Wisdom of gratefulness

Question:

Assalamualaikum
I once heard Mawlana Nazim say”Allah SWT loves most the grateful ones first and then the patient ones”.I am afraid of falling into sin of ungratefulness. Especially once I get married, I fear being one of the women the Beloved Nabi SAW mentioned to be in Hellfire most. Also,I wish to attain Allah SWT love.
Hence, I am asking this question -can you explain the wisdom of being grateful? How I can become one of the grateful ones (via any particular zikr, inculcating a particular habit etc?).
I try to be grateful as much as I can, but sometimes, I hear my ego say “why am I doing so? Look at other people, they are happy w/o being that grateful”. I want to put an end to this. And sometimes I wonder, am I truly grateful to Allah SWT and want to earn His love? Please clear the concepts for me. JazakAllah.

Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
You are able to diagnose the ill behavior of your ego and that is a big step even if it is still not under your control. So continue struggling, and the way to reduce its harm permanently is by building up the regularity of dhikr by tongue and by heart insha-Allah. Read the chapter on gratitude in the Risala Qushayriyya and meditate on some of its wonders.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Treatment for my father

Question:

My father is having high sugar and now is suffering from pneumonia, a lung disease. Please tell me what should I do as soon as possible.

Answer:
Continue to follow qualified medical advice.
For diabetes Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah sanctify his soul) advises to drink tea made out of goose-grass (gallium aparine).

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Imam Mahdi (as)

Dream:

I am not a mureed of Shaikh Nazim (Allah protect them) but I have a question which I would appreciate any feedback. On the night of Eid Adha during my wird I felt interaction with my shaykh and they said I would have a dream to confirm Mahdi (as). They were on Hajj. I woke up in the morning as if I had experienced Mahdi (as) my body was with electricity and I was shaking. On the same night my son of 8 years told me had a dream that Prophet (saws) came to him and said certain words and he experienced very bright light which woke him up. Is there anything we can gain from this?

Interpretation:
audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

It is a true vision dressing you with the blessing of Sayyidina Imam Mahdi (a.s.). This is confirmed further by your son’s vision.
wAllahu a`lam.
Kamau Ayyubi

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Live with husband of different religion

Question:

assalamualaikum warrahmatullahi wabarakatuh, I’ve been living with my husband with diffrent religion for almost 14 years. At the moment I would like to divorce my husband, but until now he seems doesn’t want to divorce me. I would like your du’a for me Maulana, and could you give me aurad/wirid should I have. Thank you Maulana

Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
We are praying for you. If the husband follows a different religion then already the marriage was void. Try to bring him to Islam or else, as we said, it is already void.

Recite Ya Sattar Ya Jabbar 100 times daily.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Husband wife relationship

Request:

Salam, I have been married since feb 2011, have written before & Shaikh Hisham asked to be patient. My reception is in Jan 2012 & I am having negative feelings about my marriage. I don’t know if this marraige is going going to work out? Have doubts & questions about my marraige. Do not feel loved or happy & constantly neglected & don’t know how long I can be patient. I need some answers. Please help me. I am begining to lose faith, love & hope in this marriage & in my spouse because of his behaviour. Before I got married prayed to Allah for a spouse within Naqshbandi tariqa & I even looked but I didn’t get anyone. My spouse is very shariat based we are different. He shows no interest in me. Don’t know why he married me. I need help. Don’t want to lose my faith, frustrated, depressed

Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
If your heart not accepting, take shower, pray 2 raka`ats, meditate in your heart. Whatever inspiration comes, follow it.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Nuur

Request:

Assalamualaikum
The Honourable Grandsheikh Sultanul Awliya’ Sheikh Muhammad Nazim Al Haqqani and Sheikh Hisyam Al Haqqani.
Dear Sheikh Hisyam, I’m hoping that the honourable Sheikh could pray for me so that I can have a ‘nuur‘ into my heart. I’m hoping that my heart will have a real love from Allah swt and our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH. Dear sheikh, I’m also hoping that the honourable could send my regards to our Grandsheikh Sultanul awliya’ Sheikh Muhammad Nazim Al Haqqani. I’m hoping ,one day I can meet our beloved Grandsheikh Sultanul Awliya’ Sheikh Muhammad Nazim Al Haqqani. The honourable Syeikh Hisyam , I’m sorry if my writing is not in the right grammar or pronoun. Thank you The honourable Sheikh Hisyam, I’m hope someday that I can meet The Honourable Sheikh Hisyam.Thank you again. Peace be upon you, The Honourable Sheikh Hisyam Al Haqqani

Response:
audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,
wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah by the Generosity of Allah and Mercy of Prophet your desire for Nur and Mahabah will be given.

wAllahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Experience in Murakaba

Question:

Assalamu Aleikum,

Last three days I have been experiencing in muraqaba something different, while sitting in Zikr, (in Murakaba) after some moment, my breath become fast and word “Allah” mixed with breath and body starts to shake, when zikr becoming fast, my breath also becomes fast as well body, along with the word Allah. In that state I cannot pronounce clearly but ony breath says so. Since I am a beginner I cannot understand this is correct or not. Can you put some light on this. If you can elaborate more in murakab what is happening/experiencing in that state. So we can understand.
thank you, and jazakallah khair

