I belong to the family of Hazrat Soofie Sahb but I am part of the Naqshbandi Kandhaari Silsila. My Pir is Hazrat Sufi Muhammed Siddique Naqshbandi from Marula Shareef in Pakistaan. All my life I honoured, I was brought up on this path. I now feel that Sufism is an ideal rather than something concrete. God has taken away 3 girls who I loved and wanted to marry. The first 2 he took away with cancer. The exact same cancer. And 3 months ago the girl I loved for 5 years and with have been engaged to now, he took her away in a car accident.
Do not tell me to make sabar and that this is a test! The constant urge to burn down my great-grandfather’s mazaar comes to me 10 times in a day. How can they let me go through this pain 3 times?!
wa `alaykum salam,
Someone in the family has a problem with your family. That means a black magic has been done. You need to slaughter three goats on behalf of every lady in the family and distribute the meat to the poor. Then you slaughter one on your own behalf and distribute the meat to the poor. Recite Surat al-Ikhlas, Surat al-Falaq and Surat an-Nas three times each and blow on yourself every day. InshaAllah after that you will be OK.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani