Haram relationship

Question:

Salamu aleykum,

I have been struggling with a serious issue–see previous post–for over a year and half, but I haven’t found a way out despite the duas I’ve been performing (my family assists me). I know that patience is essential while tested, but as I think over this whole experience, I realize what is holding me down: relationships that go against Shari’a law.

I’ve unfortunately been in two of the kind; since, one ended, but I am still engage in an internet correspondence with a woman (Christian) that involves love, pictures, and the such. My question is what is the ruling about nikah (temporary, I am a student and/or permanent) over the internet? Can I get assist here with a “eShayk” here in case it is permissible?

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

It is not permissible and there is no such thing. Marriage is best so try to do it in the way that brings you true benefit.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Shaykh Nuh’s Iman, Kufr and Takfir

Question:

Asalmualaykum,

Is Shaykh Nuh Keller correct in his article Iman, Kufr and Takfir in the principles of takfir and historical reports.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Take what is correct in your view and leave the rest.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Name for first child

Request:

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ya Mawlana,
May Allah raise your station and always kept you on health and extend your long life.

Mawlana, I came from a dark lifestyle, but Alhamdulillah, since i join this tariqa my life is full of happiness.

Masya Allah Mawlana, Subhanallah there are so much to thank, and the future is promising too. Alhamdulillah. This is all because of your love on us, thank you my Mawlana for guiding us.

I’ve been married for a year, and Alhamdulillah my wife who memorise Quran is expecting our first child since the last of May. And now we humbly ask for your baraka to name our first child, may Allah instill in him/her good manner, always to be in your presence and Prophet Shalallahu alayhi wa salam.

We humbly thank you ya Mawlana for this honor, Alhamdulillah.
Wassalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

Response:

Alaykum Salam,

If boy Muhammad Khayr or Abdullah or Zakariyya.
If girl Tasnim, Sajida or Zaynab.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Worried

Request:

Salaam to Maulana Shaykh Nazim & Maulana Shaykh Hisham.

Since around 7 months of age I’ve seen my child press his legs together & with pressure move the lower body. I took the child to doctor & was told it was constipation.. The child has had a lot of constipation. The child is 2 yrs now & the movement continues a couple or more times, if the child is distracted the child then moves away & continues the movement. I’m very concerned as a parent. Please help me to understand why this is happening to my child. Could it be black magic? My other child hasn’t had this problem.. I request you do dua for my child & family…I am grateful & thankful for your time & efforts, May Allah (swt) bless us all (Amin).

Response:

Alaykum Salam,

Make aqiqa, slaughter of a lamb or goat and give away one leg. You can eat the rest and share with relatives.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Reading Quran & hadith

Question:

Dear shaykh Salam wr wb,

I’m in need to ask:

1) Can we read Quran from computer, mobile iphone, ipad without wudu, if you’re clean (body & clothes), and same question for during menses. Can a woman read it the above way? Also, same question for hadith in Arabic, English, Urdu text. Jazak allah khair.

Answer:

Be in wudu when reading Qur’an whether from the mushaf or other electronic devices. For women in their menses, they may recite from memory, if not recite Salawat upon Prophet s.a.w.

Abdul Shakur

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Dream: Small boy with soother in his mouth

Dream:

Salamu alaykum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuhu.

I dreamed few days ago a small cute beautiful boy with his soother still in his mounth. I asked him, what’s your name? He answered me, My name is Abdul-Mujib. I could hear that very clear even when he had the soother in his mouth. Please interpret for me.

May Allah Azzawadjal give long healthy life to shaykh Nazim and shaykh Hisham.Takbir-alfatiha.Allahumma salli wa sallim ala Nabiyina Mohammed.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa `alaykumu s-salāmu wa rahmatu l-lāhi wa barakātuh,

It shows that your soul will be dressed with the reality and the secrets of that name as the boy in your dream represents your soul.

And Allah knows best.

Wissam

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Prayer Request: Good to Bad

Request:

Salaam,

I previously requested a prayer, and my answer was that I should go ahead with man I was getting to know, for marriage. I was told it was rather a blessing. But 1 month ago, things between us started getting nasty. He has now left me, without saying a reason. Since his father passed away he has not been the same. We have now stopped talking. I really do love him but he does not seem to understand. Please could you help me. My name is [private]. His names is [private]. His mothers name is [private]. Please could you help me out.

Response:

Alaykum Salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you. Recite Hasbiya Allah wa ni’ma al-Wakil x1000 daily. Allah will provide.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dreaming of white

Question:

Asslamo alaikum,

This Ramzan I saw dream of a horse that was white in colour and he was playful with me and friendly towards me. I was shy of him, I’d turn away to walk, but he hugged me from behind.

Another dream I saw where I was wearing white clothes and i had some silverish jewellery also. I was offering my friend that jewellery and even the white clothes I was wearing I offered her.

Answer:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa alaykum as salaam,

This dream can mean that you are going to meet a noble man represented by the horse. The second one can mean that you are very
generous with your friend.

And Allah (awj) knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Metaphysical body & energy

Question:

slm dear shaykh,

I would like to know how I can protect my metaphysical body particularly my stomach. Strange things are happening and I think someone else is controlling my thoughts, and my stomach is so tight and in pain constantly. Acid is constantly moving through up to my head, I need to now how I can close my self up and protect myself also I tend to pick up others feelings and emotions just by sitting with them this is wrecking havoc on my mind am very worn out with this please help and explain to me how can someone else access your mind and soul etc. How can you protect yourself I read all the prescribed surahs such as Quls, dua Ayatul Kursi, Surah Mulk, Fatiha! I think I need to learn more about energy and how it works where could I get more information and support.

Answer:

Consult with physician. No one can access, however when the ego is weakened the spirit strengthens. So get strength through dhilkr especially group, and keep company with the righteous and awliya in sha Allah you will improve.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Crumbling teeth

Dream:

Asalaamualaikum dear Sayadi,

I dreamt that all of my teeth starting from the back of my jaw started crumbling and falling out, I could feel moderate pain in the dream. My mother told me to hold the teeth in my hands, so as my teeth fell out they fell into my hands. When I looked at my hands it was though the teeth had dissolved into clear water and I had a new set of teeth.
Jazak’Allah khair.

Interpretation:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:

Wa Alaykum Salam,

This dream can mean that among all your family from your mother’s and father’s side, you will have the longest life.

And Allah (awj) knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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