Author Archives: Hajjah Faridah


Sisters remaining single

Posted on June 21, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

If we are not married, can we be good Muslim? Continue reading →

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Akward Situation

Posted on April 11, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

My mum and me have always had our difference and we could argue and not talk for months or even up to a year and when I need her the most she’s never there but when they need me they expect me to be there… Continue reading →

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Prayer Request: Another marriage

Posted on April 3, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

I was recently with a man and I had intercourse with him, he promised me he would marry me then I found out he has another wife and child. He told me that he wanted to divorce her and marry me… Continue reading →

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Do I start my studies again?

Posted on March 30, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

I stopped my studies! Now my relatives and family members are forcing me to complete my studies for they think educated man will not marry a girl with incomplete education! Continue reading →

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Pregnancy Pains

Posted on March 2, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

I am about 24 weeks pregnant and this is my third pregnancy and have a very bad backache and am struggling very much with the pain! Continue reading →

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Parents to agree for marriage

Posted on February 16, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

I was loving with a boy. We loved very much. He told his parents. They and his relatives, brother and sister, didn’t agree for our marriage because of my bad family background… Continue reading →

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Resistance to find soulmate

Posted on February 16, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

I’m a single woman age 4_years old, never have a marriage before. Every time I meet someone who wants me to be his wife, I feel that he is not good for me… Continue reading →

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Marriage problems since two weeks

Posted on February 15, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

My mother is getting a divorce with my stepdad and also my father is getting a divorce to. I find it really hard to deal with this…. Continue reading →

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He makes me a better Muslim but he’s gone

Posted on February 14, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

We are 2nd cousins, he lives in another country, but his intentions were always marriage. Mid September he broke contact off and said he didn’t want me anymore… Continue reading →

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Seeing Unpleasant Dreams

Posted on February 14, 2013 by Hajjah Faridah

For some time I have struggled with my ego. I dream unpleasant dreams, which make me believe I am unworthy of good thoughts… Continue reading →

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