Spiritual help needed from my murshid Shaykh Hisham

Question:

In my opinion Shaykh Hisham is my immediate murshid. I used to see Shaykh Hisham in very spiritual dreams, plus my soul used to come out of my body and float over it. But then one day, I saw a black entity crawling in my head and since then I have not been able to sleep or have spiritual dreams, visions and experiences. My spiritual pipe has been blocked.

I am making a direct appeal to my murshid Shaykh Hisham to help me. Please remove the shaytan or whatever it is that is blocking my spiritual experiences and progress. I am the most loyal of servants, Shaykh Nazim said that I am the shoe-carrier of Mahdi (as).

Please put “talqeen” on me, open “tassawur-e-Shaykh” to me.

I beg you to relay this SOS message to Shaykh Hisham. I have not slept in 3 years!

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

As Shaykh Hisham said, in a suhbat on 14th September, 2009 :

Don’t be a donkey, but be a rooster who is calling and responding to Allah swt. The rooster crows as soon as he hears angels praising and glorifying in Bayt ul-Ma`mur, the real, heavenly Ka`bah…

So your duty is to prevent and struggle against the gossips coming in your heart… When you struggle to eliminate it from your heart, you cannot… May Allah swt forgive us and may Allah protect us and protect them from falling into the trap of nafs, ego, dunya and hawa.

So the duty is to struggle against the ego and what is benefit? When you begin to stop it, and you are struggling, and Allahu Ghafoorun Raheem, Allah forgives and is merciful. Your teacher, your shaykh, the real one, the one that is a lion inheriting from Prophet (s) and from the Sahaba (r), is a lion at the door of his Lord. He immediately writes a petition to the Prophet (s) asking, “Ya Sayyidee, Ya Rasulullah, that student of mine is trying every moment to eliminate as much he can the gossips in his heart.” He is in the presence of Allah; in the presence of Prophet (s) and in the presence of his shaykh and all the time paying attention. He is focusing on what comes in his heart and throws it out, and so his shaykh will immediately write a petition.

Don’t think your shaykh is blind, deaf and dumb, that he cannot see or hear or talk. Yes he can, but he is showing adab and waiting to see his student try his or her best, then he will help him by writing a petition to Prophet (s), and then Prophet will intercede for that student. So the benefit is, it [those gossips] will be taken from the heart slowly, slowly.

Taher Siddiqui

Taher Siddiqui

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Shia Peoms

Question:

Salam, I am a Shia mystic poet.
I need to know if a book company that you are familiar with would publish my poems.

Thank you

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

You may try Fons Vitae or Kazi Publications.

Taher Siddiqui

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Hadith Status

Question:

as-Salamu Alaykum

What is the status of the Hadith “There is an angel at my head that conveys to me the prayers my ummah send upon me except on Fridays, I hear with my own ears and I answer with my own tongue.” Is it as a user on Sunniforum claims “fabricated or non-existent?”

Answer:

`Alaykum as-Salam,

Even if the wording is not a hadith, nevertheless its meaning is supported by two narrations that refer to the direct hearing of the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) specifically on the day of Jumu`a, no matter from where the Salat on him is pronounced:

The first narration is from Abu al-Darda’, from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace):

أكثروا الصلاة علي يوم الجمعة فإنه يوم مشهود تشهده الملائكة, ليس من عبد يصلي علي إلا بلغني صوته حيث كان قلنا: وبعد وفاتك ؟ قال: وبعد وفاتي, إن الله حرم على الأرض أن تأكل أجساد الأنبياء

“Make abundant salat on me on the day of Jumu`a for it is a day that is witnessed, the angels witness it. There is no slave that invokes blessing on me except his voice reaches me wherever he is.” They said: “Even after your death?” He said: “Even after my death. Truly Allah has forbidden the earth to consume the bodies of Prophets.”

Ibn al-Qayyim in Jala’ al-Afham (toward the end of the first section, Hadith Abi al-Darda’) and al-Salihi in his Sira entitled Subul al-Huda wal-Rashad said al-Tabarani narrates it through trustworthy narrators but with one missing link.

