Nikkah during menses

Question:

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim, first I want to thank you for this webspace you provide to clarify doubts or things we can not understand well and are important for us, people who are trying to follow the way of our beloved Prophet.

I have a simple question: Is it possible to perform nikkah/marriage during bride’s menses? The date of the wedding was already decided and preparation is in process. Possibly the bride will be in her menstrual days at this day. Do we need to postpone the wedding?

Thanks for your answer in advance and may Allah bless you for ever.

Answer:

No reason to postpone the wedding if scheduled to be performed outside a masjid. The menstrual only impedes a woman from formal prayers, entering the prayer room, touching mushaf and performing a Hajj ritual (Tawaf).

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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Prayer Request: Love for Prophet Muhammad SAW

Request:

Salaam Alaykum All,
Alhamdulillah and thank you for your time.
I feel my love for prophet Muhammad SAW is increasing, please make duas it keeps on increasing and increasing inshaAllah. And this love for Muhammad SAW is put in my families, relatives, friends’ hearts. I would like everyone to become the true lovers of Prophet Muhammad SAW, our blessed prophet. This love to reach immense levels that we can feel it constantly everywhere and no bad feelings in the air, just pure/true love. Forgive me for my lack of adab.
Salaams.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,
Alhamdulillah, Allah Almighty has honoured you with abundant love for His Beloved. There is nothing better in this life than that. Read his life story, increase Salawat, listen to Qasa’id and follow his Sunnah, Insha Allah, you are fine.

Abdul Shakur

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Prayer Request: Help in completeing Ya salamo 125000

Request:

AOA,

I’m writing to you in hopes that you can assist me in completing a ya salamo khatam of 125000 for healthy recovery for myself. All medical treatments have failed and I have none left but Allah to accept me duas. So please assist me in completing this khatam for my healthy recovery. May Allah swt give you jazah here and in the here after.

Response:

May Allah Most High grant you full and complete recovery. Give sadaqa daily even small and recite ya Salam x100-1000 daily. Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Wahabi, Salafi Beliefs

Question:

AOA,
I just wanted to ask you a question?
What is the difference between Naqashbandi, Syed, Gilani and all these silsilas? they all claim their chain goes back to the prophet. They are all misguiding people and creating divisions in Islam. Shaykh Hishams taweez and dua aytul kursi says Ya Hin Ya ali. This is all shirk. Ya means the person who can hear you and only Allah can do that. These silsilas are creating problems in Islam and are against shariah. Shaykh Hisham says in video for the dua of aytul kursi that he say Allah this and that. That is bidah. No one can see Allah until day of judgement only Moses Saw Allah.
How do you know these Wali’s are real or fake?

Answer:

There are no distinctions, no problems. They all guide us back to Allah, their destination is Him alone. It is for those who have belief, knowledge, manners, love and taste. We advise you to instill your self with those, and perhaps the blessings shall come.

Abdul Shakur

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Prayer Request: Need help

Request:

Asalam Alaykum,

My name is [private]. May Allah (SWT) give Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and Mawlana Shaykh Hisham long and happy lives as well as all the noble Shaykhs of the Naqshbandi tariqa.

Ya Sayyidi, I ask for your prayers to help me control my nafs. I am not married and find it difficult to control my sexual urges. Could you please pray that I can fight this lust, and stop my evil addiction? Also is there anything I can recite to help? I apologize for my lack of adab.

Response:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Ask your parents to find a wife for you to avoid falling into haram. Meanwhile fast as much as possible and recite daily: allahuma ‘kfina bi halalika `an haramika w ‘aghnina bi-fadlik `amman siwak.

Taher Siddiqui

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Spiritual Shaykh

Question:

Assalam o Alaikum, My question is how do we know that who is our spiritual shaykh ? Is it a persons choice who he wants as a shaykh or is there spiritual connection already between the two which in time reveals itself?.
My respects for the great shaykh. Plz do remember me & my children in your prays to live life with strong emaan & die in emaan.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Our masters teach us that we are assigned to our shaykh or shuyukh from the Day of Promises, and with time your heart will insha-Allah find that connection as long as you  keep it clean and hold the intention of finding your destined guide.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Is this a positive sign?

Dream:

Salaam

I am going through a very hard time with family as they wont accept my choice of husband because he is a different caste. My mother has hit me and swore at me because I wont accept another proposal from a religious man as I already have someone I wish to be with. Last night, I asked Allah and mawlana for a sign or a dream and when I slept, I dreamt that I was with my mother and family and put the last bit of rice from the dish onto my plate. I then remembered that I am married to the person I want to marry and went back to the dish to see if there was any left for my husband and the dish was full of rice again so I put some in for him and put it aside. Is this a sign?
Jzk Khair

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is a very good sign. Be patient and pray Ya Mufatihul-abwab iftah lee khayru’l-bab every day.

Taher Siddiqui

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My Baya’

Question:

Asalamoalaikum respected shaykh, may Allah bless mawlana shaykh nazim with his blessing and mercy and the ummah of our beloved prophet hazrat Muhammad (peace be upon him).

I have recently become a mureed of mawlana shaykh nazim, Before i became mureed, i was a mureed of another shaykh, but i was not feeling love for that shaykh as much as i do for mawlana shaykh nazim. i denied my baya with my previous shaykh without informing him.

1: is my baya with shaykh nazim now?,
or
2: will i still have a spiritual connection with the other shaykh (there is nothing wrong with that shaykh i just dont feel a connection with him).

i love mawlana shaykh nazim and have started the awrad for beginners and my life has become brighter.

3: i’m getting the waswasa: “is my baya with mawlana shaykh nazim strong/true?” what can i do to stop waswasa?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah your baya` to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani is true. Make sure you keep this one.

Taher Siddiqui

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Need Permission

Question:

Assalam O Allikum,
Kindly grant me permission for Dua Hizbul Bahar recitation on daily basis,and also this dua recitation for specific reasons.

Regards,

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah there is general permission to recite this du`a and it is powerful protection from enemies evil intentions.

Taher Siddiqui

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Personal

Question:

as salaam sayyedi maulana nazim Please give me dua and zikhar to protect to me my family from enemies and black magic please help me quickly and make dua for me Allah  sayyedi maulana nazim d/ b

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Use the prescription here: “Black magic and nazar“.

Staff

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