Prayer Request: Unity in family

Request:

Asalaam o alikum sheiksab,
I am really very sad that although we have a very small family yet we are not happy with each other. I feel very upset and it is affecting my health also. I have 2 daughter-in-laws but they do not take care of me or my husband, but I take care of their children and do the cooking also. One of them is not working and does not do any housework also
Thanking you
Response:

`Alaykum salam,
Practice patience and make lots of doa, recite Salatun Naariyah while cooking food for the entire family or any salawat with niat and doa. Recite Salawat Shifa for your health, and “Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum” 1000x everyday, or “Ya Majid” 99x after every each fard prayer, or “Ya Rahim” 100x everyday.

Hajjah Faridah

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Prayer Request: Vertigo

Request:

As salamualaikum,
PLEASE forward this message to Shyakh Muhammad Hisham, with Allah’s Mercy. Ya Shaykh, my name is [private], I am a Bruneian, may Allah bless you. Forgive me for my adab, but I have a very disturbing problem. With Allah’s name, PLEASE pray for me ya Shaykh!

My doctor diagnosed me with ‘Vertigo’, a chronic type of dizziness. Persons with this disease will see things moving while they are stationary. I cannot go to mosque like I always did every night to do the Shalah with Jema’ah. I am still a student. Insha Allah, I will having undergraduate in Bachelor of Shariah and Bachelor of Law. I am really worried if this disease will make me disabled. I am the eldest son in my family, and will be the backbone of my family in the future. Please Shyakh, please du’a for me.

Response:

`Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you. Give sadaqa daily even small.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Permission for wazifa of Hazrat Da’ud A.S Dua for marriage

Request:

Asalam O Alaikum Warehmatullah e Wabarakatuhu!
May God bless the whole staff working here. I need permission for doing wazifa of Dua of Harzrat Da’ud (a.s) for marriage and love. Seven months ago we got into each other and our families too accept us for each other. Due to desperation I got rude with that guy had fights for no reason, hurt him a lot and its being like everything is resolved now but still somehow he is now cold to me and started thinking of his first love. And I really feel regret over my attitude. I want to get married as soon as possible and want to fix up all the cold mess between us. He also intend to marry me but I want to eliminate that cold wall in relationship. I will be very thankful to you for granting me the permission.

Jazakallah

Response:

`Alaykum Salam,
You have permission. Try also to be patient and improve communication.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Can men wear white gold?

Question:

Salam,
Can you please ask Maulana whether wearing of white gold ring is permissible for man or not. Thanks.

Answer:

W’salaam,
White gold still falls under the rules of gold, as it is an alloy of gold with another metal. So for men, this is not permissible.

Wallahu A’lam

Abdul Shakur

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About lost salat

Question:

`Assalamu alaykum,
I have started to repent on my past activities in this Ramadan. I have been avoiding salat a lot now I have a bad feeling for my self, there are thousands of salat that I have avoided. I know I have to cover those salats as soon as possible. But I want to know whether I can recite duroods and dhikrs at this time and also can I do sunnah salat like tahajjud taraweeh at this time? And also can I read Quran?

Please reply this I really need the answer of this :)

Answer:

`Alaykum Salam,
You can do all the voluntary worship you mentioned but its reward is suspended until the fard is made up.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: White light, La ilaha illaAllah

Question:

Dream two hours before fajr: I was reciting la ilaha illallah in the position that I was sleeping in. I felt awake and recitation became louder, the whole room I can only see white everywhere. I felt like Allah (swt) controlling me and I was being moved around room and all the time I was ecstatically reciting, louder and louder. I had no control. Then I would gain a little bit of control and the more fervently I recited it the more I lost control. Sometimes, I was shaking in my lying place and fast heartbeat, but had no control over it. In dream I felt Allah (swt) is controlling me. Then I suddenly woke up in same position that I was in my dream and I was breathing fast. I didn’t feel like it was a dream, until I woke up and realised I was sleeping and it was a dream.

Answer:

Continue as you are in a good state in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Excessive thinking about Islam

Question:

Assalamalikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuhu, may Allah (swt) give Mawlana and his family long life. Because of excessive thinking and talking to my self about those I love; my Creator Allah (swt), my beloved leader master Muhammad and spiritual teacher Mawlana. I cannot even go out because I can’t bear to look at the non-Muslims, or watch TV because it reminds me of waswas and now eshaykh because of the horrible questions people have asked about what others have done to the ones I love as it’s ruining my joy in salah, awrad. I fear every evil word. It’s just my mind that’s troubling. I feel as if i can’t control as it is dangerous for me when sitting quiet and also when praying I fear when I want to pray with humbleness and focus like I used to. Is it because of being stuffed in the house?

Answer:

`Alaykum Salam,
Try not to be pessimistic as this is not the way of Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) or his Awliya, but rather cheerful and helpful.
Attend the group dhikr in your area assiduously and you will get better
in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Istekhara for marriage

Question:

Salam, I want your kind consideration for my issue which is istekhara for marriage. My name is [private], my mother name is [private]. His name is [private] and his mother name is [private]. Kindly guide me that is it good for me. May ALLAH bless us all.

Answer:

`Alaykum Salam,
In sha Allah
you may go ahead if he prays, and trust in Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Late marriage

Request:

Salaam, may ALLAH bless our Habib Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and others.I am an unmarried girl soon going to be 30. In between there came a few good proposals interested in me. But suddenly withdraws from that without saying a”yes or no.” Also I don’t have a steady job. Thinking that my valuable youth time is getting spoiled without a chance to enjoy the beauty and sweetness of married life, without a good career I am losing interest in this world. Recently a good proposal came. They called us frequently, we liked each other. But then it seems as if something is blocking that guy from me. I am having shaiytaniyath (snake) dosha and its there in my body and I see snakes in dream like biting, tracing. Is this blocking that guy from me? Shaikh please pray  and give an effective dua for a response from them (only then we can analyse its good or bad) and to remove my marriage obstacles. Kindly requesting a fast reply.

Response:

`Alaykum Salam,
Keep in the best way with Allah (prayer on time) and recite last three Suras of Qur’an before sleep. Insha Allah things will improve.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Isme azam

Question:

Salaam,

My name is [private]and I am from Pakistani I have a question. That I know their is an Isme azam in Hizbul Bahar and I think its kaf ha’ ya’ ‘ayn sad, and nobody knows the meaning except prophet Mohammad peace be upon him it represents name of Allah is that the secret name of Allah which every dua is accepted please answer my question as soon as possible! Thank you.

Answer:

`Alaykum Salam,

See the second half of Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s Ramadan 1433/2012 suhbas on that topic

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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