Speaking lie for Allah’s pleasure

Question:

Aslamu Alaikum Wa Rehmatullah. I want to ask that is it allowed to speak lie to protect our self from the company of those who don’t remember Allah, don’t follow His orders, who use to discuss just worldly and bad things. I feel very uncomfort in such company and sometimes due to the effect of that company I also become a part of such type of bad and worldly discussion because i am not enough spiritually strong to obviate the bad effects of such company.when i leave them i feel too much guilty and make taubah. please guide me in the light of Quran and Sunnah. If it’s not right then please tell me some ways. waslaamu alaikum wa rehmatullah

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

The answer is yes but prevention is better, i.e. avoid their company altogether as “One follows the religion of the friend one keeps.”

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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URGENT

Question:

Asalam Walaikum,

My brother used to be really concentrated in his studies and loving towards my parents, but as he got older, he started talking to girls and going out, lying, missing classes, and frustrating my parents. He went away from home few days ago because he promised marriage to a Christian girl who is already divorced and has a kid that’s probably 8 or 9 yrs of age, my mom and dad are crying a lot because he won’t come back and we think the girl may be using him and brainwashing him, we don’t know. Please please I humbly request you to pray for my brother so that he can return home and for his heart to turn away from that girl. If there’s any dua we can read as well, please let us know.

Shukriya. May ALLAH reward you with tremendous blessings and happiness for your work.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for your brother and your family. A hadith states that everything is according to Qadar including intelligence and foolishness. Let your parents entrust their worries to Allah Most High and rely on Him, because it is out of their hands.

However, in sha Allah sustained istighfar, sadaqa and dua will effect a change for the better.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Amount of Maintainance

Question:

During 9 yrs of marriage my husband provided 10 000 rs for two yrs which is equal to our rent, our house is not in a posh locality for everything else I have to ask my mother . We don’t have an extraordinary life just lower middle class quite below my x family status. Our total expenses almost 35k which I am capable of earning but he doesnt let me instead wants me to continue asking my family plus he treats me very disrespectfully has degraded me in front of everyone married me on basis of lie that he earned which he did not.

Answer:

If your family is providing, you may continue to accept their help in order to keep marital peace even though he is remiss in your financial rights. His behavior towards you shows a problem which needs tawba and dhikr to resolve so that Allah brings back love and affection. If the insolvency and mismatch you describe are real and insurmountable, then
they can be grounds for a final separation payment (khulaa) initiated by yourself if that is your wish.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Marriage Istekhara

Question:

I like a girl. We both did istekhara. I don’t see anything in dream no matter how much I do istekhara. The girl saw an imam of masjid near her home couple of times and she believes its the right decision. My question is why don’t I see anything in dream? Could the girl’s dream be just a mind dream ?

Answer:

When there is no reply it means patience, and Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: to remove any signs of any kind of magic and evil eye

Request:

I am [private]. My daughters names are [private]  and [private]. They are refusing all proposals for marriage even though very good. At first they say yes and then refuse. I have been told amulets are buried in the mouth of dead body. About 16 years ago my sister-in-law took my dresses and returned with sweet meats which she forced down the throats of my children around maghrib time. The next morning they started hating me even my eldest son who was studying in US rang up to tell me he had no relation with me. Please pray for my daughters that they agree to get married and accept the next match and they get a good proposal.

Response:

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you and your children. Keep salat and good family relations, pay no attention to amulet stories but turn to Allah without fear of anyone else. With loving patience they will have good matches soon in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Is there a limit in knowledge?

Question:

Asalamwalaykum,
I read in a book where the government control its people especially when it comes to knowledge. For example: there is only one hundred poems, stories, and books because the government said that the culture is “too cluttered”. I remembered that a hadith said that Muslims must seek knowledge from the crib to the grave. It means that knowledge is never enough and there is no such thing as “too much” knowledge such as fiction books, poems, and stories (even by non-Muslims). This question had been troubling me.
Thank you.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

What question?

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Ijazah Hizb Bahr

Question:

Assalamu alaikum

Jazakallahu Yaa Sayyidy your time read my Question.

I am Indonesian Who want’s to get close to Allah Rabbul Izzati.

I need Permission and Ijazah from your Great Golden chain of Ijazah to Recite Ismaul Al ‘Azham Letters in Hizbul Bahr and how to focus my Vision and straight my Niyah only for Amal before I am reading Hizb Bahr… ? I am Afraid that when I recite this Hizb only for the benefits and Karamah..and what should I do if the Benefit or Magic come?

Syukran Jazakallahu khair Ya Syaikh

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

You have permission. However, in this Tariqa to pursue the obtainment of karama/kashf is a sin, and to experience them is a test which may end up badly. The best way is to follow our masters’ advice and keep to their path which is the highest Adab and includes the Khatm and Waza’if described at Naqshbandi.org.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Knowing

Question:

Salam,
I wish to learn about Sufism and the Shaykh, and how to do bay’at and about Aqeeda?

Answer:

Do baya online. Study tariqa from Sufilive and `aqida from sunnah.org

Taher Siddiqui

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So many problems…

Question:

Where I stand now. Over the years, the problems persisted. I had trouble in university for many years, always I finally graduated. Obviously wanted to get married, met many ppl through family. Some were no, and the ones who were yes would somehow disappear last minute. So there was a big issue of not being able to get married and I never married. Despite having many suitors. A lot of deceit by the males, female friends /extended family members showed some, if not a lot of jealousy towards me. I never understood why, because they were all settled, healthy, married. One girl in particular became a problem and is to this day. Now, I am ill at all times with no medical cause, my friends all turned against me in dramatic form one by one, I’m unmarried. I feel desperately alone, helpless and depressed. I prayed regularly throughout this entire ordeal of my life. Was blessed to make Umrah in 2004. I thought betterment was sure to come after that. No. Problems got worse. I have bruising on my body and I don’t know where it came from. On the thighs and back pain. This is difficult to say/write… But about 3 nights ago, I fell asleep after Fajr, I was obviously clothed, when I awoke about 5 hours later, i was unclothed. I am very concerned obviously. I checked my doors to see if anyone had entered the apartment, but all doors were locked and chained. Now I feel as if I cannot perform salat as I used to, overwhelming sleepiness comes over me. Preventing me from praying, even if I have made Wudu and intention. In these last nights of Ramadan I am having trouble doing any Ibadah. I keep falling asleep. When I am awake, I’m basically zombie like. Please help in any way you can. I am seeking a shaykh to perform ruqya in me to rid me of what seems to be jinn/sihr related issues. JazakAllah Khair. Sending a pic of myself . I do not wear the hijab.

Answer:

Salams,

Take baya online at Naqshbandi.org and wear taweez at all times. Put hair on bun or braids and wear ribbon to protect from hasad.

Taher Siddiqui

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Status of my queries

Question:

Dear Staff
Aslam o alikum
Kindly update me about when I’ll have my questions answered. I just want to know whether it will take months or in few days because it has been more than 4 months. I have submitted the dream on [private] and another dream on [private]. Will these dreams be interpreted or rejected from eshaykh? If they will, then approximately when? I’ll be thankful if u answer me this post promptly. Take care. Allah hafiz

Answer:

Wa `Alaykum Salam Dear Eshaykh Member,

We are very sorry for the long wait; however, as there are numerous questions being submitted each day, it is impossible for our mashaykh to respond to them all at once. InshaAllah your dreams will be interpreted soon, as our mashaykh have received them. Please do be patient with us.

Staff

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