Dua of Prophet Dawood (a.s)

Question:

Hello Sir,

I need help. I love a girl and she used to love me too, we had a clear intention of marrying each other. My family knows about this and we’ve been together for like 3 years. Recently she fell for someone and she is even confused and frustrated. She is not able to decide or find out why is this happening to her provided she knows that I am a better person than the other guy but she is not able to feel the same way for me. I just don’t want to give up as I love praying and asking from her to Allah. Kindly, guide me for reciting Hazrat Dawood. a.s. dua. I mean is it necessary to do the fasting process or we can recite it 101 times daily. For how long this should be done and also i need the permission. Kindly reply as soon as possible.

Answer:

A`udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem

There is general permission to recite this dua. Please proceed as stated here. Shaykh Gibril has said to wear the tawiz for 40 days and if no improvement than move on. See also here for an advice by Hajjah Faridah.

Staff

Posted in General | Comments Off on Dua of Prophet Dawood (a.s)

The Ghayat al Hakim (Picatrix)

Question:

As far as I know, the Naqshbandis guard in high esteem the Shams al Ma3arif of Ahmad al Buni. Is the other great Medieval grimoire which is Ghayat al Hakim (Picatrix) of al Majriti or pseudo-alMajriti also reguarded as valuable, according to the Naqshbandis?

Answer:

786

From a superficial perspective – never appropriate when considering the “hiddenness” of the occult – it would appear that both of these works are similarly concerned with dubious affairs relating to astral and talismanic magic. However, the foremost academic specialist on such matters in the world of Islam, Toufic Fahd, has in fact established an essential distinction separating them: only the work of al-Buni constructs a “temple” exalting the glory and omnipotence of Allah, offering nothing less than a “Qur’anic alchemy,” the elixir of which is the happiness of man. Such a description, however, is not really surprising, since the comparison of alchemy with the Science of Letters – the essence of al-Buni’s great work – has already been explained by Shaykh `Abd al-Wahid Yahya in reference to the initiatory rank of the “Red Sulphur.”

It is not without significance that your question concerns the “guarding” of the Naqshbandis. The very name “Naqshband” contains a meaning that is undeniably talismanic: “naqsh” being a term used in the Persian language for a talisman and “band” referring to the binding of influences through that talisman. Of course, the title of the order more likely refers to the imprinting of the heart with the Divine Name, and spirituality is only concerned with influences of the most superior domain. It would be appropriate, then, for a Naqshbandi initiate to safeguard the highest influences at work in the Science of Letters. For his part, Shamsuddin al-Buni, may Allah sanctify his secret, maintains that neither the origin nor the goal of his science belongs to an inferior domain, without, obviously, denying its operative virtues.

Even so, such matters are not without very real dangers. The Science of Letters (`ilm al-huruf) is in reality the Science of the Saints (`ilm al-awliya’), but those concerned with inferior domains belong rather among the “magicians and athiests,” at least according to the Shaykh al-akbar and Kibrit al-ahmar, may Allah sanctify his secret.

Mahmoud Shelton

Posted in Sufism (Tasawwuf) | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on The Ghayat al Hakim (Picatrix)

Confusion

Question:

Asalamo alaikum
I married a man without my parent’s consent and been living a life of secrecy for almost 20 yrs. He promised he would leave his first wife but still hasn’t. Now he says he can’t because of his old father. He doesn’t give me full rights as his wife. He has no relation to first wife not even talking to her. But he is always moody and angry. And sells alcohol and we fight over this. What can I do?

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Selling alcohol brings curses as does cutting ties with parents in one’s family life. Your respective acts gravely need fixing. Make tawba and istighfar day and night, in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Marriage/Divorce | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Confusion

Divorce

Question:

Salaam,
My father walked out one night on us and has left us for a woman he’s been committing adultery with for a number of years. He has since not payed for me or my siblings maintenance and doesn’t want anything to do with us. My mum was wondering if you could ask Shaykh Nazim if it’s ok for her to file for a divorce as financially we are struggling and our father won’t sign the house over to us even though we are an have payed for it. However many people are discouraging her from doing so, so could you please help us?Jazakallah

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
If no maintenance of wife for a year then she can obtain divorce and let her stay in the house and show all the papers proving she has paid for it so she can keep it for herself and her children.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Marriage/Divorce | Tagged , , , , , , , | Comments Off on Divorce

Permission for divorce URGENT!!!!!!!

