Prayer Request: Marriage problem

Request:

As.salam.o’alykum !

Someone has done bandish over me i’ve done Istakhara to confirm this. I want to marry a boy who also wants to marry me but my problem of bandish came across everytime we tried to take step. And now his family is not agree because am over weight and its congenital. I’ve control my weight alot and reduced but still its an issue that I’m over weight & his family wants slim girl for him. Pls do help & give something to read that his family will accept me the way i’m as we both are very up set.

Please give me positive response. I offer 5 times and tries not to skip.

JazakALLAH khair

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

See the Post “Prayer Request: for black magic” and follow the instructions to be rid of the “bandish“.

Staff

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Travel Permission

Question:

Assalamu’alaykum Sayyidi,

I am asking for your permission to travel to the States for 5 weeks for working and attending a Fellowship program. I will be flying insha Allah on May 22nd and flying back home on June 30th. Please pray for me. Thank you.

Wassalamu’alaykum

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is granting permission for this trip.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Photography Business

Request:

Asalaamlikum Blessed Shaykh Hisham.

Sorry for my lack of adab, I humbly request a prayer for my business, (I do photography for events such as weddings, sports events) Also wanted to know if digital photography is okay according to Islamic law? I done a lot of research and found that both classical and present day scholars are of two opionions, I’m worried as I don’t want a haraam source of income.If it is okay, can I please have a prayer so my business does well InshAllah.

JazakAllah. May Allah swt bless you endlessly.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your business.

Regarding permissibility see the Post “Hanging Photographs in home“.

Staff

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Better to do one dhikr or many different ones?

Question:

Assalam alaykom wr wb

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham once told me to do 1000 times hasbunAllah wa na`mal wakeel for past problems in my life. Later I asked a question regarding dreams on eshaykh and again he told me to do 1000 times hasbunAllah wa na`mal wakeel. I took this as a sign that my character is lacking in something that this dhikr will fix. Therefore, I try as much as possible to do more than 1000. Lately I’ve reached 10,000 per day. But because it is so extensive, I don’t have a chance to do any other dhikr, except awrad and 100 hasbunAllah RabbunAllah. My question is, is it better to do less hasbunAllah wa na`mal wakeel and choose other dhikrs to spend time with, or is it ok to continue with my concentration on hasbunAllah wa na`mal wakeel? Elhamdulillah I feel more tawakkul but I’m not there yet.

Answer:

`Alaykum as-Salam,
May Allah reward you and increase your tawakkul. It is best to do just what Mawlana Shaykh prescribes. If he said 1,000 then one should stick to that, even if one feels one can do more. The whole point is not to do “much” but to do “regularly”; and to develop trust in our Shaykh’s guidance rather than in our own initiative. The point is “As you will” otherwise we will run into new difficulties.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Fear of Meeting New People

Question (Turkish):

3 buçuk ay önce yeni bir ev aldım. Ama evimde hiç mutlu ve huzurlu değilim, eski evimi geri istiyorum. Bu evden çıkmak istiyorum ama korkuyorum nasıl insanlarla karşılaşacağımı bilmiyorum. Hergün ağlıyorum, miğdemden rahatsızlanıyorum, eşime beni burdan götür diye ağlıyorum. Yeni insanlara  tanışmaktan çok korkuyorum. Bana biri eski komşum tarafından büyü yapıldığı söyledi, bu olaydan sonra çok rahatsızlandım. Hem manen hem maden çok kötü oldum. Gurultuden çok rahatsız oluyorum. Eskiden çok titizdim ama bu yeni eve taşınınca hiç birşey yapamıyorum. Temizlik yapamıyorum, yemek yapamıyorum. Namaz kılınca, kuran okuyunca az rahatlıyorum. Ama namazı kuranı bırakınca hep bu ev konusu aklıma geliyor, tekrar ağlıyorum, iki defa intiharı düşündüm, çocuklarımı ve eşimi bırakıp gitmek. Kaldığım şehri terketmek istiyorum. Pskolojik tedavide görüyorum. Nasıl bi yol izlememi tavsiye edersiniz.

