Its a family issue

Question:

Salam. Regarding with my elder brother whose behaviour is not good with my parents..and my family is very much disturb. I have an issue regarding my elder brother. He loves a girl and want to get marrige with her. Although my parents are not satisfied with the behaviour of that girl and my brother is also changing day by day some times he is too rude with us.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

The good pleasure of Allah consists in the good pleasure of parents. A little patience goes a long way but rebelliousness means a bad son and a bad spouse with only misery ahead. Advise your brother to read Surat Luqman and to recite Ya Haleem x100 daily so that all good things will come to him in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Istakhara request

Prayer Request:

Respected Sir Assalam o Alaikum,
Please kindly do istakhara for me,I am in love with this man but I have doubts regarding marriage.Should I marry him?His name is [private], my name is [private].
Thank you.

Answer:

Alaykum salam,

Love comes after marriage, not before. Inform your parents of your wish and trust in Allah. In sha Allah it is a good match.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Istikhara

Question:

Mere Bhai[private] Ka Rishta [private] jinki ammi ka naam [private] …meri ammi ka naam baby. [private] hai .. ye rishta kaisa rahega plz bataye plz

In sha Allah it is good. Trust in Allah and go ahead.

Translation:

I would like you do a istikharah for my brother’s marriage
My bother’s name is [private], mother name [private]
girl name is [private] mother name [private]
Please do istikharah and let us know how would this proposal will be.
Thanks.

Answer:

In sha Allah it is good. Trust in Allah and go ahead.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Im lying in bed feeling very ill

Question:

Im lying in bed feeling very ill panicky, my mum is trying to console me. Suddenly an elderly man in green turban enters my room, he had a beard & Qur’an in his hands & starts reciting over me then…Pencil thin wooden like sticks covered in metal thorns start coming out from hands, feet & neck nonstop. Last sticks leave chest & I cough up piece of wood & say “Allahu Akbar.” I ask mum where is the bazurg & she says he recited all night over you & left.

Answer:

Walaikumas Salam Wa Rahmatullah,

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
A very holy person of Allah is looking after you and cleaning you from your anxiety and filling your heart with peace. This holy person is following the Holy Quran and the sunnah of the Holy Messenger sallallahu alayhis salam. Please recite shukranlillah wal-hamdulillah.

Syed Shahzaman

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Dream: yellow rope

Question:

aslam alykum in my dream old hazrat infront of me my lover also near me hazrat give yellow with white rope to him. My lover tie with my hand and sign on some book me and him register hazrat say its your marriage finish. Plz tel me meaning sir i got confused.

Answer:

Walaikum salam

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
Rope means agreement. This is a heavenly indication for you to get married soon and not to wait. The presence of the hazrat means it will be blessed insha Allah. If you are married already with someone else then you should recite astagfirullah 1000x and disregard the dream.

Syed Shahzaman

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Dream: Accident

Question:

Salam, from 2 years I had the same dream that I am with my husband & our car fall from bridge or was about to hit big containers,in dream i m saying to my husband that I told u this is going to happen but then my husband save the car & say look I saved us.

Answer:

Walaikum salam

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
Alhamdulillah you were saved by Allah’s Mercy. Please give regular charity because our Holy Prophet (sallal lahu alayhis salam) advised us that charity keeps away difficulties.

Syed Shahzaman

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Regarding a virgin sister.

Question:

Salam, I wanted to inquire regarding a sister, who needs to see a gyneacologist as she has an issue with her ovaries, as she misses her monthly cycle very often. Is it permissible for her to go ahead with the process as she is a virgin?

Answer:

It is permissible for a virgin sister to see a gynecologist. The gynecologist can check her ovaries by sticking her fingers in anus rather than vaginally. In any case the sister wanting to keep her hymen intact should tell her gynecologist that she is virgin to avoid damaging the hymen. But what needs to be known is that some virgins don’t bleed when having sex. The husband is to trust her wife’s claim regarding her virginity.

Imam Senad Agic
American Islamic Center – Chicago
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salah between asr and magrib

Question:

Asalamu alykum. I heard that between asr and magrib no salah not even nafal salah CANNOT be offered.. and between magrib and isha… Please clarify.

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Nafila can be offered at all times except after Fajr prayer until sunrise and half an hour after sunrise (the height of a spear); and after ‘Asr prayer until sundown. It is allowed to offer Nafila between Maghrib and ‘Isha prayers.

Imam Senad Agic
American Islamic Center – Chicago
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prayer for parents acceptance for our marriage

Prayer Request:

Assalamu Alaykum Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu.

I need your prayers to stop his parents in forcing him to marry another lady of their choice and for his parents to instead accept our marriage as we love each other so much and we want to live in halal.

Answer:

Walaikumas salam Wa Rahmatullah,

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
Insha Allah Mawlana is praying for the best solution. Have trust in Allah and keep on saying “Hasbunallahu wa ni`mal wakil” 100x per day.

Syed Shahzaman

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Divorce or hold out?

Question:

Asalam Aleikum, during our marriage i dicovered that my husband has big psychologic problems.he had two crisis ending in hospital.he is disrespectfull until aggresive.me and our small two children we suffer of his fits of rage.what are my rights? Thankfull

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Your husband needs to seek a help from a doctor to be diagnosed and treated.

Imam Senad Agic
American Islamic Center – Chicago
www.aicchicago.com
www.imamsenadagic.com

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