Low self-esteem and confidence


Assalamualaikum Mawlana Shaykh Hisham, I pray Allah will bless you with the best of health.

I have very low self-esteem and confidence. Because of this, I am limiting myself – to look for a job and to get married. I’m in my 30s. I feel I am not good enough and I am very sensitive to what others think of me. I have been doing Istikharah but I haven’t been given any signs.

Mawlana please pray for me so Allah will open avenues of income for me and for me to meet a good soul who will be suitable to be my husband, Insya Allah. Please advise the best prayer to recite daily. Thank you our beloved Mawlana. Assalamualaikum.


wa `alaykum salam,
InshaAllah with this good intention, Allah will open the door.
Make 2 rakats: In the firstĀ rakat, recite 11 Surat al-Ikhlas and in the second rakat recite 2 Surat al-Ikhlas. Do this everyday asking Allah to open the door to have a suitable husband.

Insha-Allah one will be coming soon, so dont reject him. Sometimes we reject a lot or have very specific ideas about someone in our mind. We cannot find someone like that so whoever that comes will be good for you. Don’t reject the first one that comes.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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