Living in Polygamy, Jealousy

Question:

Asalamualaikum warehmatullah,

I have a question regarding my marriage. My husband of _ years who I knew almost _ years before marriage took another wife from another country in a very clever way by sending me and the children to my parents house almost 2 years back. After his second marriage he did not leave me and I too continued the marriage because of kids. His other wife says she is even scared of an insect gaining all the sympathy from her husband. The day my hubby stays with me she says she cant sleep through the night and waits for the whole night to finish till it is dawn. I guess I still love him but at the same time the hurt never goes. My parents don’t know anything about my hubby’s second marriage. Please suggest any dua that would be beneficial in my situation.

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,

Bear with patience as there is big reward for you and your first place is assured here and hereafter in sha Allah, and no one is replacing you. Keep your affection for him and continue unaffected, Allah will support in sha Allah. Recite daily x100 ya Halim, ya Wadud. Make Salawat on Prophet and his Family 300x daily.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Seeing Shaykh Nazim rise from the dead.

Dream:

Dear Shaykh
I’m a murid of Shaykh Nazim and last night I dreamt that my brother and I were talking to Shaykh Nazim and then we heard that Shaykh had passed away and we were saddened but we informed Shaykh Hisham and in the dream the media also found out and many people came to see but when we got to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim’s bedside Shaykh was lying down as if he had passed away but suddenly he got up and walked away, alive. I remember feeling happy and I think that Shaykh was wearing a black turban.. Then I don’t remember exactly but it was like everybody was searching for Shaykh Nazim but couldn’t find him. Then I woke up. Please can you explain what this dream means? Jazakallah

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

This dream indicates Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim al-Haqqani undergoing a spiritual khalwah, in which he was raised to higher levels, which is why he disappeared, and informing the media represents rumors and gossips. Being at his bedside indicates closeness to Mawlana Shaykh. Shaykh Hisham represents Mawlana’s “voice”, addressing the dunya world. The black turban represents Jihad an-Nafs, “Struggle Against the Self”, one of the 14 types of Jihad. In this case Mawlana Shaykh has been granted spiritual power to defeat the nafs of all his murids, and Allah knows best.

Taher Siddiqui

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Karamat (Miracle) vs Magic

Question:

I was discussing with a Malaysian brother on the issue of karamat and black
magic. He was saying that its hard to distinguish the two and that there are many instances in Malaysia where people are cured from diseases (like kidney failure etc) through black magic.
My question is two fold:

1) Can black magic cure illnesses

2) How can one differentiate between black magic and karamat.

JazakAllah khair

Wasalam

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
The efficiency of black magic is part of Divine beguilement/entrapment (istidraj), as black magic can effect a temporary benefit but its consequences are worse and cancel it sooner or later, since its being “black” entails kufr, which will manifest its evil here and hereafter. Istidraj is the diametrical opposite of tawfiq and ta’yid which are the qualities of mu`jiza and karama.

Shaykh Yusuf al-Nabhani (Allah have mercy on him) said at the conclusion of his section on karamat and mu`jizat in the introduction of his 900-page book Hujjat Allah `ala Alamin bi-Mu`jizat Sayyid al-Mursalin (p. 12-14):

The erudite Emir mentioned supernatural acts in his notes on `Abd al-Salam [al-Laqani] saying:

“Know that supernatural acts are of seven types:

(i) the stunning miracle accompanied by a challenge;

(ii) the ‘groundwork’ (irhas) before Prophethood which is its foundation as we say ‘to do the groundwork for a wall’;

(iii) the miraculous gift for a Saint;

(iv) spontaneous aid (al-ma`una) befalling a common person and saving him from catastrophe;

(v) beguilement/entrapment (istidraj) for a brazen transgressor in proportion to his claim. …;

(vi) humiliation for the brazen transgressor in flat contradiction of his claim; and

(vii) witchcraft and quackery, although it was said that those are not among the supernatural acts as they are quite customary with respect to their practice.”[1]

The teacher of our teachers, the erudite Shaykh Ibrahim al-Bajuri (d. 1276) said in his marginalia on Jawharat al-Tawhid in commentary of the author’s [al-Laqani’s] statement, [verse 68]

“With stunning miracles they were granted support out of Divine munificence”
(bil-mu`jizati uyyidu takarruman):

“Know that the [Arabic] word for the stunning miracle (mu`jiza) is derived lexically from the word ‘inability’ (`ajz) – the opposite of power – and denotes, by convention, a supernatural act accompanied by a challenge consisting in the claim of Messengership or Prophethood together with the lack of effective opposition. Al-Sa`d [al-Taftazani] (712-792) said: ‘It is something extraordinary that appears at the hands of the claimant to Prophethood at a time of challenge to the naysayers, which the latter can produce nothing that compares to it.”[2]

The verifying authorities consider it has eight integral aspects:

(i) It must consist in a discourse or deed or something that fails to take place; for example, respectively: the Qur’an, the gushing of water from between his fingers, and the failure of the fire to burn our Master Ibrahim. The attributes of the non-created are excluded from this aspect as in the case he might say, “The sign that I am truthful is that the Deity is described as the Creator.”

