Prayer Request: Husband hibernates

Request:

Salaam wa aleikum dear Eshaykh,

My husband suffers from a condition that makes him go to sleep basically 3-4 months every year in the winter. He was treated for seasonal depression but stopped it a few months ago. I believe Allah is providing, but I am concerned about his work and how this sickness affects our family , since he is the one working, I stay home to raise our kids. Please, I need advice and prayers from Mawlana.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for your husband.

Allah knows best that your husband maybe is in a special spiritual hal during that time, and that is why he seems asleep. Don’t bother him and insha-Allah all will be well.

Recite: Ya Kafi, Ya Shafee, Ya Mu`afee 100x daily and Salawat al-Fatih for your husband’s health and provision.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Forest

Dream:

I’m in a jungle its full of green trees of guavas and I am getting scared from something unseen. I’m running here and there from under the trees of guavas. My hair is open and very beautiful. My aunt was showing me the right way and she is guiding me and trying to save me from harmful things.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

It shows that you need to take the hand of a murshid (represented by your auntie) who will guide you and save you from the wilderness of your ego. Seeing yourself with beautiful hair open represent the fear of wrong doing.

And Allah knows best.

Wissam

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Hajj

Question:

Assalamualaykum,

I would like to clarify in sequence of performing Hajj can we do tawaf ifada then follow by 1st stoning jamrah aqabah? And what is the correct time to do tawaf ifada and stoning jamrah aqabah.

Jazakallahu khair.

Answer:

`Alaykum Salam,

The first stoning at Jamrat al-`Aqaba is supposed to come before Tawaf al-Ifada in all Four Schools, however it is allowed and is not offensive in the Shafi`i and Hanbali Schools to do Tawaf al-Ifada first, followed by the first stoning.

The time bracket for Tawaf al-Ifada is from Fajr time on 10 Dul-Hijja according to Hanafis and Malikis, and from mid-night before 10 Dhul-Hijja according to Shafi`is and Hanbalis. Its permissible time has no end in one’s whole lifetime according to the latter two schools, but Malikis said an expiatory sacrifice is due if tawaf is done after the month of Dhul-Hijja while Imam Abu Hanifa said an expiatory sacrifice is due if tawaf is delayed beyond 12 Dhul-Hijja.

As for the stoning of Jamrat al-`Aqabah its timing similarly starts from Fajr time on 10 Dul-Hijja according to Hanafis and Malikis, and from mid-night before 10 Dhul-Hijja according to Shafi`is and Hanbalis. Its permissible time ends at Fajr time on 11 Dhul-Hijja for the Hanafis and at Maghrib time on 11 Dhul-Hijja for the Malikis, while Shafi`is and Hanbalis consider it permissible until the end of the Days of Tashriq (Maghrib time on 13 Dhul-Hijja) because they are all days of stoning.

[Source: Dr. Nur al-Din `Itr, al-Hajj wal-`Umra fil-Fiqh al-Islami].

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Hearing of the Dead

Question:

as salamu ‘alaykum,

Respected Shaykh Haddad,

1) I will be thankful if you can you kindly provide the complete analysis of this narration along with different chains of narration and its grading:

When one passes by the grave of his mu’min brother who he had known in the dunya, and stands at the qabr and says, `Assalamu `alaykum’, the person in the qabr will know him and also return his greeting. [ Majmu`a Fatawa Ibn Taymiyah, 24:331]

2) How is it possible to get the copy of 1361/ 1942 edition of Kitab al-naqd `ala al-jahmiyya by Uthman ibn Sa`id al-Darimi, since the edition uploaded on internet is that of 1985.

Shukran.

Answer:

[This is an important question on the HEARING OF THE DEAD.]

`Alaykum Salam,

1) It is narrated:

I. from Ibn `Abbas, from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) by Ibn `Abd al-Barr in al-Istidhkar (2:165 no. 1858) and al-Tamhid with a sound chain according to `Abd al-Haqq al-Ishbili in his Ahkam al-Sughra (1:345) cf. al-Ahkam al-Kubra (2:546) and al-Wusta (2:152), al-`Ayni in `Umdat al-Qari (bab Ziyarat al-qubur), and al-Shawkani in Nayl al-Awtar but this is all an incorrect grading since Ibn `Abd al-Barr’s chain contains two to three unknowns and is therefore weak.

II. as a saying of Abu Hurayra by:

(i) Ibn Abi al-Dunya in al-Qubur as related by al-Suyuti in al-Hawin (2:302):

عن محمد بن قدامة الجوهري عن معن بن عيسى القزار عن هشام بن سعد عن زيد بن أسلم عن أبي هريرة قال إذا مر الرجل بقبر يعرفه فسلم عليه رد عليه السلام وعرفه وإذا مر بقبر لا يعرفه فسلم عليه رد عليه السلام

(ii) al-Bayhaqi in Shu`ab al-Iman (7:17 no. 9296) through Ibn Abi al-Dunya with the same  chain as above.