Answer:
audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,
wa `alaykum salam
,
Many experiences may come as result of Meditation. What you described sounds like Tayy al-Lisan (Scrolling of the Tongue) where the Light of dhikrullah is transmitted quickly through the heart and through the entire system of your body. The main issue is continuing the spiritual journey and eliminating bad characteristics (akhlaq dhammimah) for good qualities through Love of Allah, Prophet (s) and Awliya.

wAllahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Abu Bakr and following the Sunna

Question:

Annemarie Schimmel attributes, in her book “And Muhammad is his messenger”, the following statement to Sayyidna Abu Bakr: “I do not omit anything of the things the Messenger of God has done, for I am afraid that if I should omit it, I could go astray.”

Is this hadith authentic? And where is it recorded?

Answer:
This hadith is sound (sahih) and is recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Black flags from Khurasan

Question:

Assalamo Alaykom,
In Hadith we read :“If you see the black banners coming from the direction of Khurasân, then go to them, even if you have to crawl, because among them will be Allah’s Caliph the Mahdî.” [Related by al-Hâkim (8572) and Ahmad (22387)] .

The Afghan Taliban carries black flags at present day in Afghanistan (Khurasan). Are they the ” black banners” mentioned in Hadith or is there any other “black banner” army we have to wait for? And are Afghan Taliban Sufis because from the following Suhbet we can understand that they belong to Naqshbandi way of Ahle Sunnah ?:

http://www.sunnah.org/audio/khutba/sohbat.html

Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
The suhba itself does not say what you state, and as for identifying the carriers of the black flags in today’s terms Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Did Ibn Aqil prohibit tawassul ?

Question:

SA,

It seems Ibn Muflih, Ibn al Jawzi and Ibn al Qayyim has quoted Ibn Aqil prohibiting tawassul as seen quoted by Wahabis here and here.

Are these attributions true ? Is there a tampering of the manuscripts involved ?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,
It appears that Ibn Muflih/Ibn `Aqil meant the Shi`is and their practices at graves since they said: “They call them a mash-had,” a term at that time rarely used by Sunnis, and they also mention their tying of votive and petitionary ribbons which is a Shi`i practice. What is also decried is extravagance and needless expense especially in public graveyards.

As for the statement “as if addressing a living person” it is a slip, because if such address is shirk, it is shirk in life or in death, regardless of biological life or its absence; and to make mere biological human life the differentiating marker between ability and inability to benefit is patent polytheism, since in both cases it is Allah Most High alone who gives or withholds, without regard whatsoever to whether the means is living or dead. This is a very grave point which was highlighted by Dr. Samer an-Nass in his book al-Wasila ila Haqiqat al-Tawassul which we had the honor of reading in full with him in Damascus.

In any case, there are big methodological problems in quoting Ibn `Aqil — Allah have mercy on him. Among them:

(1) Ibn `Aqil himself said in his Funun (2:493) stated that a foundational principle of debate is that you have to believe that the source and proof you are quoting are themselves authentic for your conclusion to be sound; yet those Wahhabis on the one hand quote Ibn `Aqil only when he purportedly speaks against tawassul; but by default they consider him astray and a “Jahmi” (as they say!) in doctrine in imitation of Ibn Taymiyya, since Ibn `Aqil rejected the literal affirmation of certain Divine Attributes as anthropomorphism, see for example his Kitab al-Funun (2:716-718).

Furthermore, on the issue of tawassul and tabarruk Ibn al-Qayyim in Bada’i` al-Fawa’id quoted Ibn `Aqil as stating that there is consensus in Islam that the grave of the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) is holier and more blessed than the Two Holy Sanctuaries, the Ka`ba, the seven Heavens, the Throne, the Kursi and the Eight Paradises. This is also mentioned in Burhan al-Din Ibn Muflih’s book al-Mubdi` (3:70). Do those who quote them against tawassul also accept this or not? So Wahhabis, according to Ibn `Aqil himself, are hypocrites for quoting him on Monday and then denouncing him on Tuesday and the rest of the week.

(2) Ibn `Aqil had Mu`tazili teachers and followed them on many views to such an extent that the Hanbalis in his time intended to kill him “until he repented,” as related in his biographical notices. Consequently, whatever is quoted from him has to be weighed against the consensus and against the established positions of the Hanbali School in particular and Ahl al-Sunna wal-Jama`a at large. On the matter of tawassul here he may for example be following the Mu`tazili position which consists in denying the miracles of Awliya‘ whether in life or after death. We know from Kitab al-Funun (1:375-376) that he strongly leaned to that position and defended the Mu`tazili claim that there are only (Prophetic) mu`jizat, but no (non-Prophetic) karamat. This is in fact the Wahhabi position to this day and the actual evidence that Wahhabis are Mu`tazilis when it comes to discussing wilaya and Awliya‘, except that Wahhabis went much further and tried to inflict the harm of their heresy on the very person of the Prophet Muhammad, upon him Divine blessings, peace, infinite honor and endless magnification.

