About tarbya and group zhikr

Question:

As salaam aykum

How is the process of Taribya in our tariqah?

My second question is I live at a distance so I’m not near any zawiyah Or I can attend the weekly gatherings so what is recommended for me to do it to try to participate in group zhikr.

Answer:

wa ‘alaykum salam,

Tarbiyya comes by connecting with the Shaykh, whether in person or afar. Try to keep the presence of the Shaykh, so that you feel he is observing you in every situation.

Try to attend Dhikr session in person, even if only once in a month, or if not possible once every three months or even at minimum once a year. The remainder of the time follow consistently and devotedly the Dhikr Majlis broadcast on Sufilive.com with Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani or his representative Dr. Nour Kabbani. The benefit of online attendance is immense. Allah knows best.

Taher Siddiqui

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Golden snow

Question:

Im climbing a mountain in my hometown with my dad, uncle n few other people, reach the top, see that it’s our own house,stay for some time n begin going down the mountain. There feather shape golden snow begins to fall, no clouds, as if falling from sun.

Answer:

Beautiful dream, where snow on the mountain signifies knowledge of Allah swt. This is where your heart resides, and to that position was guided by your father and Awliyaullah and Allah knows best.

Taher Siddiqui

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Many dreams of Naqshbandi Shaykhs over 12 months – sign I should take bayyah?

Question:

Several dreams of Naqshbandi Haqani mashaykh, including Sultan ul Awliya. In one dream I took bayyah from Sh Mehmet and another where I took bayyah from Sh Hisham. I am from another Tariqah but have fallen in love with the Naqshbandi Haqqani way.

Answer:

Shaykh Hisham Kabbani says:
Baya`
over baya` is ‘light upon Light’ (Quran 24:35).”

Aziz Hussein

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I have a Prayer request for shaykh to do for marriage.

Prayer Request:

Aslamualaikum Shaykh.
I have now decided that I want to get married and settle down with the right person. I am hoping if you can do dua for me shaykh. For me to be married to an honest, trustworthy and loyal man.
Jazakhallah khair

Answer:

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Taher Siddiqui

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Clarification regarding Qasida Jaljalutiyya

Question:

السلام علیکم۔

In answer to one question, Haji Gibril Haddad advised against the recitation of Qasida Jaljalutiyya, however in answer to another question, Shaykh Hisham gave permission for its recitation. Please clarify regarding its permissibility.

Answer:

وعليكم السلام

The advice against its recitation was general:
https://eshaykh.com/ibadat-worship/en-permission-for-dua-e-jaljaloot/

The permission given was for a specific case:
https://eshaykh.com/sufism/doa-jaljalutiyyah/

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Please we need ur prayer

Prayer Request:

Assalam alaikum.

My mother, I and my three siblings need prayers, we are going through a lot, me my siblings all graduate but no job, my sisters and I are up to age of marriage but no suitors, and people and family members are avoiding us no one want to

Answer:

Waalaykumussalam warahmatullah,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you and your mother and siblings. May Allah Most High enrich you, fulfill all your needs with the best sustenance and righteous spouses, and raise your ranks high in dunya and akhira. Recite in every duaa:

رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ

O our nurturing Lord! Grant us in this life excellence and in the hereafter excellence, and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prophet Dawood Giving Wooden Comb

Question:

Salam

2021 Ramadan sadqa was given of a goat for my son’s health in PK on 11th Ramadan. On12th after fajar I went to sleep I saw a dream that a man with green shawl on his shoulder gave me a wooden comb then I heard voice saying he is Prophet Dawud pbuh.

Answer:

Waalaykumussalam,
The comb signifies protection of belief as it points to Fir`awn’s daughter’s hair-comber, a humble believer surrounded by powerful unbelievers. It is a good dream signifying acceptance of your sadaqa and encouraging you in your tasbih and worship.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Do Cats have a next life?

Question:

As salaamu alaikum

I just wanted to know what happens to cats when they pass away. Do they have another life? Is it different for every animal? If we get to Jannah through Allah swt’s mercy can we ask to see our old pets (cats) that passed away?

Answer:

Waalaykumussalam warahmatullah,

A partial yes to the title question and the first question per Surat al-Takwir {and when the beasts are regathered} (81:5) and the hadiths. It is partial because this does not necessarily mean eternal life. It only means temporary resurrection for the distribution of justice to all beings as in the hadith “the gored animal and the animal that gored it shall be resurrected and the former shall exact justice from the latter”. After that, only those beings that were addressed by the Divine Messages — i.e. rational beings — perdure forever, and the angels.