Translation:

I bought a new house about 3 months ago. But I’m not happy or at peace in this house, I want my old house back. I want to leave this house but if I do I don’t know what kind of people I’ll meet in the new place and that scares me. I cry everyday. I also have stomach problems. I cry to my husband asking him to take me away. I’m very scared of meeting new people. I was told that someone made black magic on me. And after that I became very ill. Both physically and spiritually. Noise disturbs me very much. I was very clean/tidy before but at this new house I don’t take care of stuff that well. I’m unable to clean or cook. When I pray or read Qur’an I feel a little better. Then thoughts about the new house come back and I start crying. I thought about suicide twice, leaving my kids and husband behind. I want to leave this city. I’m currently under medical/physiological treatment. What would you advise to me?

Answer (Turkish):

Sizin icin en iyisinin olması icin dua edecegim.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Translation:

I will pray for you for the best.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Creatures in my being

Question:

Dear Beloved Shaykh, Assalamu alaykum wa Rahmat Allahi wa Barakatahu,

May I first of all request your forgiveness for troubling you once again? I am sorry, but since a few days ago, I am noticing some creatures, like shadows or may be like jinn in my being, especially in the head, face and shoulders area??

If they are jinn, please could you advise me what dhikr to do? But I am already doing all the dhikr I can: daily awrad, extra salawat, Allah’s Names advised to me by the beloved Hajjah Naziha and Shaykh Hisham, plus extra Allah’s Names of which I feel the urge to make repetition and ‘hasbun Allahu wa naim al Wakeel‘ 100 x per day.

Wondering what these shadow-like creatures are, I humbly request your light on this matter, if I may? Jazak Allah bi Khayr. Thank you and Salams.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Pray daily before you sleep Salat al-hajat and request that all these will disappear.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Imam Mahdi will be the son of who?

Question:

As-Salam Alaykum Mawlana

In the following video, Shaykh Nazim states that the Mahdi is the son of al-Imam al-Hasan al-Askari (RA):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UzBhcbP636E&feature=related

Is this accurate and what is the actual position of the Ahl al-Sunnah on this issue?

Was-Salam

Answer:

`Alaykum as-Salam,

May Allah bless you always. Two Youtube recordings have been posted on this issue:

(i)  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UzBhcbP636E&feature=related

(ii) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UzBhcbP636E&feature=related

In the first recording Mawlana Shaykh Nazim identifies the “holders of black flags” in the famous Mahdi-supporters’ hadith as both Sunni and Shi`i. He says:

[Questioner:] “Who are they?”
[Mawlana:] “Ahl as-Sunnah countries, comprising Asia; and not just [the Sunni world]: non-Arabs (he means Shi`is) are [also] waiting, but their belief is different from ours: they say that he is the son of `Askari.”

So he does not say that the latter are from Ahl as-Sunnah wal-Jama`a – contrary to the subtitles given – but quite the contrary: “their belief is different from ours”, i.e. their Shi`i beliefs are different from our Sunni beliefs.

Those who believe that the Mahdi is the son of al-`Askari are not from Ahl as-Sunna wal-Jama`a. Rather, this is what the questioner puts into Mawlana’s mouth in the second video but Mawlana does not confirm it other than saying: “Of course, it must be: all of us are `askar al-Mahdi,” i.e. soldiers of al-Mahdi. Then the questioner comes back again and insists: “Is it OK to say he is the son of Hasan al-`Askari?” and by that time Mawlana is fed up with him and is waving “enough, next” with his hand.

