Dream: About a brother I know

Dream:

Salam
Dreams about a brother I used to know
1) Our wedding day in a beautiful garden with pink flowers falling from the sky. I could not see his face. He treated all my relatives well.
2) We were in a carriage, I was wearing green & again I could not see his face. Then the scene turned into a picture and he commented on how young I looked.
5) He called me and said ‘I loved you but you pushed me away that’s why I left’.
6) I went into a wedding store and tried on wedding dresses, I told the shopkeeper my size and she said no I am a smaller size and when I put on my size it was too big.
I do not know if my dreams warrant me being patient or are just manifestations of my subconscious. I prayed istikharah and these occured some time after.

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

A good proposal will come your way. Accept it however humble and insha-Allah there will be rizq and happiness in it for you here and hereafter.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Shaykh Bawa Muhaiyidden

Dream:

Shaykh Bawa has been in my dreams twice. Once it seemed he was praying for me, then a second time he had skin like an alligator. My 3 year old son has had a dream where the Shaykh was tickling him and they played with a chicken together. Does this mean we have a spiritual connection with him?

Interpretation:

Thick skin is because holy people have to carry other people’s burdens. Shaykh Bawa stood for innocence and the dream reflects to that quality in you. His legacy has been poured into Mawlana Shaykh Nazim’s hands, may Allah sanctify their secrets.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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How to increase ihsan?

Question:

Salamalaykum
How can we improve our ihsan?
I ask this as I dreamt that Maulana said to come and see him when my ihsan has improved. (I should have clicked on dream interpretation instead of ask question but) at first he was talking about me being grotty and reacting badly to people in general (I feel desocialised these days), then he said there are no barriers on the 3 planes, then to visit him when my ihsan has improved.
The answer is probably self-evident but any tips/advice is always helpful. Thanks

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Spend more time with non-grotty people, especially in the weekly khatm.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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MARRIAGE

Question:

ASSALAM ALAIKUM
i would like to know whether is it good to marry a person who is good natured,decent also islamic but he is not fully aware of the importance of a good shaykh.He belives in AULIA ALLAH but is not a keen follower of sufism.He respects AULIA ALLAH.Is marrying such a person spoils our akhirat???

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Our Beloved Prophet (s) said the most important quality to look for in a spouse is din, the soundness of his or her religion. It sounds like the man you described has that because  good-natured character comes from religion, and since his beliefs are sound, not outside the faith, there should be no problem, and Allah knows best.

If you have a shaykh, which you indicated was important to you, it would be essential to consult him in this matter.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Istikhara for marriage

Dream:

AssalamuAlaikum

Dreams within ten days of doing Istikhara for marriage with H:

1. Married to ex-husband (in reality he’s happily married and I have no desire to be with him). I ask him to buy cheese. The cheese seems wet/moist but I’m very happy with it.

2. Receive a package via mail from my ex-husband and a message on it says “and I will always love you”. Inside are what seem to resemble leatherette menus, but they have the words “marketing Manager” and there seems to be 3 or 4. I am no manager.

3. My uncle sees the future and visually tells me that I’ll have a baby, honeymoon overseas and shows me my future husband who is an acquaintance at work. In reality that man is happily married, but his surname happens to the same as H’s first name and his hobby is the same as well.

Shukran

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

All those istikharas are positive and encouraging. All three point to your prospect. Moisture signifies rizq and mercy.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Face

Dream:

Salaam,

I had a dream that I am standing on my side of the fence from my neighbours. My neighbour then comes out and kisses my forehead and then told me to wash my face like I do when I perform Wudu– Which I did. What could this mean?

JazakAllah Khairun

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

Water on the face stands for honor. So protect your honor through worship and obedience to Allah, as Mawlana Shaykh Nazim always advises in his suhbas.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Help with a relationship

Request:

sallaams. I have had over 20 girls reject me, girls who I wished to marry. The only 3 that did reciprocate, ALLAH called them to him. It has been 9 months now and finally I found someone who brings me peace, but all she wishes for is friendship. I love her a lot and wish to marry her. Please I cannot endure anymore heartache. Help me please>. jazaakallah

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham said, “we are praying for you.”

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: With Mawlana in bazaar?

Dream:

Salaam

I had a dream where I think I was in a bazaar near my house and MSN was there with another Shaykh. I knew it was him but he looked different and I could see his bottom teeth sticking out. I sat next to him and held his hand which was very soft and white, and I was going to kiss it or take Baya from him. Then I was sat in front of him and doing something like zikr and I did a roly poly over my head and he started laughing with the other Shaykh in a playful way towards me.

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,

This is a dream that your soul is happy with Shaykh Nazim and vice versa, and confirming baya` to also be taken physically if not already.

Wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Permission

Question:

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Asalaamu alaykum Sayyedi and Mawlana Shaykh Hisham

I wish to ask humbly for permission to go with my parents to turkey and then to cyprus to visit Mawlana inshaAllah.

And I humbly ask your permission for my sister and me to travel to UK. My sister accompanies me for a week as I am going for my studies there inshaAllah.

thank you
salaams

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is giving permission for these travels.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: soo many dreams

Dream:

Asalaamu alaykum Mawlana Shaykh and Mawlana Shaykh Hisham and all the shuyukh here.

1.I have started my awrad recently but I have also started seeing disturbing dreams. Among them are that I usually see myself in one of my previous house’s bathroom and it is not cleaned and i remember once I perform my wudhu there.

I try to figure out if I am doing something improper but my eyes are veiled I need help in this please.

2. why do I see so many dreams bad ones and good ones? I am tired of seeing dreams. please advice and forgive me.

salaam

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

According to our mashaykh seeing toilets or bathrooms signifies involvement in dunya, and Allah knows best.

Yes, once you start the awrad, a lot of issues will appear and this is the manner by which our Shaykh cleans us. We undergo through dreams what people normally have to undergo in life, relieving us of different ego problems and sins.

All hint towards more focus on worship, and to see better dreams, before sleeping make fresh wudu, pray 2 raka`ats Tahiyyat al-wudu, and sleep with wudu. Recite Ayat al-Kursi, 3 x Surat al-Ikhlas, 3x Surat al-Falaq, 3x Surat an-Nas, Surat al-Fatiha and blow on your hands then wipe your whole body.

Taher Siddiqui

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