The Purpose of the Jinn that Accompany Us

Question:

As-salaamu Alaykoem(WRBT)
Shaykh Gibril
The jinn that is placed in our company, what function does it serve? Can it harm us or influence our lives. People who use Sihr, do they use their Jinn to do certain things for them or to harm people. Can we control the Jinn that is with us?
I am not sure, but I have a strong feeling that my wife is under the spell of a Jinn.
Shukrun for your advice.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is a test for both humans and jinns. Harm or influence is similar to that of good or bad habits/addictions and is shaped by our faith-informed self-control or lack of it. As the Holy Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: “Even I have a jinn companion, but he commands only goodness and I am safe from its harm” (Sahih Muslim). Furthermore, he taught us the way to achieve this safety: Obey Allah beginning with the obligations and then acquire the good characteristics taught and illustrated in the Sunnah. Ensure your family prays their obligatory prayers, let them try and keep wudu‘ as much as possible, begin and end your day with two or more voluntary raka`ats and spend daily sadaqa – even small – for collective protection, keep to good company, good activities and good thoughts, especially suhba, dhikr and the frequent recitation of Surat al-Fatiha, Ayat al-Kursi, the last verses of Surat al-Baqara, and the last three Suras of Qur’an.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Wearing hijaab

Question:

assalamu alikum.. In some videos there are some girls not wearing hijab properly in hadhras. Is it allowable?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

These may be new to Islam and little by little they will learn insha-Allah, just as we would neither be guided, nor fast, nor pray, if Allah had not guided us. Therefore “Be merciful and you will be shown mercy” (hadith).

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Where to get married

Question:

Salaams

My name is [private] and I would like to ask humbly if I should consider getting married in Pakistan. I live in the Uk but am visiting family there at the moment.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Yes. Why not, ask your family to assist you finding a wife?

Taher Siddiqui

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Variation of Laylat al-Qadr

Question:

Assalam u alayekum !
1-I have heard some people claiming that layla-tul-qadr varies among the odd nights of last ten days i.e if this year it is 27th night,next year it may be 25th or 21st night etc. While my own view is that the importance of layla-tul-qadr is due to a particular event related to it in the history (related to Holy Quran’s revelation) so it should be a fixed night as appears from the opinions of Ibn e abbas,Imam abu Hanifa,Syedna Sheikh Abdul Qadir etc. (May Allah be pleased with all of them).
Is my opinion right?
2-How can an ordinary sinner person like me can confirm that a specific night is layla-tul-qadr.?
Shukran.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

The following text is translated and summarized from Imam Wali al-Din Ibn Zayn al-Din al-`Iraqi’s monograph Sharh al-Sadr bi-Dhikr Laylat al-Qadr:

<<The scholars differ concerning its location (mahalliha):

I.

A number of them said it always falls on a specific night but they differed over what night:

1. It is somewhere in the year. This is what is known to be related from Abu Hanifa, Allah be well-pleased with him. It is corroborated by the saying of `Abd Allah b. Mas`ud, Allah be well-pleased with him: “and whoever prays at night the whole year shall encounter it.” Ubay b. Ka`b said: “He meant for people not to be heedless, Truly it is well-known that it is in Ramadan and that it is in the last ten days and that it is on the night of [before] the 27th.” Sahih Muslim.

2. It is somewhere in all of the month of Ramadan. This is the position of Ibn `Umar, Allah be well-pleased with him, and a number of the Companions. This probably means that it reoccurs and is found every year in Ramadan.

3. It falls on the first night of Ramadan. This was said by the Companion Abu Razin al-`Uqayli, Allah be well-pleased with him.

4. It falls in its middle ten and last ten days; this is refuted  by the hadith in the Sahih [of al-Bukhari] from Abu Sa`id, that Jibril upon him peace said to the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) who was in i`tikaf in the middle ten days: “What you are searching for lies ahead.”

5. It falls only in the last ten days as indicated by the Prophetic hadith: “Look for it in the last ten days” (al-Bukhari) and the hadith already mentioned.

6. It falls specifically on an odd day of the last ten days due to the Prophetic hadith: “Search it out in the last ten days, on an odd day” (al-Bukhari and Muslim), and in Musnad Ahmad and al-Mu`jam al-Kabir of al-Tabarani likewise, with the addition: “on the 21st or the 23rd or the 25th or the 27th or the 29th; or on the last night [i.e. the 30th].”

7. It is specific to his pairing due to Abu Sa`id al-Khudri’s reply, when he was asked: “What is the ninth and the seventh and the fifth?” “Following the 21st is the 22nd and that is the ninth; after the 23rd comes the seventh; and after the 25th comes the fifth.” (Muslim)

8. It falls on the 17th which they also considered the night on which the Qur’an was sent down and the day the two throngs met in battle [at Badr]. This is narrated from Zayd b. Arqam and also Ibn Mas`ud. Zayd b. Thabit would spend it in prayer. This is also related from al-Hasan al-Basri.