Question:

salaam alikum Sayidi Shaykh Hisham Kabbani.
I have been married to my first cousin for 1 year we have baby boy. We have never got on. Her family interfere in our marriage. We don’t love each other or talk. My name is [private]. Her father and mother have taken her back home with my son. Please can I have permission for divorce.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham replies that as long as she is not asking for divorce you should be patient. He read Fatiha for you.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Family Issues | Comments Off on Permission for divorce URGENT!!!!!!!

Istikhara dream

Question:

Asalaamu alaikum, I had a proposal from a brother but asked for nikah to be done in secret as his family would never allow him to marry a revert. I have mixed emotions for him so I did Isikhara. I had dream I was grooming him, washing his hair and two of his brothers were laughing and talking with me. He did istikhara and he went to jump and talk was women’s rights in marriage. Are these positive signs or coincidence? I think I’m being told I could marry him even though it’ll be a hard life for me but I’m unsure if it’s just my feelings for him wanting me to marry him not true feeling from Allah to guide me?

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
There is permission and blessing if you are prepared to face difficulties from family but it will get better in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Marriage/Divorce | Comments Off on Istikhara dream

Marraige of my daughter

Question:

Assalam Alaikum

My name is [private] and my daughters name is [private], she wants to get married to a boy named [private] whose mothers name is [private], can u please do Istikhara and tell me if it’s a good relationship. Also tell me a dua to make it easy for us, as there are many problems.

Jazak Allah Khair

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Istikhara
is good and in sha Allah there is blessing in it. Give sadaqa and recite Surat al Inshirah or Surat Yasin to remove difficulties.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Marriage/Divorce | Comments Off on Marraige of my daughter

Vaginismus Cure

Question:

Assalaamu Alaykum respected Ulama,

I am married for 4 years now and I still find intercourse extremely painful – and most times it does not happen. I have been to a few medical doctors and they have told me that I have condition called vaginismus.

In order to cure this condition, I have to start inserting my finger or other small objects into my private parts so that the muscles can loosen up. I have to do this for several months. Please advise if this is Islamically allowed as I am well aware that masturbation is haraam.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Sister.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Follow that medical advice with the intention of shifa as it is not a permanent situation in sha Allah. Mawlana is praying for your cure.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Halal & Haram | Tagged , | Comments Off on Vaginismus Cure

Dream: Death and Punishment

Dream:

Asalaamu alaykum,
I saw a lady on her death bed and her brother is sitting by her looking very upset. I find out that doctors have said she will not survive. I see her surrounded by people who are beating her. There appears to be a skeleton standing around her. Her hands are being broken because she is a sinner. I am told that she is going to be punished and that she is suffering now to see how much punishment she will be able to take in the next life. She is half stone. I do not recognize her but I am saddened by this. I don’t know who she might be. Please advise and interpret this dream as I am terrified by this dream and please make dua for the lady in my dream.

JazakAllah

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,
With every verse of punishment there is a verse of mercy. Make tawba and a lot of salawat on the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) so that Allah will show you expressions of His good pleasure.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Dream Interpretation | Comments Off on Dream: Death and Punishment

Dream: Urgent help with dream – matter near to divorce

Dream:

My husband (my cousin) want to divorce for I am not what he likes and we don’t have a child. I got medical tests & all ok. I did istikhara & saw that I wore yellow dress (bride wear in hina function) and my brother-in-law came and applied hina (mahndi) on my hand. I told him don’t do that. A big quarrel happened & you want me to take on same path. I also did another istikhara to get meaning of it & saw i stood alongside a grey colour car that starts automatically and runs without any one inside. I ran after car but it hits another car & move further & hits a wall. Its engine caught up fire/ burnt up. Another car engines besides it also burnt. Pls provide interpretation and ask sheikh to do prayer.

Interpretation:

Mawlana is praying for you. Dreams signify that both disputation and change will bring difficulties. Try to pray more and to put calm and piece in your life. Recite ya Haleem daily x100.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Posted in Dream Interpretation | Comments Off on Dream: Urgent help with dream – matter near to divorce