Lost

Question:

Assalamualaykum Shaykh,
Thank you for giving me the oppurtunity to ask a question in this site.
I noticed these few years, probably after getting married, i went through many bad incidents happenned only to me. Started with car accident, then lost of my belongings, including difficulties finding job. Latest was the lost my belongings from my car that has been broken.This has made me think i could have done something wrong until all bad incident happen to me. My husband used to tell me that these happen because of i disobey him. I really want to know whether what my husband told me was correct? I dont want myself to repeat the same mistake,neither want more bad incident to occur in the future. Please advice me. Apology if this question disturb you in any manner. Thank you shaykh,may Allah bless you.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Allah swt said:

{Obey Allah, Obey the Prophet (s) and those in authority among you.} (Surat an-Nisa, 4:159)

and

{Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard.} (Surat an-Nur, 24:34)

Now as Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani said, “Obedience comes from love. If you love your country you obey. If you love God you obey God, and if you love anyone you listen and share. If you love the Prophet (s) you listen and obey him.”

So your husband is calling you to obey when he does not make obedience easy, by making you love him, is not going to work well in a family. Rather he must consider if he would like to “be punished” for any of his own disobedience to Allah and His Prophet (s), or would rather be forgiven.

Taher Siddiqui

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Fighting lots of snakes

Dream:

Assalamu alaikkum wrbk,
Dear Shaykh,
Hope this message finds in the best of your health.
I had a dream today morning after fajr n Ishraq.
In my dream there were lot of snakes all over my body and I fought them all and got rid of every snake. The snake kept coming back and I said audhubillah…. and I said salawat and I rotated myself so fast and every snake disappeared and I got up from the sleep.

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,
Try to recite daily:
100 times audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem, 100 times Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem, 100 times Salawat Shareef to keep enemies away.

Dr. Karim Tourk

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Dream: Lady Fatima

Dream:

assalamu alaykum
my dream: I was in a large mosque where there was a missing tile from the floor. My husband and the sheiks were trying to find the correct piece that fit. Then when I entered the room, the sheikh looked at me and said ” Lady Fatima asks if you had any food to eat ?” i looked at him in shock and awe. then I entered my quarter where the sheikh followed me and tried to come in . I closed the door before he could enter and informed him that I can’t let him in without my husband present. He then walked away and I saw the back of his foot. what does this mean?

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,
Alhamdulillah, Sayyida Fatima (as) is extending hospitality to you and building up your spiritual connection to her.  The missing tile indicates that you have a good heart but it is missing one key piece to achieve your perfection.  This will be by the hands of the shuyukh and baraka of Sayyida Fatima (as) and the Best of Creation (s).  And Allah knows best.

Dr. Karim Tourk

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Prayer Request: Dua request

Request:

I please make dua for my family. We are facing problems lately conerning my niece Fatima, she is 18 years old. My parents brought her up. She has been involved in the wrong crowd in the past and has caused many problems.about 6 months ago she made taubah and went to live with her father. we were grateful to Allah he made everything right. But now the problems have started again.My parents are both very sick, old and helpless.She doesnt listen to anyone. She is no longer living with my brother and is staying with some family,she is refusing to come back and stay with her family instead she is trusting others and relying on others. Atleast if she can be good and listen to my parents as they have always looked after her and now she can atleast return their favour by looking after them in their old age.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani will pray for her.

Recite Hasbunallah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100x daily for her well-being and quick return.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Shaykh Abd Allah Dagestani (q)

Dream:

Asalaamu alaykum

I saw my dad and me were holding a coffin on our shoulders in which Shaykh Abd Allah Dagestani (q) was lying.

thank you
salaams

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah with  Grandshaykh Abdallah Daghestani’s (q) baraka you will be blessed to “die before you die” and reach spiritual maturity in dunya.

Dr. Karim Tourk

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Dream: Honey

Dream:

Asalam alaikum,
I dreamt that my husband was excited & wanted to show me something. I was amazed to see such a beautiful honey comb, it looked like it was made up of golden thread that glistened. It appeared as if it had been opened (not in shape of hive) and placed on something, like a table. Usually its bees that make honey but I remember thinking that I was looking at wasps at work in the comb ( there are some wasps that do produce honey), their colour was gold all over(no stripes) and they were slim. I wanted to taste the honey but only dipped my hand in and raised it to watch the honey trickle from my hand. It was fine in texture, non-sticky and it looked like it had gold that glistened entwined in the honey.
Jazakallah Khair.

