Marriage/Divorce



Marriage and what leads to it, its terms and conditions such as mahr (dowry), shuhud (witnesses) and permission; divorce and what lead to it including kufr, abandonment, abuse, lack of maintenance ; forms of divorce, including talaq, khula`, faskh and its terms and conditions such as pronouncing divorce, qadi’s judgment, pregnancy, `iddah, etc.


Are we a good match?

Him and I both are Syeds and I love him deeply because he makes my imaan stronger and encourages me to be closer to ALLAH. We both intend to marry but his moods often fluctuate due to his father being against love marriage. Continue reading

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divorce

Assalaamalaikum, myself [private] should I start finding job for myself because I need to be independent as of now my husband [private] don’t want me. He just need’s divorce please help me out I don’t want to get divorce. Continue reading

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Asking a shaykh to decide on one’s marriage

Firstly I have seen sometimes the shaykhs informing the marriage mustnt take place and that the couple will split or wont be happy or will be happy in the beginning but split later. the side that consults then abandons the marriage preparation. Shouldnt these families and individuals be seeking the decision of their shaykhs BEFORE meeting the prospective bridegroom/bride and other side? Continue reading

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Consulting Murshid for Marriage and Travel (Mercy Oceans)

In Mercy Oceans Book 2, P.19 it is written:
For a humble mureed following a murshid, if he is consulting the murshid in every matter it is good, but for three things it is a must. These are marriage, divorce, and far journeying. Continue reading

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Regarding marriage

I like a girl and she also likes me and we want to marry each other but due to cast problem her parents are not willing. Plz tell me some amal by which they will allow our marriage happily and plz pray for my emaan….. Continue reading

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Divorce

I a reverted to Islam about two years ago, my wife is an atheist and currently is not supportive of my practice. She constantly scoffs at me for eating halal, not drinking alcohol, and praying five times a day. Continue reading

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wazifa

I did the dua of sayidina daud. I wore the taweez for 40 days. Nothing happened. I waited for her to contact me as I did not want to ruin my self respect. Did I do something wrong? Continue reading

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parental disapproval

I met a man and we both wish to marry – for the right reasons – piety, good character and compatibility. We both feel that we were intended for each other. However his parents have disapproved of me because of our age difference. Continue reading

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Bismillah Rahmani Raheem

Salam alaikum. May Allah reward you for helping Muslims. I request please you pray for me. I met a nice women, she has nice character, she’s humble, she’s dutiful to her parents brothers and sisters, she’s caring, she’s honest and she involved in religious activities for kids. Continue reading

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prayer request to get married

I am asking for a prayer request for a man that I wish to marry inshAllah. His name is [private] his birthday is [private] and my name is [private] my birthday is [private]. I have done istikhara and so has a sheikh we both got positive results. Continue reading

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