It was also said there are rare exceptions that can be counted on the fingers of the hand, namely certain very special dunya animals that will also be resurrected and granted to perdure hereafter. They include the Holy Prophet’s camel al-Ghadba’ (reserved for Fatima in Paradise as mentioned in a hadith), the Prophet Salih’s she-camel (reserved for Bilal) and her foal, the Prophet Ibrahim’s slaughtered calf, the Prophet Isma`il’s sacrificial ram, the cow of the Israelites, the Prophet `Uzayr’s donkey, and the dog of the People of the Cave. Al-Damiri in Hayat al-Hayawan al-Kubra related some of that list from the great Syrian Tabi`i Khalid b. Ma`dan. Others are sometimes added such as the Prophet Sulayman’s hoopoe and the ant whose voice he heard, and the Prophet Yunus’s whale.

However, Paradise is also populated with its own innumerable Paradisial animals created therein since the time of Adam as part of its beauty and perfection according to the reports to that effect, including the Buraq (reserved for the Prophet, upon him and his Family and Companions blessings and peace), as well as animals familiar to us. Examples of the latter in the hadith are: “Sheep are of the animals of Paradise” narrated from Ibn `Umar and “Treat goats well for they are of the animals of Paradise” narrated from Abu Hurayra, both in the Musnad, Sunan and elsewhere; horses due to their nobility; and others.

The second question (is it different for every animal?) has two answers, because from the viewpoint of life, animals and human beings are all indifferently subsumed under the Arabic term “ruh” in the generic sense of “the spirit of life” (see, e.g., Ibn `Atiyya, Tafsir Surat al-Ma`arij 70:4 and al-Haytami, Fatawa Hadithiyya pp. 5-6), in which case the answer is no. At the same time, the entire Divine address is directed at the legally-liable rational ones only — the Thaqalayn, i.e. jinn and human beings — and they are the ones being promised reward and threatened with punishment in the hereafter exclusively of all other animate life, in which case the answer is yes in the senses already clarified in the previous paragraphs.

As to the last question (can we ask to see our old pets (cats) that passed away?) it is akin to asking any particular enjoyment of the life of this world in Paradise, which is granted anyway per the verse {And give glad tidings to those who believe and do righteous deeds, that for them are gardens underneath which run the rivers. Whenever they are provided thereof with fruit as a provision, they say: “This is what was provided to us in former times;” and they are supplied with it, all looking similar, and they have therein spouses immaculate; and they will be therein, perduring} (al-Baqara 2:25). There is also a hadith that states that whatever one will long for in Paradise one will immediately obtain, so the answer to the question is subsumed under that.

The issue also regards the manners of duaa and supplication in this life, which require us to ask for general goodness, not overly specific items (unless so taught in the Sunna such as duaa for a pious parent). So you may ask, for example, for “fulfillment of my longing which You know of” including lost friends. What Allah Most High graced us of pleasing company in this life, He is able to grace us with the same and better in the next, as in the Prophetic duaa for the deceased: “O Allah grant them a home better than their home,” etc. And Allah knows best.

Blessings and peace on the Prophet, his Family, all his Companions, and all Prophets.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream Interpretation

Question:

Assalamu alaykum
I had a Dream where I Kissed a Hand of a Turkish shaykh named Cübbeli Ahmet hoca he is a Naqshbandi and his Shaykh is Shaykh Mahmud Efendi from the Khalidi Ismailaga chain.
Im not a Sufi myself,
What is the meaning of this Dream?

Answer:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem
BismillahirRahmanirRahim

Although you don’t identify outwardly as ‘Sufi’ the reality is the our spirit/Ruh is Pure and there are people, men and Awlia Allah who represent the purity of Allah and His Messenger saws. So this shows that your soul respects the purity of the message and those connected to it. Inshallah your limbs and organs will follow in surrender to your Soul/Spirit in the company of AwliyaAllah.

Wa Allahu Alam,

Kamau Ayubbi

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Dealing with a bad tempered mother

Question:

My mom is very dominating. Since childhood I have only seen her physical abuse. The relation is getting worse. Sheikh please pray 4 my quick marriage to a compatible person so that at least I’m saved from daily quarrels with her. I don’t wanna live with her. Plz advice.

Answer:

May Allah grant you tender patience towards your mother, a caring and loving spouse, and an open path to Paradise for all of you.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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