Ibn Abi al-Dunya’s chain is also weak because of Muhammad b. Qudama al-Jawhari and Hisham b. Sa`d, and because it is broken between Zayd b. Aslam and Abu Hurayra.

III. from Abu Hurayra, from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) by:

(i) al-Khatib in Tarikh Baghdad (6:137)
(ii) Tammam al-Razi in his Fawa’id (1:75 no. 139)
(iii) Ibn `Asakir in Tarikh Dimashq (10:380)

Imam al-Suyuti declared its chain good (jayyid) in his Jami` al-Kabir but this chain is also  weak due to the unanimous weakening of its narrator `Abd al-Rahman b. Zayd b. Aslam as stated by Ibn Tahiral-Qaysarani in Ma`rifat al-Tadhkira, Ibn al-Jawzi in al-`Ilal al-Mutanahiya (2:429-430=2:911 no. 1523), al-Dhahabi in Mizan al-I`tidal under `Abd al-Rahman b. Zayd and others. See al-Ahdab, Zawa’id Tarikh Baghdad (5:174 no. 885).

Ibn Taymiyya in his Majmu` al-Fatawa (24:331) claimed that Ibn al-Mubarak said it is established as authentic from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) but I could not find this mentioned anywhere.

Something similar is narrated from `A’isha (may Allah be well-pleased with her and all the Companions), from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) through `Abd Allah b. Sam`an who is discarded according to Ibn Rajab and others, however, al-Zabidin in the Ithaf (10:365) said this is actually `Abd Allah b. Muhammad b. Sam`an who is  trustworthy.

In conclusion the report has a basis by which it can be considered acceptable due to its multiple chains even if they are all weak, and it is confirmed by other hadiths that show the reality of the hearing of the dead such as the hadith of the dead of Badr and other reports as discussed at length by Imam al-Tabari in Tahdhib al-Aathaar where he said: “A large number of the Predecessors among the scholars of the Community said that the dead hear the speech of the living, whence the Prophet’s address to those buried in the well [at Badr]. They also said that his words to the Companions, ‘You certainly do not hear any better than they do,’ are the most resplendent exposition of the truth of what we have said: namely, that the dead hear the speech of the living.”
(Tahdhib al-Aathaar 2:491).

Al-Tabari then proceeds to narrates 14 Prophetic hadiths to that effect and, twenty pages down, introduces a chapter entitled “Mention of those of the Predecessors who asserted the Soundness of those Reports and said ‘Truly the Dead hear the Speech of the Living, and Speak, and are Cognizant,’ after which he narrates 11 reports from Abu Hurayra, Ibn  Mas`ud, Jabir, and some of the Tabi`in to that effect. He concludes:

It is therefore obligatory to firmly assert that Allah makes anyone of His creation hear, after their death, whatever He wishes of the speech of living human beings as well as other creatures in any way He wishes, and He makes whomever among them He wishes understand whatever He wishes, and He grants bliss to whomever of them He likes with whatever He likes, and He punishes the unbeliever in his grave and whoever of
them deserves punishment in any way He wishes, just as the narrations and reports from the Messenger of Allah state. (Tahdhib al-Aathaar 2:518-519).

Among the subsequent authorities who positively asserted the reality of the hearing of the dead in their works or legal responses are:

• Ibn `Abd al-Salam in his Fatawa Mawsiliyya (pp. 100-101);

• al-Nawawi in the chapter of his Sharh Sahih Muslim entitled al-Janna wa-Sifat Na`imiha;

• Ibn al-Qayyim in the opening chapter of his Kitab al-Ruh;

• Ibn Hajar al-`Asqalani in al-Jawab al-Kafi `an al-Su’al al-Khafi, in which he replies to twenty-nine questions pertaining to the state of the dead in the graves.

• al-Sakhawi in his magisterial treatise on the address to those recently buried (talqin) entitled al-Idah wal-Tabyin bi-Mas’alat al-Talqin;

• al-Suyuti in the opening fatwa of the first part of the responses on Resurrection in his Hawi lil-Fatawa (2:169-175 Mabhath al-Ma`ad, Ahwal al-Barzakh);

• the Hanafi jurist Muhammad `Abid al-Sindi al-Ansari in his treatise Hawl al-Tawassul wal-Istighatha (pp. 170-181) takes issue with the majority position of his school, according to which the dead can hear only immediately after their burial and before they are questioned by the angels and not thereafter. Indeed, the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) waited THREE FULL DAYS before addressing the dead Makkans in the well of Badr (al-Bukhari, Maghazi, Qatl Abu Jahl; Muslim, al-Janna wa-Sifat Na`imiha). He also mentioned that (i) Sayyida `A’isha’s denial of the hearing of the dead was not based on direct witnessing of the events at Badr but upon reports through intermediaries; (ii) the possibility that she changed her understanding later, since she addressed her brother `Abd al-Rahman in his grave a month after he had been buried (Sunan al-Tirmidhi, Jana’iz, Ma Ja’a fil-Ziyarati lil-Qubur lil-Nisa’; al-Bayhaqi, Sunan 4:49).

