards the door. I was waiting for them and I saw many pretty black women running towards the door. I got close to them and started to hug them and they kissed my hand, and there were some men running also towards the door. I was going to stop them, but they just ran past me. I said, whatever, let them enjoy it also.

May Allah be pleased with all of us.

Interpretation:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem
BismillahirRahmanirRahim:

Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah,

Being at the gate represents taqwa. The women represent Allah’s manifestations of beauty that attract you more than His Majestic Qualities.

Wallahu Alam,

Kamau Ayubbi

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Sholat Jumu’ah

Question:

Assalamu’alaikum Wr.Wb

Now, I am living in abroad for study. Actually near my dormitory there is big mosque. But some of people (just 3 persons) with the same country with me urge me to pray sholat Jumu’ah with them in apartment rent by one of them, even the distance is further than the near mosque. They argue that they have to follow their Amir’s ijtihad that should pray sholat Jumu’ah together with their own group except in Arab. What should I do? Thank you very much.

Answer:

Wa alaikum salam wr wb

Bismillahi-r Rahmani-r Rahim:

It is best to follow the majority of muslims In that country in observing your Jumu’ah in the mosque.

Wallahu A’lam.

Muhammad Razib


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Dream: Physical beauty

Dream:

If it’s relevant, I’m trying to lose a few pounds in real life and be healthier. I dreamed that I became friends with a famous supermodel. (I have no idea why; I don’t follow the fashion scene.) She told me that I should audition to become a model like her, because I’d most likely succeed. In the dream I thanked her and said I’d try, and I think I intended to. (In real life, however, I have no interest in modeling. Aside from the fact that I’m a normal person with normal features, I’m not comfortable with the revealing clothes models wear. But I’m really curious – what could this have possibly meant? It was so unlike anything pertaining to my life.)

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

This dream can mean that you are aware of your ego’s desires who likes to be (like) the supermodel, etc. Remind your ego that we live a temporary life,  and the hereafter is the real life.

And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Nafs

Question:

Asalam Alaykum,

Over time, I’ve noticed that whenever I become closer to the path of tasawwuf, my nafs starts getting stronger. Astaghfirullah. I am so depressed due to my state, I never ever purposely think of haram or indulge in such sins, but I see bad dreams and have bad thoughts when ever I want to become closer to Allah & RasulAllah (s).

I keep thinking this is not me, I hate haram things- but where is this coming from? Please tell me why this is happening, is shaytan burning because I’m doing dhikr and trying to remember Allah more, or are these the filthy traits of my own nafs coming out before me as part of a cleansing process? Also, if this is cleansing my inner soul, please make dua that I soon be free and away from all that Allah & the Beloved SalAllahuAlahiWasallam dislike.

May Allah bless you.

Answer:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa `alaykumu s-salāmu wa rahmatu l-lāhi wa barakātuh,

Insha Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

You may follow the advice on this post,  and read Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani’s explanation about this state called Maqam al Talweeb, the colored station.

And Allah knows best.

Wissam

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Vibrations, Astral Spiders & Symptoms

Question:

Bismillah Ir-Rehman Ir-Raheem

Assalamu-Alaikum:

Randomly, I see astral or etheric spiders that flash blue/green/white. Also, a hotness attaches to my spinal cord and disturbs my sleep continuously (though I sleep on wudu, 3 Quls, and Ayat-ul-Kursi). I experience strong body vibrations up and down the length of my back and legs; also, my mattress separately vibrates. Consequently, I feel drained of energy, though I try to keep my wudu. Also, I sense a strong “rose smell.” Please ask Mawlana Sheikh Hisham to please give me some small adhkar/wazifa to combat what seems satanic/jinn disturbances. Some other information for diagnosis purpose is that I recite no other adhkar except what I can manage, and I have also not been been able to recite any awrad (mubtadi level).

Any insight into the matter will be much appreciated. Jazkallah Khayran.

Alahumma sale ala Muhammadin wa ala ale Muhammadin wa sallam.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Do your best to continue your salat and dhikr regularly without interruption. In sha Allah your state will improve and you will find energy to read the beginner’s wird.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Stealing my perfume

Dream:

Assalamualaikum W.W.,

Dear respected staff at eShaykh please assist with interpretation of my dreams. It is a matter of importance as I am presently unemployed and my friend offered me work and  while I was waiting for my starting date to be given I was offered another job elsewhere which paid twice the salary. I made istikhara soalaah and dreamed that my friend admitted to me in this dream that he was stealing my perfume which I received as a gift from Makkah-al Mukarrama. Please advise and provide explanation of this dream.

Jazakallah Khaire.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,

Take the better paying job and be cautious.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Butcher’s knife

Dream:

I saw a person in white (a person who once told me he wishes to marry me, but I don’t think we can as he is already married). Then I saw that in a room there is a small suit case in the center a man comes in with a butchers knife and goes around that suit case in circle. Then again that person comes and this time he has a sharp knife in his hand I get scared. I run into a room where someone is sleeping and I close the door and then I woke up and it was Fajr time. Jazakumulahukhair.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

This dream can mean that two men are talking about you, and their knifes are their tongues. To stay safe from  them do the dikr of “Hasbunal lahu wa nimal wakeel” at least 300 times a day. Insh’Allah things will change to the best.

And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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