Concerning a Chinese murid’s baya

Question:

Assalam ‘alakum,ya dear Mawlana shaykh Nazim al-haqqni and ya shaykh Hisham kabbani!May allah’s mercy on you two and may allah pure your souls.AMIN!
I made baya with Mawlana Nazim through reciting the baya text Which one of my friend had shared to me on Janary 7th 2011.The people around me thought this way of baya was invalid and dis-exist.They think that one must make baya with his shaykh hand in hand and face to face.I’m confusing often.plz tell me what answer i should give me and them.Does mawlana nazim knew me a weak murid?I can’t visit mawlana,can i call to him?
Forgive my impolite and rude.May allah give mawlana nazim and shaykh hisham good health and long life!AMIN!

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Your baya` is valid and accepted insha-Allah, according to the instructions of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani. Follow the instructions sent to you about keeping the daily awrad and you will begin to move forward in the Way of Allah.

Don’t worry about making a telephone call to the Shaykh. He has millions of murids, all around the world, most of whom have not met with him personally nor spoken with him, but he connects with each and every one of them daily. Call to him through your heart, you will get a response.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: For my Residency Position

Request:

I am applying for couple of years but I am not getting residency in medicine,this December I applied again please pray for me that I can secure a seat in a good program as these are very competitive programs. I worked really hard to achieve my goal.Please pray for me so I can overcome my hurdles.(Ameen),and get along well with my responsibilities.

Response:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem

BismillahirRahmanirRahim,
InshaAllah with the Barakah of Allah, His Prophet (sws) and Awliya you will receive your share and be happy.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Divorce or wait for him?

Question:

salamaleikom, I married 7 months ago. He left his town to come to live with me,since then he came he changed a lot. Was very aggressive,he had some intimacy difficulties,no job,always watching movies and computer. He wanted to work with shatzu massage but i asked him not to do to women,since he made me jealous of his many ex girlfriends. He never cut with some . Now he left me, went  back to his town telling me I am too much rigid. He wants to be free to smoke marijuana, have friendship with ex girlfriends,and work doing shatzu massage also to women. I love him a lot but i think drugs and bad friends are confusing him and separating us. His mother committed suicide when he was 3 years old. I love him and hope he can come back to me,but he is confused and want to divorce. Should I  wait for him? Thanks a lot,pray for us!!

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Recite Ya Fattah, Ya Karim for forty days to the intention of improvement or change. If no improvement you should move on. Allah Most High revealed to the Holy Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, {Truly you cannot guide those whom you love, it is Allah Who guides whoever He wills}.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Naming a child, Patience

Question:

Salaam alaykum
Which of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’la’s names are impermissible to use for a child? And are Rahman + Raheem included?

Also, how can I stop getting irritated at youngsters? For example, they lack knowledge and say annoying things like ‘we aint sunni or shia we are just Muslim’.. I get easily annoyed when they say things like this – i want to be more patient and calm, how can I do this?

Jazakallah Khayr

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

The baby name should be meaningful. The names Rahman & Raheem are acceptable as long as they don’t come with definitive article Al. The Prophet (S) suggested Abdullah and Abdur Rahman. He said: “Keep the names of the blessed Prophets, Allah loves most the names Abdullah and Abdur Rahman. The most truthful names are Harith and Humam, while the most disliked are Harb and Murra (war and bitter)”.

To avoid anger of this kind remember that the Satan is trying to provoke those who are valuable to rob them. Don’t let him win over you and keep reciting Ya Haleem as much as possible.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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Hesitance & Waswas

Question:

assalamu’alaikum…selama ini saya sering ragu atau tepatnya was-was dalam melaksanakan ibadah, saya sadar ini adalah gangguan syaithan namun saya tidak kuat untuk mengatasinya. hal ini sudah terjadi selama bertahun tahun, mohon kiranya saya diberikan solusi agar hidup saya dapat menikmati indahnya ibadah tanpa was-was ini.

Translation:

Assalaamu’alaykum…. I’ve been hesitant in conducting my worship so far. I realize that it’s nothing but Shaytan way to distract me, yet I can’t help overcoming it. It’s been continuously happening for years…. Would you please advice me to savour the magnificence of worshiping without hesitance.

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Make a point of praying in congregation (jamaa) as the congregation carries that burden for you. Let your regular and constant dhikr be Astaghfirullah. In sha Allah your condition will improve.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Confused about Area of Study

Question:

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Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatahu,
Sorry for this question, and the lack of adab. But I’m now in a situation that I don’t know what I’ve to choose for profession. I studed nursing, first year, however the first day I had class it didn’t feel right. My mind wants to ran, and never come back to school. Now I feel lost, I don’t know what to choose. First of all i want to become pediatrician, but the study medicine has numerus fixus and I didn’t get in. Nowadays I think a lot about my future, and more often I get confused. Maybe it’s better to be a matron, but than I’ve to find a husband. I doubt about studying nurse, pharmacies, chocolatiere or matron.
JazakAllahKhair!

