Request:
My wife and I are separated after 3_ yrs of marriage she left me with a teenage daughter. I lost my job too please make doa for my mental health and strength to go through Allah swt test for me, pray that Allah swt makes halal means of earning (job) for me and also may Allah swt make my daughter a salaeha(pious one). And if I am affected by jinn etc may Allah swt heal us/me.
Response:
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
Dream:
Assalamu’alaikum,
I’m sorry for my lack of adab ,ya shaykh. Again I want ask about the meaning of my recent dream. In my dream I was in my house with my mom. Then suddenly a horrible wind was coming through the house… everything in the house suddenly disappeared. I came out the house to see the situation and saw some colorful birds upon a guava tree behind my house. I told my mom about the birds, but seems she couldn’t see them.
I just wanna know if my dream has some meaning or meaningless one. Syukron, ya shaykh. I hope Allah glorify MSN and MSH.. wa’alaikumsalam
Interpretation:
Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm:
Wa `alaykum asalam,
This dream can mean that you are going to hear bad news (horrible wind). The birds are the ladies who talk about it and gossips, and mixed lies and truth (multi-colors). And Allah knows best.
Yassir Chadly
Question:
Salam Alakum Sheik….I’m in my mid 20s I met a guy and we loved each other but we got in a fight and we broke up because I have trust issues. We were planning on getting married. I want to get back with him and get married. Is their a dua? Jazakom Khair
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Please follow the advice given here.
Staff
Question:
Assalam alaikum,
My name is [private] and I am 2_ years old. Two years ago I fell in love with and Mashaallah today I am engaged to the same girl still. Her name is [private] and her mother’s name is [private]. Lately, we have been quarreling a lot over petty things. We live in different countries hence we get to meet only a couple of times every year. I wanted to ask for Allah’s help which I need constantly, to guide us through this phase and whether we really are meant for each other.
I request you to please keep the information private. My mother’s name is [private].
Thanks and Best Regards
Jazakallah!
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham will pray for you. Six months maximum is best for engagement, not more, and also living under the same roof is indispensable for people who were never married before. Try to meet those two requirements so difficulties do not keep growing and ruin your plan to start a family.
Marry without delay. Recite “Ya Haleem “ in your heart x100 every time
an argument looms and do not quarrel.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
Request:
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh,
Is there any special Dua or Special Salawat I can say if I want to see Prophet Muhammad (SalAllahu Alaihi wassallam) in my dream? I mean which salawat is best to say if i want to increase my chance in seeing Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) in my dream, and if I ask a dua for seeing Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) in my dream what should I say in my DUA?
Response:
wa `alaykum salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,
Staff
Request:
My sister’s name is [private] and our mother’s name is [private]. She wants to marry a boy [private] and his mother’s name is [private] …My sister is very worried about him and she doesn’t know if he is liking her or not. Please do istikhara for both and suggest what my sister do. Thank you.
Response:
In sha Allah it is a good match. Let her not worry but trust in Allah subhan wa taala.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
Question: As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah,
Beloved Shaykh, I feel shy to trouble you at the present time knowing that you are facing far greater trials than I could bear. However, it my conviction that you are from among the great ones of Allah (‘azza wa jal) and Allah only tests his servants with what they can bear.
I am writing this email with the hope that you might be able to advise me regarding an issue which is causing me great mental distress. Shaykhunaa, I need to know how I can dispel thoughts and suggestions from my mind which I do not want to be there. These are thoughts and suggestions which might appear after having read something regarding a shameful matter or something strange and my mind starts to create images and thoughts, and starts asking me questions like, ‘What if you are like that?’
Shaykhunaa, sometimes these disgusting thoughts and suggestions remain for days and even months. At times I feel like ending my life due to the fear that I may become something like that which has entered my mind. I know that I am not what has entered my mind and I try to ignore the thoughts, but they keep coming back and I even say things (in my mind) like, ‘Your not going to get away that easily!’.
Shaykhunaa, please help me.
Wa salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah
Your sinful student
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
You and I are students and followers of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret) under Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s guidance.
Such thoughts also assailed Sahaba after which Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) reassured them that it was a mark of pure iman to feel ashamed or upset at them.
Continue your spiritual duties through worship, dhikr, salawat, group dhikr, rabita, istighfar etc. Love for Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret) is paramount and makes everything easy in sha Allah. Regularity is key and in sha Allah you will experience progress.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
Question:
Asalamo alikum,
May Allah (swt) honor more and more to all Naqshbandi shaykhs.
Sir there are many questions in my mind my heart is unrest. What I was experiencing a few months ago all those spirituality… good dreams, ziyarats all disappears suddenly its like that I may have disclose it… lost it and sometimes I calm my heart by saying it like that was starting of something… new world and now I’m on different stage and sometimes I feel like a the jinn who was after me he use to take my soul…. Please correct me. Ya sayedi. pray for me that my heart get clean soon.
JazakaAllah.
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you. Keep your heart calm through regular dhikr. Focus on Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret) every day for at least 15 minutes.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