(ii) That it be truly supernatural, i.e. a breach of what people are naturally accustomed to over a period of time. Ordinary events are therefore excluded, for example the statement, “The sign that I am truthful is that the sun shall rise where it usually rises and set where it usually sets.”

(iii) It must take place at the hands of the claimant to Prophethood. This excludes the miraculous gift (karama) which takes place at the hands of an evidently righteous and pious servant. This aspect also excludes spontaneous aid which takes place at the hands of common people, saving them from catastrophe; it excludes beguilement/entrapment, which is whatever occurrence takes place at the hands of a corrupt person as [repayment for his] deceit and scheming; and it excludes debasement, which is what takes place at his hands to belie him, as happened with Musaylima the arch-liar when he spat into the blind eye of a one-eyed man to heal it but the good eye went out instead.

(iv) It must be paired with the assertion of Prophethood or Messengership literally (haqiqatan) or else in effect (hukman), if it comes a little later. This excludes the groundwork, namely, whatever miracles take place before Prophethood or Messengership as a preliminary or foundation, such as the shading of the cloud for him before his mission <or the light that shone in the forehead of his father `Abd Allah>.[3]

(v) The miracle must take place in accordance with the claim being made as opposed to any discordant phenomenon, for example if one were to say: “The sign that I am truthful is that the sea shall part in two” then the mountain parts in two.

(vi) The miracle must not be tantamount to a disavowal of what is being claimed. For example, if one were to say: “The sign that I am truthful is that this object shall speak,” then the object speaks and declares that he is a liar. This is other than if he were to revive a dead person who then declared him a liar, because the object has no will and its disavowal is therefore considered a Divine order, while a human being has free choice and his disavowal is not conclusive since he might choose to disbelieve in a true claim.

(vii) It must be impossible to counter it. This condition excludes witchcraft and charlatanry (sha`badha), which is a sleight of hand suggesting that something is taking place in reality when in fact it is not, as in the case of the snakes [of the magicians]. Some of the Ulema added that

(viii) it must not take place at a time when natural customs are abolished, for example when the sun rises from the place where it usually sets. This excludes the phenomena that take place at the hands of the Anti-Christ as when he orders the sky to rain then it rains, and he orders the earth to sprout and it sprouts.

Then he [al-Bajuri] said, concerning the author’s [al-Laqani] statement, [verse 73]

“And his stunning miracles are many and resplendent”
(wa mu`jizatuhu kathiratun ghurar):

“Know that whatever miracles of his are definitely known and mass-transmitted such as the Qur’an, there is no doubt that whoever denies them commits disbelief. As for evidence below that level, if it is well-known – such as the gushing of water from his fingers – then the one who denies it commits a grave sin (fisq). If the evidence is not well-known or is not firmly established through a sound or fair chain of transmission then the one who denies it is reprimanded only.”[4]

I also saw a similar explanation in Hidayat al-Murid Sharh Jawharat al-Tawhid by its original author, the erudite scholar Ibrahim al-Laqani.>>

NOTES:

[1] Muhammad b. Muhammad b. Ahmad b. `Abd al-Qadir al-Sinbawi, Hashiyat Ibn al-Amir `ala Ithaf al-Murid Sharh Jawharat al-Tawhid lil-Shaykh `Abd al-Salam b. Ibrahim al-Laqani (ed. Ahmad Farid al-Mazyadi, p. 227-228).

[2] Al-Taftazani, Sharh al-`Aqa’id al-Nasafiyya (Darwish 1411/1990 ed. p. 207-208) under wa-ayyadahum bil-mu`jizat al-naqidat lil-`adat.

[3] Bracketed passage in al-Bajuri only (p. 299-300) but omitted by al-Nabhani. Narrated by Ibn Sa`d in his Tabaqat (1:58), al-Suhayli in al-Rawd al-Unuf (1:102), al-Nuwayri in Nihayat al-Arab (16:58-61, 16:77), al-Tabari in his Tarikh (2:174, 2:243), al-Bayhaqi in Dala’il al-Nubuwwa (1:87), and Ibn al-Athir in his Tarikh (2:4). Ibn al-Jawzi cites it in al-Wafa (p. 82-83, ch. 16 of Abw&#257;b Bidayati Nabiyyina) and Ibn Hisham narrates it in his Sira.

