Marriage issue (4)

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Question:

AssalaamUnAlaikum-

Continuation – still doing daily readings apart from salat munaiya.
Wife has now issued financial notice and insisting on selling house. I have been delaying as much as possible and had 2 solicitors letter since Ramadhan. I am paying child maintenance as she applied ( I feel that her family are behind this)
I have not seen my daughter since the day she was born. MashAllah she is now 8 months and. Wife has not spoke with me since then.
Maulana gave me a name for daughter and wife and her family had named her and not even used my surname .
Mawlana told me to be patient and keep her. I have responded to solicitors letters and have asked each time to reconcile and get some counselling .
Do I respond to financial disclosure?
Do I apply for contact with daughter through court?
What am I doing/done wrong?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Do what is  necessary, but if you solve it peacefully it is better.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Haj inshaAllah

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Request:

Selam Aleykum ve Rahmetullahu Ve Berekatuhu
My Sincere love To Sheyh Nazim And Sheyh Hisham
Is There Permission For Hajj For me This Year?
Please make Dua for me
selam

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

If you have no problem, there is permission.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Dream: MSN tells me to sell a tea set.

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Dream:

Assalamu alaikum warahmatu’Allah.

A few months ago I dreamt MSN telling me to go do the “tea business”.

Allah has put me on a path where working for the past year. I am searching, and listening, for what doors Allah might want me go through in order to raise a halal rizq for my family. I have attempted several things from looking for work at a company or university, to trying to set up a business, often with little patience to wait till the end.

This is when I had the dream of MSN telling me to go do the “tea business”.
I am wondering if this have any meaning.

Jazakum Allah Khairan wa ad-khalana wa iyakum fasseeha Jannatih AMEEN.

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

Do what Mawlana Shaykh said and see and also it means to do a food business.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Shawwal fasts

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Question:

As Salamu alaykom wa rehmatullahi wa barakatuhu wa EID Mubaruk !!! :D

Please tell me more about fasting 6 days of Shawwal, the procedure and what days? Is there a day, if you fast, is like fasting all six days?

Kissing hands and feets of Mawlana(q) and Hajjah(q)

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is sunnah to fast six  days in Shawwal. Thawban (r) relates that the Prophet (s) said, “Whoever fasts Ramadan, and then six days after Eid, it is like fasting an entire year. Whoever does a good deed shall have ten times its reward.”
(ibn Majah)

That special day is six days after the first day of Eid (i.e. seventh day of Shawwal).

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Istikhara Request

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Request:

Asalaamu Alaikum

I am considering marriage request however unsure of whether I should go ahead with it or not.. The parents of the brother in question are slightly unsure as they wish him to marry a sayyedah. But he wishes to get married to me so we are very confused as what to do. Could you pass on an istikhara request please. JazakAllah Khair.

My name is [private], His name [private].

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is good to marry but since they want a sayyida, your life will be miserable everyday from them, unless they change their minds to accept you.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Dream: Birth marks

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Dream:

I dreamt that a brother who I don’t know very well but have seen with both Maulana Sheikh Nazim and Maulana Sheikh Hisham had a very distinctive birth mark on the right hand side of his stomach.

It was a birth mark of 2 crescent moons facing each other.

I don’t know why I saw the dream but should I tell the brother?

Interpretation:

No keep it to yourself, if he is not a relative.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Du’as, advices and support

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Request:

Assalaamou ‘alaykoum dear shaykh Hicham. Allah Bless you and your family. Shoukran lillah for your suhba. I love you. I need guidance, support. I want you to answer me because it be will a big honour. I take bay’a since a year now on internet, I live in france. My husband is tablighi. I am pregnant (8 months). I have 4 children: 10, 8, 4 (she is sick) and 21 months. My husband leaves me 40 days, he returns at home for a week and leaves me again for Morocco. His parents live here but in Morocco since January. He takes with him my 2 first boys for a week and and left me with the other two. He told me he had the right to leave. Please, I need du’as and advices. I want to leave him. I cry a lot. I would also like how to call my baby inchaallah.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Recite daily hasbunAllah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100 times.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Dream: Istikhara about marriage Hairbrush??

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Dr. Abdul Karim

Dream:

Can you please interpret this for me what does this all mean why would this lady want my comb so much what does seeing the black diseased man who was blind mean?why did he try to touch what about the two discs which are joined together? and the rest?…………….

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,
wa `alaykum salam,

The woman combing her hair at the end is a good sign for your honor and points to a solution to your problems and worries, in sha Allah. And Allah knows best.

Dr. Karim Tourk

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Advice Requested Ya Shaykh!

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Question:

Assalam-Alaikum Shaykh:

Shortly after I took online bayat (which I hope is accepted), I fell into a major sin. And my mother, who, alhamdullilah wa shukrulillah, is able to see true dreams tells me that Allah is pleased with me, but I am not able to let myself believe her because in her dreams she sees me enjoying worldly success but that does not equate to aakhirah success in my mind. Can you please advise me what the real matter is?

My name is [private].

May Allah bless Sheikh Nazim and all the saints and the righteous and give all Muslims from His mercy. Allahuma sale ala Muhammdin wa ala ale Muhammadin wa sallam.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Recite astaghfirullah 700 times daily.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Problems in my sleep

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Question:

Assalamu Alaikum,

I am having problems while sleeping. People around me are telling me that I am speaking loudly in my sleep. This has happened even whilst I was with some brothers for I’tikaf. I would like to know if there is something I can recite to help solve this problem.

Wa Salaam

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Recite hasbunAllah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100 times, and insha-Allah you will be OK.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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