Beware of those who quote in a vacuum in order to mislead Muslims and lie about the usul of an entire madhhab regarding certain issues. Trying to quote Hanbalis against tawassul is a mark of ignorance or hypocrisy since Ibn `Aqil, Ibn Muflih, al-Buhuti, Ibn al-Jawzi, Ibn al-Qayyim, and more important Hanbalis such as Imam Ahmad himself and his immediate companions all taught that tawassul is desirable in every du`a and this is very well-known in the Hanbali school as it is the one madhhab that is most vocal on recommending tawassul, ziyara and tabarruk. See the relevant sections in the chapter on Imam Ahmad in my Four Imams and Their Schools and my Arabic text in defense of Habib Ali Jifri entitled Tuhfat al-Labib bi-Nusrat al-Habib available here, particularly the following 24 chapters:

10. The Salaf Did Build Mosques Over Graves and Visiting Graves Is Licit in the Law
11. The Building of Tombs is Licit Over the Elite of the Awliya, Ulema, and Ahl al-Bayt
12. Travel to Visit Graves for Du`a and Tawassul Is a Sunnah of the Salaf and Khalaf
13. Visiting the Prophetic Grave is a Qurba by Consensus Except Ahmad ibn Taymiyya
14. Explanation of “Do not Make My Grave a `Eid” and Documentation of “Whoever Visits My Grave Has My Intercession”
15. The Hadith “They Took the Graves of Their Prophets as Mosques” Has a Sunni Interpretation and a Bid`i Interpretation
16. Touching of Kissing the Grave for Love or Tabarruk is Allowed or Rather Desirable According to Imam Ahmad
17. The Miracles of the Awliya are A Reality and Among Them is our Liege-Lord `Ali, Allah be well-pleased with him
18. The Life of Prophets in Their Graves and the Prophet’s Awareness of Our States Are All Firmly Established
19. Sayyid Muhammad ibn `Alawi al-Maliki’s Explanation of the Life of Our Prophet in Barzakh, upon him blessings and peace
20. Documentation and Grading of the Hadith “My Life is a Great Good for You and My Death…”
21. Our Going to the Prophet of Mercy, upon him peace, for the Fulfillment of Needs
22. Our Going to the Graves of Awliya for the Fulfillment of Needs
23. Al-Qari’s Paramount Benefit of Certain Acts One Should Perform at the Graves of Anbiya, Awliya and Ulema

Following are some Hanbali fatwas on the issue of seeking the baraka of the righteous at their graves:

Muwaffaq al-Din Ibn Qudama in al-Mughni (3:442) and Shams al-Din Ibn Qudama al-Maqdisi in al-Sharh al-Kabir (2:389) said: “It is desirable (mustahabb) to have burial done in the graveyard where there are many righteous (salihun) and martyrs (shuhada‘) so that their blessing reach one (li-tanalahu barakatuhum), and likewise in honored areas.” Ibn Rajab says the same in his book Ahwal al-Qubur and he narrates that in Baghdad `Abd Allah the son of Imam Ahmad even preferred to be buried next to a Prophet rather than next to his father for that very reason: to seek the greater blessing.

Ibn al-Najjar in Muntaha al-Iradat (1:166), al-Hajjawi in al-Iqna` (1:233), and Shams al-Din Ibn Muflih in al-Furu` (2:278) said that Abu Bakr and `Umar (Allah be well-pleased with them) “chose to be buried near the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) in order to obtain honor and blessing (tasharrufan wa-tabarrukan).”

As for touching a grave for blessing (tabarrukan) it is permissible in the Hanbali Madhhab and that is a well-known fatwa of Imam Ahmad and all subsequent jurists of his school as shown in my Four Imams and the words used in Ibn Muflih, Mubdi` (2:281), Shams al-Din Ibn Muflih, Furu` (2:300), and Mar`i al-Karmi in Ghayat al-Muntaha (1:259): “There is no harm in touching a grave by hand, especially of one whose blessing is hoped for (la siyyama man turja barakatuh).” It is also desirable (mustahabb) to touch the minbar of the Prophet and wipe one’s face with one’s hand to obtain blessing as mentioned in Ibn Qudama in al-Mughni (5:467), al-Buhuti in Kashshaf al-Qina` (2:517), and al-Mardawi in al-Insaf (4:54). Shams al-Din Ibn Muflih in al-Furu` (3:523) mentions it then states: “This is based on derigving blessing through the vestiges of the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) after his death.” Meaning: exactly what present-day Wahhabis are trying to change, hide, tamper with and prevent the Ummah from practicing.

In Siyar A`lam al-Nubala’ Imam al-Dhahabi also mentioned that Imam Ahmad allowed kissing the grave labels as “a Khawariji innovator whoever has a problem with this fatwa of Imam Ahmad,” where I believe he is alluding to his own teacher Ibn Taymiyya — Allah forgive him. And this is also what those Wahhabis are, except that the Khawarij of old were pious and feared Allah Most High.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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