[4] Al-Bajuri, Sharh Jawharat al-Tawhid (p. 297-300, 312).

And Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Running in dreams

Dream:

The majority of my dreams are running someone is trying to kill me or grab me and i am running and running when i wake up i feel so tired as if it was real. Please let me know if i am doing something wrong or what. Also i am dreaming and feeling as if something is going to happen to my husband it feels so real. Maybe i am going crazy.

Interpretation:

Bismillah ir rahman ir rahheem:

Instead of facing yourself you are running away from problems. You should say Hasbunallah wa ni’mal wakeel, “I count on Allah and He is the best one to count on”.

Say this at least 300X before sleeping.

And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Prayer Request: Isthakhara

Request:

Aaslam o Aalikum,

I’m divorce and someone marry to me but I m not satisfied. He try to believe he is never leave me maybe I still like my ex husband and that why I’m not trust him and I’m scared to move with other people. In my family everyone like him sometime I feel he is not cheat me but some time I’m scared. I need your help please do an istakhara for me.. My name is [private] my mother name is [private] and his name is [private]and his mother name is [private]… Please help me I m very thankful to you….

Response:

Alaykum as-Salam,

Be patient and accept him in your heart, Allah Most High will give you love for him which will grow in time. Trust in Allah and do not be scared. Recite Ya Karim Ya Jabbar x100 daily.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Graves in a masjid

Dream:

Assalamu Alaykum
I was in a masjid walking up the stairs with a Qadiri shaykh. When we get to top there are 2 graves dug out in the corner of masjid next to each other. The shaykh tells me to choose one for me and he will have the other. I choose the one in corner, its filled with cushions (like mawlana uses in dergah for their blessed feet). At first i feel I may get wet, but then I say, its time i must get in. I can hear water stream flowing beneath grave. I get into it and lie down close eyes expecting to be buried. Then i get up and join the milaad gathering in the masjid hall.

Interpretation:

Bismillah ir rahman ir rahheem:

This is a sign of a long life.
And Allah knows best.

Yassir Chadly

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Dream: Eaten alive

Dream:

I saw a man under water (the colour is orangey red) he is floating with his stomach over a’ woman like’ creatures mouth. I then see the creature with her arm inside the mans neck. She has eaten his head and others are eating his body. Then I see my dad at his wedding. He looks ill, frail, weak, like there is no hope in this world. I know that the wedding is a cover up because the man was my dad. They are going to eat him all over again and he is aware of this. I fake fainting, so that I may keep my dad from leaving a little longer. I’m panicking and worried. People look at me, but walk past, taking my dad with them. The people attending the wedding are the creatures from the sea, who now look normal and my own relatives.

Interpretation:

Bismillah ir rahman ir rahheem:

Usury and charging interest, bank lowness etc…are the ones eating the bodies. The head represents the capital.To save yourself from them is to not go in to debt. To protect from fear the dzikr is repeating “Hasbunal lahu wa ni3mal wakeel” at least 300 time a day.

Yassir Chadly

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Dream: Qalandar

Dream:

As salam o alikum
About 6 months ago i saw a dream in which a small girl was carrying a duff in her hand and was playing it and singing that “if its the name of Qalandar is written in your head so what should i do”. Then she disappeared. I tried to find her but could not find her anywhere… And now again i saw few days ago that i was in sm mazaar sharif and that the stamp of Qalandar was on wall….
Kindly help me
thanku…..
JazakAllah

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Our advice is to take bayaa with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim online without delay if you have not already done so, and to follow his Suhbas and those of Mawlana Shaykh Hisham on sufilive.com for immense benefit in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Istikhara for Marriage

Dream:

Assalamu Alaykum Wa rahmatullahi Wa barakatuhu.
I am struggling to convince my parents to allow me to marry a practicing Muslim. I therefore made Istikhara for guidance. I received a dream in which the guy i want to marry tells me to go to the bank where he has sent me a parcel. On the parcel the guy i want to marry has written to not open the parcel till I get home. I go home and open it to see a cheque of money and a key. Please can you interpret this dream and tell me whether it has a meaning.

Jazakhallh khair.

Interpretation:

Alaykum as-Salam,
It means with patience and using parents’ intermediary in the best halal and baraka way you will have rizq and opening in the end in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibri Haddad

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dergah

Question:

assalamu alaikum
please give my salams to shaykh kabbani.

I wanted to meet with the shaykh,could you please give me the address of the dergah or masjid in Fenton,MI

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam

as-Siddiqui Institute and Mosque
G4417 S. Saginaw
Burton, MI 48519

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