Difficulty dealing with lust and concentrating on studies


Assalam alaikoem Sayidi,
The thought of paying for intimacy with a lady crossed my mind a lot, to say it nicely.
Two nights ago I made an appointment with a lady to come over to my house, with the instruction we would only hug and not more and she could leave. I would pay her. She would come morning. The same night I prayed and cried a lot. The whole night couldn’t sleep, my heart was racing. When morning broke it became clear the lady wouldn’t come knocking at my door. I was relieved. I’m still very afraid I might lose any control I have over myself. What can I do?


A`udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem

wa `alaykum salam,
Alhamdulillah. Inshaa-Allah you may follow the advice given here and here.


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