The second narration is from Anas, from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace):

من صلى علي مائة مرة في يوم الجمعة، أو ليلة الجمعة قضى الله له مائة حاجة سبعين من حوائج الآخرة وثلاثين من حوائج الدنيا، ثم وكل الله بذلك ملكا يدخله علي في قبري كما يدخل عليكم الهدايا، إن علمي بعد موتي كعلمي في الحياة

“Whoever invokes blessings on me 100 times on the day of Jumu`a or its night, Allah shall fulfill for them 100 needs, 70 of the needs of the hereafter and 30 of the needs of this world. Allah has put an angel in charge of him/it and he brings him/it to me in my grave just as gifts are brought to you. Truly my knowledge after death is as my knowledge in life.”

Qawwam al-Sunna al-Taymi al-Asfahani narrates it with his chain in al-Targhib wal-Tarhib (1:525 §956 and 2:320-321 §1674) while al-Suyuti in his Khasa’is al-Jumu`a sources it to al-Bayhaqi in his Shu`ab al-Iman.

The meaning of the report under scrutiny is further supported by the gist of other hadiths which I discussed in the previous answer I had given to the question here.

And Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Is this a hoax?

Question:

Since Moulana said that the mureeds should get off facebook I dont go on it any longer-But some one else told me last morning that when they went on face book they read the Shaykh Nazim page and it said that he is going to visit Karachi Pakistan this year and will give bayyat to those who wish -All this surprised me and I said this could be a fake page and a hoax-Kindly tell us what this means
Thanking you

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

You may ask those responsible for that page.

Taher Siddiqui

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Authenticity of hadith regarding Hazrat Jibril

Question:


Assalamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullah,
Sheikh Gibril,
I hope you and your family are in ‘aafiya.

I wanted to ask you Sheikh what the authenticity of the following hadith:

The Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam once asked Hadrat Jibrael Alaihis Salam,

“O Jibrael! How old are you?”
Jibrael al-Ameen Alaihis Salam replied,
“O Rasoolullah SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam, I don’t know how old I am, but I do know that in the Fourth Covering (حجاب), I saw a star shine once every 70,000 years, and I saw this 72,000 times.”

The Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam then said,

وعزة ربي انا ذلك الكوكب

“By the honour of Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta’ala! I was that star.” [Tafseer Rooh al-Bayaan, Vol. 1, Page 974]

Wassalaam

Answer:
Alaykum as-Salam,

This narration is found without chain or sourcing in Shaykh Isma`il Haqqi’s Sufi Tafsir Ruh al-Bayan for Surat al-Tawba verse 9:128, and in the Sira Halabiyya (1351H Azhariyya edition with Dahlan Sira in the margin 1:36) where the author says he saw it in a book whose author he does not recall, entitled al-Tashrifaat fil-Khasa’is wal-Mu`jizaat. The Moroccan hadith scholar Shaykh `Abd Allah al-Ghumari in his Murshid al-Haa’ir declares it a forgery.

However, the veracity of its meaning is supported by several Qur’anic verses and hadiths, such as:

The Verse of Light (24:35) where the two earliest Tafsirs — among others — concur that the “Shimmering Star” (kawkabun durriyyun) refers to the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) cf. Tafsirs of Muqatil and al-Tabari.

{and I am the first of those who surrender} (6:163). Ruzbahan Baqli (d. 606/1210) said of this verse in his Tafsir: “It is an indication of the primacy (taqaddum) of his spirit and his substance over everything else and everyone else in existence in the Divine Presence.”

Al-Qurtubi said in his Tafsir: “{and I am the first of those who surrender} because there is no one who is first other than Muhammad—upon him blessings and peace. If someone asks: Are not Ibrahim and the Prophets before him? We reply that he comes first before them because of his primacy in creation over them.”

“I was the first of the Prophets to be created and the last one to be sent.” Narrated from Abu Hurayra by Tammam al-Razi in his Fawa’id (4:207 §1399); al-Tabarani in Musnad al-Shamiyyin (4:34-35 §2662); and Abu Nu`aym in Dala’il al-Nubuwwa (p. 42 §3); also narrated mursal from Qatada by al-Tabari in his Tafsir (sub 33:7) and with the wording “the first of the people” by Ibn Sa`d in his Tabaqat (1:124).

{And when We exacted a covenant from the Prophets, and from you (O Muhammad) and from Nuh and Ibrahim and Musa and `Isa son of Maryam. We took from them a solemn covenant} (33:7). Al-Qurtubi said: “Qatada said that the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: ‘I was the first of the Prophets to be created and the last one to be sent;’ and this is the reason he was mentioned first in this verse before Nuh and others.”

The Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) himself gave the above explanation by pronouncing the above hadith after reciting verse 33:7. Then he added: “Thus the sequence began with me ahead of them” (Ibn Abi Hatim, Tafsir 10:3116, sub Q 33:7)

And Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Aunty is dying

Request:

Assalmoalaikum

My aunty [private], is dying from cancer. She saw a specialist recently who told her family that because after much time, she has stopped responding to treatment and there is nothing they can do now about her cancer so they say she has around 2 months left to live. Allah Almighty All-Knowing is the best of planners, He Knows what we know not. I would like to make a humble request to Sheikh Hisham to PLEASE ask Sheikh Nazim to make dua for my aunty. She has brought up a beautiful, generous, modest and pious family mashaAllah. They are all so worried for her.

Many thanks for taking the time to read this.

Kind regards,

Assalamoalaikum

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,
Insha Allah, Shaykh Hisham will pray for her. Refer to this posting: Last Stage Cancer.

Abdul Shakur

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Parental Disapproval, Respect

Question:

Asalaam Alaikum,
Ever since i have started to take my deen seriously and accepted Moulana as my guide in this life, i have been met with anger from my parents. My mother recently asked me to shave my beard off and i politely tried to explain to her why i could not. And now i have a turban which she opposes because she thinks it looks silly. I have tried again to explain but she feels that when she says to me ‘do not do this or that’ i view it from a islamic perspective and either agree or refuse politely but she feels since becoming more religious i do not listen to her. Please i need moulana’s dua and your advice.

JazakAllah Khair

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,
It is important to keep good relations with our parents. Continue being a good son. Give her time. You can also let her adjust gradually, e.g. you may keep your beard short and kempt first, and wear the turban only for prayer when at home (don’t wear it all the time), or carry your turban in a bag when you leave home and return if possible. From time to time you may do more.

Recite: Ya Quddus, Ya Salam, Ya Halim and Ya Allah 100 times each, Insha Allah, she will be more tolerant.

Abdul Shakur

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Prayer Request: Jihad ul Nafs, exams

Request:

Salaamun Aleyk.

May Allah give Mawlana Sheikh long life and good health and raise his station.

It seems that as soon as I am motivated to defy my nafs there are a lot of distractions for ego. I get a lot of attention from girls. This affects me the most and i was asking is there anything for me to read/do to control this or stop them from looking.

Along with this could you please pray I succeed in my exams and use my future career in the way of Allah. Also is there anything i could read to better my memory and make my exams easier.
Finally, pray that I get married soon to a person who Allah and his Habeeb s.a.w are happy with

May Allah send limitless rewards upon you All
Many Thanks
Forgive me for any disrespect.

Wasalaamun Aleyk,

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,
Of course Shaytan will do anything to distract. Just ignore them and recite Astaghfirullah.
Refer to this posting about memory and studies: Prayer Request: Devastated due to memory power.

Abdul Shakur

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Prayer Request: Fearfulness

Request:

Aaslam o Aalikum
Last few months lots of thing happened in my life after that I’m very scary of people and life after death. My heart every time in fear and I can’t trust. Others pray for me Allah give me strength and my fear finish and I face the,world and my my life move in forward … And also pray my and my family problem solved ….plz dua for me special my heart peace and fear finish… After my divorce I’m totally breaking down…

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,
Recite Yaa Halim 100x to calm down. And Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq and An-Naas 33x each.

Abdul Shakur

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Talaq

Question:

Aaslam o Aalikum
My husband give me 3 divorce in anger. When we ask some one he told as that’s one divorce. After that time we are fight and I’m mostly living with a depression problem. We had really bad fight again and I ask him to give me talaq… He doesn’t want to give me talaq, but everyone force him to divorce me then he write a letter to me. He wrote the he doesn’t want to give me divorce but I want divorce to from him. That’s why he give me talaq talaq talaq, full three divorce. Now some people told me that’s one , so I’m really upset. what I do in this condition? Plz help me and explain to me about this if I one then I go back.to his house……

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

After your husband pronounced triple Talaq you are supposed to try to reconcile during the waiting period of three menstrual cycles with the help of well intention mediators. If you break the waiting period by engaging in sexual intercourse you are deemed to have been reconciled, but if you don’t and the waiting period is over then the divorce takes place.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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