• the unpublished 42-page Tawdih al-Bayyinat fi Sama` al-Amwat (1306/1888, mistitled Tarjih al-Bayyinat in the Azhar manuscript library catalogue) by the Mufti of Basra, `Abd al-Wahhab b. `Abd al-Fattah al-Hijazi al-Baghdadi

• the 500-page Tadhkirat al-Rashid bi-Radd Tabsirat al-Naqid by the Hanafi Imam al-Laknawi;

• the 300-page Hayat al-Mawat fi Bayan Sama` al-Amwat by the Hanafi Imam Ahmad Rida Khan in Urdu — Allah Most High have mercy on them all.

2) you will find the Dar al-Kutub al-`Ilmiyya offset reprint of the original 1358 edition under the title رد الإمام الدارمي عثمان بن سعيدعلى بشر المريسي العنيد.pdf.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: The end of the world

Question:

As Salaam,

I had a dream that I was walking out of a house with my family, My late grandfather who past away a few weeks ago was infront of me. As we walk out we saw 2 clouds. 1 with a lightning bolt shooting down and the other with a tornado. My grandfather then immediately started reciting Allah hu akbar and we all started after that because we knew it was the end of the world. When we looked to the sky we saw even more of the same clouds paired together and then 2 huge 1’s forming and we kept reciting Allah hu akbar.

Shukran.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

A good dream illustrating Surat al-Takwir, Infitar and similar Qur’anic descriptions of what you said. Seeing your grandfather signifies you will follow in his pious footsteps in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Wall of City

Dream:

Assalmu Alaikum Ya Sheikh,

I saw that a big outer wall of city or a big home just fell on outer side. After a few days Sandy Hurricane came. What could be possible interpretation.
JazakAllah.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa alaykumusalaam,

This dream can mean that you are going to be safe from calamities.

And Allah (awj) knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Dream: Counting Money

Dream:

Assalamu Alaikum,

I just had a dream where a rather large beggar came to one of the windows expectantly at the side of our house. Upon seeing him, I went to a cupboard and pulled out a large wad of notes. Counting through them, I pulled out a $450 American note intending to give to him. I however go looking for a $20 Australian note instead. While going to look for it elsewhere, I wake up thinking the man was unusually big, for some reason the man looked like the host of an Islamic TV program.

The night previous I had wrongly read Ya Musabal Asbab, instead of Musabibal Asbab as indicated on wazifas.com (as well as others on the website). I don’t know if theres a correlation, please advise, Jazak Allah khairan.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,

The Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) advised against counting money as it stands for distrust in the bounty of Allah. This particular dream also points to a big need for more generosity toward the poor through zakat and sadaqa.

Hajj Gibril Haddd

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Dream: Cookies and Meat

Dream:

I had a dream I was walking into an outdoor sweetshop. I saw some bakery and told the baker to leave me aside a cookie. I then proceeded to break bits of three other cookies laying on the table and ate them (very delicious). The shop owner asked me whether I was going to pay for them at which I replied I will when I get back to pick up the cookie. When I cam back, I *think* I saw a cookie being taken out of an oven but this cookie had dates in it. I then went into the kitchen of the shop and saw a man cut up water melon which I think I ate and I also saw a koala bear with its legs cut off (ready to be cooked).

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

It shows that you will have an opening in this dunya (either business or job) that will increase your rizq insh Allah.

And Allah knows best.

Wissam

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Dream: Gold pendant

Dream:

As salaamu Alikum,

Last night I had a dream in which I saw I am looking out of my bedroom window as I looked on the sky 3 beautiful gold pendants are coming down from sky one by one. When the 3rd gold pendant came it was so big and more beautiful than the other two. I saw this dream 15 mins before Fajar prayer.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa alaykumusalaam,

This dream can mean that three men are going to ask for your hand and you are going to make the best choice, Masha’Allah.

And Allah (awj) knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Dua to meet Angels

Question:

Assalamu alaikum,

I want to know how to see hazrat Sayyidina Jibril (the Angel) in dreams or in vision. How does he look like? I have seen an other angel in my vision before, just before I woke up. He was in white room, wearing white clothes, handsome bald tall guy, looked just like human, angel without wings. I woke up there, on the bed. It was a different dimension, not my own bedroom. Is it possible to see this same angel again (maybe he is my guardian angel, or an angel who is watching over me when I was sleeping). I want to know his name, how to call him again. And how to communicate with him, or with other angels. Is there a way to see them with open eyes, when awake? Or to hear their voice, to communicate? Any dua’s? Thank you.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

The description of Sayyidina Jibril (upon him peace) in the reports is that he has 600 wings, each pair of which is large enough to cover up the entire horizon from East to West, and from them pearls and jewels are strewn, in the sense of radiance of light as angels are made of light, and Allah knows best. As for seeing angels, al-Hakim related that the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said to Ibn `Abbas: “No one sees an angel except they go blind.” al-Suyuti said: “Meaning seeing them in the miraculous sense.” However, many reports state that angels are near those who are involved in dua, dhikr, salawat and good deeds.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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