menses & sheikh hishaam dream

Question:

asalamu alaikum

It has been over a few years and I have no menses.. doctors have told me to go for tests but i am scared what if i cannot have children, which they said could be a posibilty if i have frozen eggs.. im in early 20’s. What should I read for menses to start again?

Also I had a dream that Sheikh Hishaam came to our house.. they put hand on my stomach and I felt an electric shock as if my menses had started.. what could this mean?

Jazakallah

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah the dream is the answer to your question. Trust in the baraka and spiritual power of our mashaykh and that their du`a is accepted, by our Lord and insha-Allah as you saw, it will happen.

Taher Siddiqui

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Regarding Marraige

Question:

Assalam Alaikum,

I have some strange question, I need to know, if a Man and Woman accepts to be husband and wife on chat, does it become legal marraige.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

See the Post “Is this marriage valid“.

Staff

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800 forbiddens 500 advices?

Question:

Where can one read/learn about the 800 forbiddens and the 500 advices? Please pray for us.
Shukran katheer
Love and salaams

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

See the Post “800 prohibitions“.

Staff

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Dream of dying

Question:

Assalamualaikum.
Dream: I was moving towards my vehicle then I see a man behind me with a beard standing next to his vehicle giving adhan. Then I feel I’m in the Palestine Israel border. Then I see two guards coming from the Israeli side after they hear adhan. then I try to escape from the firing. I try to climb a wall then I feel as if someone’s aiming at me. Then as I try to climb someone shoots at my head. I don’t feel any pain. But I try seeing wat happens after I die but I get to see white color when I open my eyes in the dream..
Assalamualaikum

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

The man calling adhan is the representative of Sayyidina Muhammad (s) in this time. Those trying to harm you represent your ego and shaytan, targeting your ego and trying to make you fear and stray from the path of Haqq. You are successful in achieving martyrdom, which means “dying before death.” (See the Post “Dream: Told Date of Death” for more understanding).

Take initiation with a guiding murshid and hold fast to him, for in this time there are so many groups, as-Sadiq al-Masduq, the Truthful and Confirmed One, Sayyidina Muhammad (s) told his Companion Hudhayfa (r), “There will be a blind and deaf turbulence; callers to the Gates of Hell. Whoever responds to their call, they cast them into it.”
I said, “O Messenger of Allah, describe them to us.” He (s) said, “They are from our own skin and speak our tongue.”

and Allah knows best the interpretation.

Taher Siddiqui

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mawlana’s lineage as a syed

Question:

bismillaharahmanraheem
aslamalaykum
shaykh hisham

can you tel me how many people [ or generations ] are between mawlana [ as a ahle bayt ]
and holy prophet sallallah alay wasallam and your lineage sayyidee.
i heard shaykh habib ali jifri has the shortest lineage as a syed which is 14
or 15, thats amazing
sorry for any bad adab
thanks sayyidee

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

That is private information, which we have not been given. However what we do know is that Mawlana Shaykh Nazim Adil al-Haqqani is 40th in the spiritual lineage directly to Rasulillah (s).

Regarding the other information, it does not seem reasonable, though not impossible, for anyone to have only 14 generations back to Sayyidina Rasulillah (s), as that would mean each ancestor had a child at 100 years of age, and Allah knows best.

Taher Siddiqui

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Confused

Question:

Salaams. I am a 20 year old girl. Two years ago I met someone wif whom there was a mutual interest for another. Only thing is he is 23 years older than me.I am very much in love wif him and he too is wif me. But I am not always very happy in the relationship. He does not treat me well and I don’t feel like I deserve him sometimes. He has spoken to an imaam about possible marriage but he doesn want to do anyfin about finding a stable job. I’m at crossroad, don’t know what to do here?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Consult your family about this decision, you cannot make this on your own.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Cancer

Request:

We have 7years old son has blood cancer problem and 8years daughter has asthma (breathing problem).
Since last 5year we are facing too much problem and tiring to manage the money and time to sort out these issues.
But now we are not able to solve because of bank and credit card loan more than AED 150,000 and my maximum salary is going to recover this loan and we don’t have money to spend for these issues and keep the family in UAE to continue this treatment and since last 6yrears I didn’t get any promotion and salary increment.
My wife is also trying to get the job but unfortunately didn’t get because of bad time and luck.
Problem: 1) – Treatment, 2) – Education, 3) – Food
In these circumstances we would request you to please pray for us.
Thanks

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you and  your family.

If there your home-country will do the treatment for free or less money, then it is good for your family to go there for treatment.

Recite: hasbun-Allah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100x daily.

Taher Siddiqui

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daily awrad

Question:

salam alaikum,
I took online baya and started my daily awrad.
1. kindly inform me if i have to do all the items in one sitting, or can I divide them [awrad]?
2. What is the next step, how long should i do this [beginner] awrad for?
3. Will i be informed [via email], what to do next, or should i make contact?
JazakAllah khair.
wassalam,

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Please see the post by Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani:  Awrad…. If you have a dhikr location near you, you may join them for the Khatm Khawajagan as often as possible for our tariqah is built on association. Check sufilive.com for locations in your area.

The best awrad for you is the one you can do with daily consistently. You  may increase the daily beginner awrad only if you are sure you can perform it everyday without skipping days here and there.

Staff

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Health

Question:

Salaam respectable Shayk Hisham
I am a 25 years old girl and need some help about two matters.
1) Salah
2) Health
1) i have trouble with reading namaz and to make it a Habit, i read one or twice, and sometimes i dont read for ages, what can i do to make it more regulary?
Shaykh Hisham, i want to loose weight i have tried everything and i keep failing either because i loose the motivation when i dont see any results what to do , plz help me,
Wa.salaam

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

1. I recommend or each prayer missed, pay $1.00 as sadaqa. You will find quickly your ego prefers salat over zakat.

2. Please see  Prayer for weight loss.

Taher Siddiqui

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How to find soulmate

Question:

Assalam o alaikum Maulana
Shukran
for providing answer to our questions and to enlightened us with great knowledge shared on this site.
My parents are searching for my marriage a suitable boy.I already got some proposals but always i confused which one is better for me .Please Maulana tell me something so that i come to know who is my soul mate as i am weak in knowledge and strength.
Please pray for me and my family
Jazak Allah
Wasalam

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for you. The right one will come to you, insha-Allah.

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