Question:
Asalam Alaikum,
I am a 23 year old single man living in NYC. I work in the city during the night time. I have been fighting this battle against sexual desires for over years. I am not an angel and have committed sins which I am ashamed of. But I repented and did tauba and promised never to do again. Unfortunately I cant get marry yet because the girl who I want to marry says she wants to wait another year. I dont know what to do because after my sexual desires arouse I masturbate. I want to stop masturbating but I dont know how to. Please help me. I really am worried and want to get out of this trap. Is there any taweez I can put on for this???
JazzakAllah Khair
Answer:
`Alaykum as-Salam,
Pray two raka`ats before Fajr then make sujud and focus on Mawlana Shaykh Nazim who epitomizes the peace Allah gives His Friends. It will increase your motivation to be with them in each 24 hours.
Try not to miss the NYC weekly group dhikr particularly in these blessed months we are living in. If you are ready to get married, Mawlana’s advice is not to wait.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