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah you will be blessed with halal provision, health and wealth.  And Allah knows best.

Dr. Karim Tourk

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Prayer Request: dream about Quran

Dream:

ASALAM shaykh
i had a dream before just before fajr that i went to a mela they war a old man very in a religious dream wif beard and turban he was selling quran i went to him to buy bangles and quran but he said he cant give it for lesser amount so i told him i would come bac on saturday and buy bangles and quran or ill buy online wot does this mean please help me
wasalam

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

وَلاَ تَشْتَرُواْ بِعَهْدِ اللّهِ ثَمَنًا قَلِيلاً إِنَّمَا عِندَ اللّهِ هُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ إِن كُنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

{Nor sell the covenant of Allah for a miserable price: for with Allah is (a prize) far better for you, if ye only knew.} (Surat an-Nahl, 16:95)

I take the dream as advice to myself, and to you if you accept, to focus sincerely towards the Quran and its message, to both the mind and the heart.

Taher Siddiqui

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mon fils est drépanocytaire

Question:

Salam Aleykoum

Mon fils à 8 mois,il est atteint de la drépanocytose, en Anglais : Sickle cell disease, la drépanocytose est une maladie héréditaire qui se caractérise par l’altération de l’hémoglobine, la protéine assurant le transport de l’oxygène dans le sang. Les globules rouges ont la formes de faucilles , elles ne sont donc pas rondes, et les symptomes sont des crises de douleurs qui peuvent être mal supportés chez un bébé , Y’aurait il un remède naturel ??

Reponse:

`Alaykoum Salam,

Allah vous benisse et vous soutienne. Voir la reponse suivante:

https://eshaykh.com/health-family/for-my-son/

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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mon fils est drépanocytaire

Dhul Qarnayn (as), Khidr (as) and the fountain of youth

Question:

Assalaamualaikum dear Shuyookh,

I have heard parts of a tradition relating that Sayyidina Dhul Qarnayn (as) and Sayyidina Khidr (as) went in search of the “fountain of youth” or “water of life” and that is how Sayyidina Khidr (as) is alive until today through drinking that blessed water.

I find this very interesting because we see many movies and books about people searching for the fountain of youth and to learn that it has a basis in Islamic tradition is amazing.

Are these narrations regarded as acceptable by Islamic scholars? According to my limited knowledge, with regards to history, weak narrations are accepted?

Could you perhaps post the full story/narration for us?

JazaakAllah

Answer:

Wa `alaykum as-Salam wa rahmatullah.

The tradition to which you refer is true, and it is not subject to scholarly opinion. Indeed, historians have remained rather silent concerning these events, perhaps because they have taken heed from the challenges faced by no less than Sayyidina Musa in understanding the actions of Khwaja al-Khidr – peace be upon them – as related in the Chapter of the Cave. Put another way, history concerns all that transpires under the Sun, whereas it was only in the Land of Darkness that the quest for the `Ayn ul-hayat – the “Fountain of Life” – was accomplished. Of course, this Land is not to be explored using mundane science; for now it is enough to presume that this Darkness lies beyond the Sun.

However, the pens of the poets and of the painters have not been so reticent. The various  Islamic contributors to the Iskandarnamah or Epic of Alexander do not fail to include something of this tradition. Interestingly, Nizami solved the challenge of reconciling the history and mystery of  Iskandar who is Dhul-Qarnayn – peace be upon him – by dividing his Iskandarnamah in twain: the Book of Nobility and the Book of Wisdom.

Perhaps this bifurcation suggests yet another significance for the name “Lord of the Two Qarns.” In any case, the Iskandarnamah contains a most remarkable reminder of how far a man’s himma may take him; yet the failure of Iskandar to find the Fountain of Life is a reminder of how even the himma of the “Great” is bound to the Divine Decree.