9. It falls on the 19th. This is said to be the position of `Ali b. Abi Talib and also Ibn Mas`ud.

10. It should be expected on the night of the 17th or the 21st or the 23rd. This is related from `Ali b. Abi Talib and also Ibn Mas`ud. It is corroborated by what the latter narrated from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace): “Search it out on the night of the 17th of Ramadan and the night of the 21st and the night of the 23rd.” Then he did not say anything. (Sunan Abi Dawud)

11. It falls on the night of the 21st. This is indicated by the firmly established hadith from Abu Sa`id in the Sahih, in which <<the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: “I saw that it was on an odd night and that on the morning following it I was prostrating in the midst of water and mud.” On the morning of the 21st he rose for the dawn prayer and it rained. The mosque was wet and I saw mud and water. When he went out there was water and mud on his nose and forehead. It was the night of the 21st in the last ten days.>> (Bukhari and Muslim)

12. It falls on the night of the 23rd. This is the position of a large number of Companions and others. It is indicated by the narration from `Abd Allah b. Unays in Sahih Muslim in which the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: “I was shown Laylat al-Qadr then I was made to forget it. I saw that on its morning I was prostrating in water and mud.” This took place on the 23rd. Also in Sahih Muslim from Abu Hurayra, from an unnamed Companion in the Musnad, and from `Ali, Allah be well-pleased with him, in Abu Ya`la’s Musnad.

13. It falls on the night of the 24th. This is narrated from Bilal, Ibn `Abbas, al-Hasan and Qatada. Ibn `Abbas said: “Expect Laylat al-Qadr on the 24th.” (Bukhari) In the Musnad, Bilal narrated that the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: “Laylat al-Qadr is the night of the 24th.”

14. It falls either on the night of the 23rd or the night of the 27th. This is also related from Ibn `Abbas, Allah be well-pleased with him and his father. He narrates it from the Prophet (Bukhari) as does Ibn Mas`ud (Musnad al-Bazzar).

15. It falls on the night of the 27th. This is the position of a large number of Companions and others. Ubay b. Ka`b would swear without saying insha-Allah that it fell on that night. (Sahih Muslim) He said its sign was that the sun rose without shining. The Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) pinpointed that date as narrated from Mu`awiya, Allah be well-pleased with him (Sunan Abi Dawud), Ibn `Umar (Musnad Ahmad), and Jabir b. Samura (Tabarani, Mu`jam al-Awsat).

16. It falls on the last night of the month as per the hadiths: “Expect it on the 29th, the 27th, and the 25th” (Bukhari), “Expect it on the 29th or the 27th or the 25th or the 23rd or the last night” (Tirmidhi, hasan sahih), “It falls on the 27th or the 29th, on that night the angels on earth are more numerous than the stars in the sky” (Ahmad with a good chain).>>

17-22. Ibn al-`Iraqi (Allah have mercy on him) goes on to cite six more positions and states:

23. <<All this is according to those who say it falls on a specific night, as is the position of Imam al-Shafi`i (Allah be well-pleased with him). The sound position of his School is that it falls within the last ten, most likely on an odd night, most likely the night of the 21st and the 23rd. That might be considered a separate position as well, which makes a total of 23 positions.

II.

24. Add to that the position of those who say Laylat al-Qadr has been lifted up forever, which makes 24 positions.

III.

25. A number of scholars said it circulates from night to night depending on the year, among them Malik, Sufyan al-Thawri, Ahmad b. Hanbal, Ishaq b. Rahuyah, Abu Thawr, and others. Ibn `Abd al-Barr attributes it to al-Shafi`i but we do not know that to be correct. However, it is the position of some of his followers such as al-Muzani and Ibn Khuzayma. Al-Nawawi chose it as his preferred position since it reconciles all the different positions.

26. Ibn Hazm said it falls among the odd nights of the last ten nights, but he interpreted their sequence to start on the night of the 20th in 29-day months and on the night of the 21st in 30-day months.

IV.

27. Some of the `Ulema said: Allah Most High has hidden it so that they do not rely on it and neglect others, as he wants for them earnestness at all times. The Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said: “Were it not that people would leave salat except for that night I would inform you of it” (al-Tabarani with a fair chain), and “If I had permission I would tell you” (al-Bazzar)

V.