In neither recording does Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (q) “state that the Mahdi is the son of al-Imam al-Hasan al-Askari.” As Mawlana indicated, Ahl as-Sunnah wal-Jama`a do not hold such a belief but rather:

(i) as the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said, “His name will match my name and his father’s name will match my father’s name” (Sunan Abi Dawud), i.e. “Muhammad ibn `Abdullah,” not “Muhammad ibn al-Hasan”; and

(ii) he will be a descendant of Sayyidina al-Hasan as stated verbatim by Sayyidina `Ali (Sunan Abi Dawud), not of Sayyidina al-Husayn like al-`Askari (Allah be well-pleased with all of them).

As for Mawlana’s saying “it is OK” when the brother insisted asking about the belief of the Shi`is in the second recording, it means “it is OK for you” because that is what the brother is itching to follow and Mawlana knows he will not change his belief. That brother’s Youtube descriptions show he was misled by Shi`i publications claiming that this is what Naqshbandi masters believed whereas our Golden Chain masters did not hold such beliefs. And Allah knows best.

May Allah Most High grant us adab with his Awliya, right belief, and
beneficial knowledge.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Wahdat-al-Wajud

Question:

Beloved Sayyidi,

As Salaamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatahu,

1. Please let us know what is Wahdat-al-Wajud and Wahdat-al-Shahood.
2. What is the difference between them?
3. Is there any root in Quran & Sunna regarding this?
4. Who is/was the person who first disclosed about this openly?
5. Why do wahabis oppose this theory/concept and label it as kufr?

Ya Sayyidi, kindly pray for us, and billions of thanks in advance.
As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatahu.

Answer:

Wa `Alaykum Salam.

The concepts of Wahdat al-wujud and Wahdat ash-shuhud are primarily connected with two great shuyukh, Shaykh Ibn `Arabi (q, d. 1240) and Shaykh Ahmad Sirhindi (q, d. 1624). The two concepts are usually translated as Oneness of Being (Wahdat al-wujud) and Oneness of Perception (Wahdat ash-shuhud). However, the phrase Wahdat al-wujud is not found in the works of Sayyidina Ibn `Arabi (q), and was formulated, based on Sayyidina Ibn `Arabi’s ideas, by later interpreters of his work.

Both Sayyidina Ibn `Arabi (q) and Imam Sirhindi (q) understood God as Pure Being. There is only One Being and that is God. However, they differed on how the being of the phenomenal world (like human beings) related to God.

Here is how they differ: Oneness of Being (Wahdat al-wujud) states that Being is the sole reality and everything that we see around us is an expression or articulation of Being. For example, we cannot say “The flower exists.” The flower cannot be the subject of the sentence. Rather, Being is expressed as a flower. Being is the subject. The metaphor that is often used to visualize this is waves on an ocean, that is, just as waves are an articulation of the ocean, the phenomenal world (including us) are articulations of Being. Another metaphor that is often used is different letters on a page written with ink – the ink is the same, but expressed in different forms. Thus objective reality can be expressed as “All is God.”

However, in a religious tradition like ours that makes a clear distinction between Creator and created things, how does the Oneness of Being preserve the transcendence of God?  Imam Ahmad Sirhindi (q) was afraid that the idea of Oneness of Being may lead human beings into the trap of identifying themselves with God. Oneness of Perception strives to avoid this trap: instead of seeing the phenomenal world as modifications of Being (waves on the sea), Imam Sirhindi (q) said that the world is an articulation of the concept of non-Being, with the reflection of Being upon it. We are all shadows of Being, and shadows cannot be identical with the source of the shadow. We have no essential reality of our own. Our being is not the same as the Being of God – for only God really exists, while our existence is imaginary.

The metaphor that is often used to visualize this idea is the phenomenal world as an image in a mirror, reflecting God’s real Being. Therefore, objective reality is not “All is God” but “All is from God”. Seeing God in all things goes back to the viewer and does not offer a final explanation of the nature of reality. That is, the Oneness of Being is subjective: the existence of creation and Creator only appear to be united in the experience of the seeker. This experience he calls Wahdat ash-shuhud, or Oneness of Perception.

