Author Archives: Hajjah Faridah


Prayer Request: Needed to do wudu often

I am requesting Hajjah Naziha to help me to stay clean. I am having continuous vaginal discharge not too much sometimes very little. All the time almost including prayer times with bad thought also sometimes without that may be. Allah knows best. Continue reading

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Couldn’t handle idea of marriage

I want to get married (age:32) but the thought of a man getting physically that close to me caused me anxiety. Continue reading

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Praying while nursing

Is it ok to pray while nursing a baby? Continue reading

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Daughter’s responsibilities towards her parents
daughter’s responsibilities towards her parents

I have few questions Inshallah.
1) what are a daughter’s responsibility financially towards her parents?
2) I went to college to study communications but my mother said “who cares what you did, you did not do what I wanted you to do” I could not be doctor. Continue reading

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daughter’s responsibilities towards her parents

Prayer Request: Desperate need of a solution

I have a psychological fear of consummating my marriage. The solutions offered to me are not working, I fear that I am putting undue pressure on my husband who is patient. I want children, I am losing the will to live. Continue reading

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Childbirth positions

My wife is due to give birth to our first child very soon. We are considering a water birth, and my wife is curious on what positions she should adopt for the birth. I have heard Moulana has mentioned the squat position is best for women… Continue reading

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Baby hair solution

My baby is 6months old & my mother recently took him to get his hair shaved for the 1st time. His hair was so sleek & beautiful. Now it’s really ugly & hard. What can I do to get his hair to be sleek & beautiful again? Continue reading

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Wearing a headscarf

Wanting to wear a headscarf but family says other people have disgraced the name so you cannot wear it and I only want to do it for my self and Allah but I can’t not listen to my family… Continue reading

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Non-Muslim ladies being forced to wear hijab

When non-Muslim ladies visit a masjid and go where were supposed to pray are they expected to wear a hijab? Continue reading

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Emotionally abusive marriage

It is with heavy heart and sadness that I am writing to you for guidance. My husband of 11 years is being emotionally and mentally abusive to me. He calls me names, shouts when we talk, is very controlling about who I see, where I go… Continue reading

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