Self-proclaimed lesbian friend

Question:

Assalamualaikum,

I’m a girl and have been friends with another girl for a few years now. While I have no feelings whatsoever for her, she has feelings for me. She admitted them to me and tries to get affectionate with me. I’m thankful to have her as a friend as she looks out for me, but her feelings towards me makes me VERY uncomfortable.

She has had sexual dreams of us a few times and texts me these dreams, to which I do not reply.

I have spoken to her about this before and have ignored her many times as I feel VERY uncomfortable and burdened. If she stops making moves on me, I’d have no problems being her friend.

As a Muslimah,
-am I doing wrong by ignoring a fellow sister?
-how do I rectify this problem?

Thank you so much.
May Allah bless all of you at eshaykh!

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Keep ignoring her, and stay away from her. Pray two raka`ats and ask Allah to protect you, and stay away from her.

Hajjah Naziha

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