Among its signs we already mentioned the hadith that on the morning following it the sun has no rays (la shu`a`a laha) and that is the soundest of its signs – “due to the cover of the wings and subtle bodies of the angels that came down to earth and rose in abundance” (Qadi `Iyad). Also, in Ahmad’s Musnad with a good chain: “The portents of Laylat al-Qadr are that it is pure and luminous as if awash with moonlight, still, reanquil, neither cold nor hot, without shooting star, until morning, and when the sun rises it rises full, without rays, like a full moon, and it is prohibited for the devil to come out with it on that day.” A narration in al-Tabarani’s Kabir adds: “and there is no cloud, rain, or wind on that night.”

Should you object that it was narrated above that it took place on a rainy night [see no. 11], we reply: that is for your own choice, as for our choice it is that it does not fall on a specific same night but moves around, so it might have been on a night still night devoid of wind and rain, and Allah knows best.>>

End of the Hafiz Wali al-Din al-`Iraqi’s monograph Sharh al-Sadr bi-Dhikr Laylat al-Qadr.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Love Marriage

Request:

Salam Shaykh
I am a worthless person I feel like that sometimes. I cant seem to find a girl. I liked this arab girl and i wanted to marry her but she wouldnt because i wasnt the same culture as her, for the first time i felt bad being who i am. I feel in pieces. I just want to get to know a women and get married to her , a suitable compataible spouse, beautiful, good values, but most of all a good muslim. I want to get know someone and get married. At times when im alone or when no ones watching me I cry and ask Allah in my mind please help me but yet I have had no luck. I need help from the shaykh because i heard that sometimes its better to ask someone to do dua for you who is closer to Allah(swt).Thankyou Salam

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying  for you to find a suitable match and fufill this essential sunnah.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Pray for me

Request:

Assalaamualaykum Imam Kamau Ayyubi

Jazakallah to the response of my post before.

I am new in naqshabandi & I am not have istiqamah yet to do naqshabandi awrad. I have guru before naqshabandi & somehow i feel that I‘ve been called to naqshabandi.

Now i know, that I still feel that I am something. My apology to Allah, prophet Muhammad & to all of the shuyukh for my behavior.

Please pray for me sayyidi. So I can take this path with ikhlas, with istiqamah & consciences from the deepest of my heart, that I am nothing, & can pass obstacles with ease.

May Allah grant Maulana Sh. Nazim, Maulana Sh. Hisham & all the shuyukh long live, health & raise the maqam in front of Allah. From the deepest of my heart, I send salam to all the shuyukh with love & to all brother & sister in naqshabandi.

wassalaamualaykum

Response:

wa ‘alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your istiqamah. Try to do the Daily Awrad of the Initiate , that will be first step to istiqamah.

Taher Siddiqui

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Constant Dhikr?

Question:

AsSalamAlaikum
Ya Sayyidi, Bismillah thank you. Can you tell me what dhikr I should maintain during the day after the awrad and all times in between. Am I free to say what my heart desires? Is there one to do all the time? Thank you so much my Shaykh, please forgive me and pray for me.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

You may do as much salawat as you like. Insha-Allah it will be accepted by our mashaykh and presented to the Presence of the Prophet (s).

Taher Siddiqui

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Limited participation in tariqah

Question:

Assalamualykum Wa Rahmatullah,

My husband doesn’t like me to be on the computer – so I can only listen to suhbas every now and then; not on a regular basis. Please I ask forgiveness I am not complaining. My husband is a good man – it is just that his tariqat doesn’t want murids to be on computers or tv and he applies it to his family. Alhamdulillah. I don’t have Naqshbandi dhikr gatherings in my area either. I hope my limited participation is okay. I am worried because I read that ‘our way is association…’

Thank you.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

If your husband allows you to watch only once or twice a week, that is fine and a great blessing already. One of the superiorities of the Naqshbandi Way is that the connection with the Shaykh is always there whether you realise it or not. There are many followers who do not have access to the Suhbahs at all due to various reasons, however the Shaykh has the power to watch over you even if you don’t see him. Keep your love for Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and you’ll be OK.

Abdul Shakur

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Prayer Request: Hajj trip

Request:

as Salam alaykom wr wb Mawlana and family,

we love you Mawlana, have a safe trip insha Allah.

Sayyidi, when Imam Mehdi a.s comes this year in hajj, please call us also to arafat, physically and spiritually. love u

Response:

wa ‘alaykum salam, insha-Allah Mawlana is taking every murid with him on his hajj and ziyarah.

Taher Siddiqui

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Get Rid of Black Magic

Question:

Assalamu `alaykum Mawlana Shaykh Hisham and TEAM:

I have read the eshaykh post regarding Surat Al Kursi prayer for protection against Jinn and I have printed it to read on daily basis.

As I was searching on the web I came across a link:
to prayer for Alwi angels was very pleasant to listen to. Is it OK to play it on my PC?
May Allah bless you for your continued support.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is preferable to play salawat or recitation by munshidin.

Taher Siddiqui

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