Many later scholars attempted to integrate, or minimize the difference between, both of these approaches. For example the great Delhi scholar Shah Waliallah (d. 1762) held that the difference between these approaches is a matter of semantics, and that Oneness of Perception merely strives to place greater emphasis on the line between Creator and created.

While the idea of God as Being is not explicitly mentioned in the Qur’an, there are many Qur’anic verses that imply God as the ground of all Being. Some of these are:

وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ الْوَرِيدِ

{We created the human being and know what his soul murmurs to him. We are closer to him than his jugular vein.} (Surah Qaf, 50:16)

كُلُّ مَنْ عَلَيْهَا فَانٍ وَيَبْقَى وَجْهُ رَبِّكَ ذُو الْجَلَالِ وَالْإِكْرَامِ

{Everything on earth perishes; all that remains is the Face of your Lord, full of majesty, bestowing honor.} (Surat ar-Rahman, 55:26-27)

وَلِلّهِ الْمَشْرِقُ وَالْمَغْرِبُ فَأَيْنَمَا تُوَلُّواْ فَثَمَّ وَجْهُ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ

{The East and the West belong to God: wherever you turn, there is His Face. God is all pervading and all knowing.} (Surat al-Baqara, 2:115)

وَهُوَ مَعَكُمْ أَيْنَ مَا كُنتُمْ

{He is with you wherever you are.} (Surat al-Hadid, 57:4)

In the Qur’an, God is not one existent among other existents, rather He is the only Reality (al-Haqq being one of the Most Beautiful Names of God). In fact, Sayyidina `Ibn Arabi (q) makes an explicit connection between Wujud (Being) and the Name al-Haqq, positing the former as another name for the latter.

It is interesting that Wahhabis and those who support Wahdat al-wujud and related approaches both have a radical conception of tawhid. Wahhabis claim that they are trying to protect God’s Oneness and so they are quick to label many practices and ideas as promoting shirk. They believe that Oneness of Being is a foreign idea that was imported into Islam through pre-Islamic Greek and Hindu traditions, that it will lead to a blurring of boundaries between God and God’s creation, and that proponents of this idea will begin breaking the rules of religious law, worshipping God’s creation alongside God.

Ironically, Wahdat al-wujud is in and of itself the highest expression of tawhid: the being of all things is in fact endowed from the Being of God, (without in any way limiting God’s Existence or constricting it) and God is All-Encompassing. However, Sufi shuyukh also believe that these philosophies are not meant for lay-people, and that there is in fact a great danger that lay-people will not understand its ramifications. Therefore discussions about philosophies of Being are only meant for those who have already reached a high level of faith, worship and spirituality, and who will not make the mistake of confusing God with God’s creation in matters of law and worship.

It is very important for us and all Muslims to be educated about the history of these ideas as part of our general knowledge, but it is also crucial to recognize that, at our level, these ideas are not relevant to our daily practice and worship.  And God knows best.

Dr. Homayra Ziad

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Prayer Request: Prayer for my Mental Illness Bipolar

Request:

I have had Bipolar illness since I was 19. It has been 20 yrs suffering with it. Please pray for me and that I can get better. I want to have a baby but my husband does not want anymore with me because the illness is genetic, and the baby has a 20% to get it too.

Response:

We are very sorry to hear this and pray insha-Allah it gets better.

Recite every day Ya Shafi 100x’s for healing.

Dr. Aziz Hussein

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Prayer Request: Maddad ya Sayyidi

Request:

Salaam Alaikum Sayyidi Shaykh Hisham,

I am in need of your maddad. I have received some marriage proposals but none of them worked out for me, nor did I feel in my heart like any of them was right for me. I have not found a suitable Naqshbandi mureed for marriage and this is what I really want. It has been a few years since I have been looking and it is hard to be patient. Please please you and Shaykh Nazim pray for me to find the one who is written for me in the Preserved Tablets and that I make the right decision. May Allah bless you and grant you higher station in His presence. Ameen.Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for the “right one” to come into your life soon.

Taher  Siddiqui

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