Dream: On my Death bed and standing infront of Allah

Dream:

Had a dream where I was on my deathbed and my family was gathered around me and crying but I didn’t care even a bit about them and was just worried about myself. I was talking to angels of death and begging them not to take me with them as I can’t show my face to Allah with the deeds I have. They told me that I should have thought about it before and it’s too late now. But I still begged and asked them to let me talk to Allah. They told me that Allah doesn’t talk to people like this but I cried and cried until I was standing in front of Allah (didn’t see Allah, just the presence was there). I begged Allah to give me one more chance and let me go back as I was scared of His punishment and kept crying until I woke up.

Interpretation:

Make tawba.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: elegant man

Dream:

I recently performed hajj. I saw that i am in my old home in Pakistan (I live in UK now). I am laying next to a very elegant beard, fair skin man and my mother comes in and ask his name and I told her. His name is Abdullah but I got confused as I can see a word Mubadil written in Arabic but I pronounce Abdullah to my mother and in my background I heard that some body corrected it to be Zeeshan (I dont know any Zeeshan in real life). The man said to me I am very shy and i was feeling shy. Then I try to preach him the difference of Christianity & Islam. In reality 3 months ago a Catholic Brazilian showed an interest in me and I did preach him as much as i can. He left UK, I discontinued my contact with him and he didn’t have a beard.

Interpretation:

Walaikumas salam
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Insha Allah, this indicates possibility to meet someone pious (indicated by Abdullah) and faithful (indicated by shyness) who would be of high standards in terms of looks (indicated by Zeeshan) as your future possible husband (indicated by feeling of mutual shyness). Mubadil may mean exchange, meaning exchange of hand, meaning marriage. You will feel at home in the presence of this man indicated by old home in Pakistan. Your mother will support you insha Allah in this matter.

Syed Shahzaman

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Dream: Istikhara for Nikah

Dream:

Assalam-alaykum,
I am doing Istikhara about a girl (non-Muslim with keen interest in religious studies and Tasawwuf). The first night I dreamt:

“I am with the girl in the backyard of a house. I leave her there and come inside and fall asleep. When I wake up I go and look outside in the back-yard for her but I can’t find her. I can see a garden hose and water running from it. There is a manhole open in the garden with the lid next to it. I peer in the manhole to see only scum and air bubbles rising; I instinctively reach down inside the scum and can feel her hand. I pull her out and hose her with the water. I have this uneasy feeling that she jumped inside the manhole intentionally as if to commit suicide.”

Could you please interpret for me ?

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,
In sha Allah
through you she will gradually move away from a toxic or self-destructive lifestyle back to fitra.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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I have problems to find a spouse

Question:

I’m Naqshbandi mujadadi. I have problem at home. My parents don’t wish to find a spouse for me. I’m 32 years old man now. They give always excuses like you should be married in family. It is not good for you to be married out side family because of my past marriage. But i disagree with them and i don’t have candidate in my family. I’m not interested to be married in my family. I want to find a woman who have same interests as me and she should be outsider. I don’t want to marriage in my family. I’m not interested, but parents they always physical abuse me and insists on that. They are stubborn. It is like they mean other people out there in world are not Muslims or they are lesser Muslims than them. They think they know best. They don’t trust anybody outside. Isn’t it very strange? I will seek help from Sheik Nazim (r). I’m desperate and depressed.

Answer:

Allah’s good pleasure is in the good pleasure of parents. That is Sunna and that is Tariqa, and going against that creates problems. Ask Allah for strength to please parents and inshaa-Allah you will not be disappointed.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Proposal Advice Needed from Maulana

Question:

Asalamu Aleikum,
I’ve received a proposal from a syed through his sister but my dad is rejecting it after having asked someone to do background check-according to it they are not good people and the area they are living is also has a bad reputation and that they are Shia etc..I know his sister since 4/5 years and I know for a fact that they are Sunni and from what I’ve seen over the years they are good/religious people..main reason why I’m interested in this proposal is the fact that he is syed..but dad is not accepting..so what should I do, accept dads wishes or go ahead without his permission? JazakAllahu Khairan

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Accept your father’s wishes but ask him respectfully to look into the matter again. You had 5 years so give him a little more time. Let them make a formal proposal and break the ice.

Keep all your duties and obligations faithfully and recite daily ya Karim ya Nur ya Rabb ya Allah. Accept what Allah tells you at their hand as all good things come to those who are patient.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Ahadith Laq’ah of Holy Prophet (PBUH)

Dream:

Last year in the month of October I saw myself standing in a boat. There were three boats connected to each other, like train compartments, but were floating in black sea.