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Try what you have not yet tried and see if your heart takes to it, but you need to stick with it for more than a day to be sure. in sha Allah your way will become clearer to you with a little more determination. Recite Ya Razzaq x100 daily to that intention.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Looking for wallet

Dream:

I dreamt I was looking for my wallet, couldn’t find it, then at the end of my dream I think I know where it is. And I picture where it could be, in my jacket pocket.

Interpretation:

Audhubillahiminashaytanirajeem
BismillahirRahmanirRahim

This about struggling and finding your rizq, sustenance that is written for you.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Title, “Rahmat lil-`aalameen”

Question:

Shaykh XYZ gave a talk stressing the importance of seeking sacred knowledge and then asked for a copy of the Qur’an and when it was handed to him, he turned to a few verses prior to the famous ayah of “wa maa arsalnaaka illaa rahmat lil-`aalameen“, and began to provide commentary.  Upon reaching this famous verse, he said that one should know that this title, “rahmat lil-`aalameen“, is NOT “khaass” for the Prophet, Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam.  He said that those who are familiar with advanced grammar, such as books like mukhtasar al-ma`aani, will know this to be true.

I wish to ask you of your wise opinion on this isolated commentary of this famous and most beautiful verse.  Is it correct for one to say that such an appellation is not khaass for the Prophet (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam)

barakAllahu feekum

Answer:

He is correct in two senses:

(i) Grammatically rahmatan as a maf`ul li-ajlih (out of mercy) or a hal (as a mercy in yourself) is not phrased as an attribute exclusive to the direct object (the pronoun kaf in arsalnaka, which refers to the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace), but rather as an attribute that is exclusive to the act of sending (arsalnaka), in the sense that “We sent you out of/as a mercy and for no other reason”, even if it can be also rendered as “We sent you to be a mercy and nothing else.” That is the meaning of exclusivity ma… illa (nothing but) in the verse, as opposed to the sense “We sent you and no one else to be a mercy to the worlds.” A confirmation is that Allah Most High said of the Prophet wa-ma arsalnaka illa mubashshiran wa-nadhiran (17:105) but He also said the Prophet Nuh (upon him peace) identified himself as a Nadhir to his people (11:25), and there were others (cf. 34:34, 35:24). Therefore the expression wa-ma arsalnaka illa mubashshiran wa-nadhiran followed by an attribute does not necessitate exclusive restriction of that attribute to the direct object.

(ii) Since the Prophet’s inheritors also receive the attribute of being a mercy to the worlds, they can also be described figuratively or by derivation (taba`an) as rahmatan lil-`alamin such as the major awliya sometimes described as Ghawth al-Anam, al-Ghawth al-A`zam, Qutb, and so forth.

However, at the same time, there is no doubt in the Muslim’s `aqida that the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) is the one and only Rahmatan lil-`alamin in two senses:

(i) He is the only one of the Prophets and Messengers with a universal message that applies to all humanity and even to all other Prophets and Messengers and their communities, i.e. to all mankind from the beginning of creation to the Day of Judgment, and to all jinn as well, including all believers and unbelievers, and to angels as well according to one of two positions, as stated in the Khasa’is Sughra of Imam al-Suyuti. In this sense it is incorrect to say that rahmatan lil-`alamin can apply to someone else as well.

(ii) He is the greatest mercy ever sent.

This is why Ibn Dihya, al-Barizi, al-Suyuti, and others in their books of khasa’is considered Rahmatan lil-`alamin to be among the exclusive attributes (khasa’is) of the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, based not on the grammar of a single verse taken in a vacuum, but based on the whole Qur’an and Sunna, and Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: suffering from black magic

Request:

assalamwalekum,
I’m from India married with [private] she became Muslim even her brother came into iman . but me and my family suffering from black magic . I have tried many things to come out of this but again same thing is happening. I feel tired, uneasiness specially when I sleep at nite, feel like something pulling my feet. Financially also I still don’t have any occupation as whatever I do just doesn’t workout. I pray 5 times a day and I’m looking for a solution Islamically . Please advice and pls pls remember me and my family in your special duas. JAZAKALLAH

Response:

wa ‘alaykum salam,
If you have not done so, take baya` online. Wear the Tawiz which has strong protection from for Sihr.

Taher Siddiqui

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Fiqh Questions

Question:

Asalaamu Alaykum Mawlana Shaykh Hisham and all other members,

I brought a friend to one of the gatherings in London, and he had a few questions which he asked,

1) Are mixed gatherings permissible, (as he said he had seen men and women intermingling in the gathering, i.e. sitting next to one another, and outside the gathering)

2) Didn’t the wudu of the Shaykh break, as in Shafi fiqh the touch of a non mehram women breaks wudu?

3) Is it permissible to listen to women singing in melodious tunes?

JazakAllah Khayr make dua for us all

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

1. Men and women who are not immediately related should not mix nor talk to each other unnecessarily. However, if there is a lack of space it is a matter of necessity for men and women to participate in ibadah, such as Hajj ritual of tawaf and other collective forms of ibadah (worship). In such instances only in a genuine need the conversation between men and women can take place, but in a modest manner.

2. Touching a woman with shahwah (desire) breaks the wudhu.

3. If there is a fear of fitna, the female should not raise her voice and the male should avoid listening to it.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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