In this tradition concerning the Fountain of Life, it is not only Khwaja al-Khidr (as) but also Sayyidina Ilyas (as) who are the guides of Iskandar in his quest, peace be upon them all. So it is that miniature painters have depicted these two Living Prophets with their riding mounts at the Fountain, along with the fish that is described in the epic as being revived by the Water of Life. It is therefore of considerable interest to recall that Islamic esoterism includes the prophet `Isa among the four Living Prophets, peace be upon them all, and that the symbol used by the earliest Christians was the fish.

You are correct in observing that the Spanish legend of the Fountain of Youth has its source in the Islamic Iskandarnamah. More importantly, it is not only in the Land of Darkness that the Water of Life has been found, but also in the traces of the presence of al-Khidr (as). Sayyidina Musa (as) and his fata (youthful servant) Yusha bin Nun discover this presence – peace be upon them all – after the fish revives in the Chapter of the Cave, in events apparently preceding the quest of Iskandar. Similarly, according to the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him: “The Green Man was so named because he sat on a barren white land once, after which it turned luxuriantly green with vegetation.”

Even though Khwaja al-Khidr has initiated many on the spiritual path, he is only included in the Golden Chain of the Naqshbandi Order, and so it is not only to Islam but especially to this order that the reality of the Water of Life is to be traced. It is not for nothing that a renowned hagiography of the early Naqshbandi Masters is entitled Rashahat `ayn al-hayat, or “Droplets of the Fountain of Life.”   While it may also be noted that the great Jami of the Naqshbandi Order composed an Iskandarnamah, no better source for this tradition may be consulted than the third volume of Lore of Light by Hajjah Amina `Adil, may Allah sanctify her secret (see below)!

As for the Water itself, the custodians of the Golden Chain have promised that “He who makes a regular practice of the Adab and the Awrad shall obtain the water of true life and with it he will perform wudu, he will bathe in it and drink it, and by means of it he will reach his goal.”

Our blessed mother Hajjah Amina bint Ayesha Adil relates, in Lore of Light, Volume 3:

The Search for the Water of Life

Iskender then passed on and came to a country of a very cold climate where many of his men died. At last he came to another city where he was made welcome and he was pleased to stay there for a while – One day a man came on him who said, “Oh Shah (which means King), I have heard that there is a sea, and there is a darkness upon it; but whoever is able to cross through this darkness will come to a spring on the other side of the water. This spring is called the ‘Water of Life’, and who so drinks of the water of this spring will live forever and never die.’ Iskender made no reply, but resolved to try to find this spring. He asked Khidr (as) and Eliyas (as) to accompany him, and with them went a company of 4000 young men, none of them older than 40. He forbade anyone older than that to take part in this campaign.

… Now they had reached the border of the great darkness. Iskender called Eliyas (as) and said to him, “I have here two stones which shine with a light of their own.  I will take one of them and you take the other; with its help you may find the spring in this darkness, or I, and we will let each other know.” Then they entered the darkness.

Khidr (as) went with Eliyas (as) and Iskender went his separate way. They had been gone for a week. One evening they came to a place where they thought to camp the night, and prepared to share the dried fish they had brought with them. Khidr (as) washed his hands in a stream, and took the fish in order to divide it between them. As soon as the first drop of water touched the fish, it came alive and was whole again – thus Khidr (as) knew that they must have found the spring of the Water of Life. Khidr (as) drank from it and told Eliyas (as) also to drink, and they watered their horses as well. They understood that they had fulfilled their quest and that Iskender was not destined to reach this stream. Khidr (as) went out from there and became invisible from that time on.

Mahmoud Shelton

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Marrying a singer

Question:

Ive gone through much pain and trials in my life and Im now of marriage age and Allah (SWT) has clearly shown me my future spouse . I receive many proposals from pious families, but Ive been shown over and over again that my spouse is a rising Pakistani singer, comes from a very liberal family, drank alcohol, attended haram parties/clubs, openly touches other women,has many friends whom are women, watches haram, etc. I have not spoken to him ever in person, but hes fallen deeply in love with me and tries to show me, but I try to stay as hidden as possible. I dont know how to handle my situation and I cry so much in this patience with Allah (SWT) that one day he will be a great Muslim, but I dont know what my role is in this situation, can you please help me?

Answer:

Can you explain how he shows you he loves you if you have never spoken?

Dr. Aziz Hussein

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