I was asked to reach my hand out, and I did so. After a while I saw that a white globe shining brightly with white light was handed to me in my right hand. And I was told, that I am being awarded Ahadith-e-laqaa of Holy Prophet (PBUH). And people in the sea can walk, but everyone was following me.

What does this dream mean?

Interpretation:

Climate details in your dream signify travel and/or change in uncertain conditions. Hand stretched out signify bayaa, you should give bayaa to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim if not already. Walking is spiritual wayfaring and in sha Allah you will help others and carry their burdens. The Arabic root l-q-h means to fecundate which points to marriage according to
Sunna, and fruit.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Istikhara and prayers for divorce

Question:

My husband and I recently had a lot of fights and I am at my parents home for the last 3 months. Now my husband wants a divorce and I don’t want it. Should I do an istikhara to find out and what dua should I pray to make him change his mind?

Answer:

Keep patient and calm. Recite ya Haleem, ya Wadood each day x1000 and say
only kind speech. In sha Allah it will get better.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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My life has become a hell
my life become a hell

Question:

Slm, Sir I’m from Karachi, Pakistan.  I want to become mureed of Molanas of this organization. My mother is suffering from SLE N RHEUMATOID ARTHRITIS for 2 years. Tell me any dua so she get well soon, as I don’t have sincere and faithful person but my mother and my father alive and I have 7 brothers. I recited so many wazaif since 2004 but no use. I’m 35 yrs old unmarried, jobless.. helpless I want to marry a guy who lives in Kalamazoo, Michigan. He liked me a lot and me too, but from last year he stopped talking to me..I’m very depressed, I do not get any good proposals. My parents pressurizing to do marriage with my cousin who is 10 years younger than me.. I can’t do this. I just want that guy to come back to me, as I want to go so far away from my relatives and country.

Answer:

Wa alaikum as-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

You can take bayaa from Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani’s representative in your area and visit the sufilive website or take online bayaa.

Encourage your mother to take natural medicine and read Salawat Shifa everyday. No need to go far away after a stranger that already depressed you.

Have faith in Allah and give thanks with cheer and hope, Allah will send
you more and more. Keep 5 times daily prayer, recite Quran and Salawat
consistently. Take care of your mother, keep family ties, make them
happy and Allah will take care of your happiness here and hereafter. Amin.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Separation and threatened Talak

Request:

AslaamuAlaikum,

Please keep identities hidden.

I humbly request Respected Sheikh Nazim & Sheikh Hisham for Dua. My name is [private], my mum is [private], my husband is [private] and his mum is [private]. He has returned from South Africa to Pakistan. He has residence paper issues here, but said he was sorting it out, he had to go to Pakistan to sort papers out. He promised me he would return, he left 3 months ago & now says that he does not want me. I am 6 months pregnant with first child, bearing expenses of our apartment etc. We had normal marriage issues, but nothing drastic to break marriage. Respected Sheikh here says he is disturbed, we don’t know what is troubling him, he could just phone and talak in his state.

Please make dua that our nikkah and family is saved if it is for our best interest and that he changes attitude, having love, respect and responsibility towards me and baby Insha Allah. Jazak-Allah

Response:

Alaykum Salam,
Have patience and strength, in sha Allah it will get better. Recite daily Hasbiya Allah, Rabbiya Allah x1000.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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About Dua of Hazrat Dawood

Question:

Salam, I love someone and want to marry him. I have heard about this dua that it can make him fall in love. How to do perform Dua of Hazrat Dawood? I am little bit confused!

1. My qus: 1. is that nafal prayer?
2. Thursday night you mean before fasting?
2. You said: 1. Write on a paper verse 9:129

فَإِن تَوَلَّوْاْ فَقُلْ حَسْبِيَ اللّهُ لا إِلَـهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِي

2. Recite it 30 times. Each time u recite it, say this du`a:

اللهُمَّ أَعْطِفْ قَلْبَ فُلانِ بْنِ فُلانَة عَلَى فُلانة بِنتِ فُلانة

3. Wrap it up carefully and hang it on your right arm.
My qus: 1. which dua should i wrap? no.1 or no,2 ?

2. How many days should i keep it on my arm? Till he come back? If he doesn’t come back then? Please let me know in details.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
Allah creates love in the heart. Make dua with sincerity and trust in what He decides.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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