Prayer Request: want to get married but confused

Request:

assalamualaikum ya shaykh

I am 29 years old, have a desire to get married but confused in choosing and undergoing. I am afraid to perform istikaharah prayers, because a few years ago, done istikharah and confident of the outcome, but it turns out she was married to someone else.

now, please help me ya Shaykh Hisham, to choosing (please hide the names of the following) I am [private] and there are some girls around me, their names are [private] (please hide my name and their names)
Please give me clue who one of them (or others) who would become my wife, sholehah wife and supports the belief and worship.
If my future wife was one of them, please mention her name ya shaykh.
please prayer for ease and success in later our marriage and our life in the world and the hereafter

wassalamualaikum wr wb

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah whichever one your heart feels good with, go ahead.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani


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Ramadan Ithekaaf

Question:

Asalam, ulakum,

I am in need of advice, as my intention is to do ithekaaf for last 10 days of Ramadan Inshallah this year. I would like to know what I should read during the 10 days:
• To be totally connected to Allah SWT.
• To ask for forgiveness
• To feel cleansed?
• To clean my ego
Also, Inshallah I will be getting married soon after Ramadan and would like to know what I can read during the 10 days for a successful marriage inshallah?
Would it be permissible to listen to the recordings of the Quran whilst in ithekaaf, as I will be doing it at home and do not wish to listen to family in the other room? This way I can block out their noises and fully concentrate on zikr.

What is the etiquette of doing Ithekaaf?

JazakAllah Khair

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

You have permission. It is good to follow the Sunnah of the Prophet (s). It is very good to listen to Quran and do awrad and dhikr from the Naqshbandi awrad book.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Marriage Compatibility request

Question:

Asalam Alaikum,

I have recently met a brother on the internet, he is 6 years older than me but he seems a good person. We have had contact by telephone and I was hoping to ask if you could inshallah take our names and advise if this would be a good marriage? I am unable to do istiharah at the moment. (due to menstruation) his name is [private] and mine is [private].
Jazakallah for your help and patience.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

If your heart is open to him Bismillah, go ahead. Otherwise, if it is not too open then wait.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Dream: Very worried about my mother

Dream:

Assalaamoe Aleikoem esteemed Sheiks

A few weeks ago on awakening I saw my mother s face looking sad and ill. This morning I awoke to hearing her voice crying asking to speak to me ( as if per telephone conversation). Is this just my mind messing with me. Pls make doa for her health and happiness – she is a very good and pious person.  Shukran for all your good work and advice. May Allah bless you all and raise your stations.

Interpretation::

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your mother. You too pray for her and go visit her, or if you cannot, spend much more time speaking with her by phone.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Selling a house to settle my debt

Request:

Assalamualaikum,
Dear Sayyidi Shaikh Hisyam Kabbani,
Please pray for me, I have a house which is still under bank loan. With my current financial situation, I’m no longer able to pay it.
Please pray for me, so that I can sell the house and settle the loan and I can come out from my financial problem.

Humbly asking Your Hand,

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

InshaAllah with Mawlana’s baraka and du`as you will settle your loan.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Harun Yahya

Question:

Asalam alaikum, I have recently come across an author/scholar called Harun Yahya. What is Mulana Sheikh Nazim or Mulana Sheikh Hisham’s thought on him? Is he using the words of wisdom from others???? As I’m very confused by this individual, a view would be greatly appreciated & may the Almighty bless Sheikh nazim with a healthy/peacful & long life until the long awaited one arrives… Ameen Jazak Allah khair :)

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

He met Mawlana Shaykh Nazim. We met his representative also. He is ok.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani


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About Baya

Question:

Bismillah.

As-Salaamu-‘Alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh wa Ridwanuh

I had take bay-ah online with Grandsyaikh Muhammad Nazhim Al-Haqqani to participate the Naqshbandi Order. Unfortunately, I had make bay-ah before with my previous syaikh at my local place and my heart becomes empty and what I had achieve had lost and I am deeply unhappy with it. I feel very far away from Allah and Rasulullah… my day begin to collapse with disappointment and I don’t know what to do.

What should I do..? Should I keep recites and make daily awraad of two thariqah constantly or just continue with Naqshbandi Order and leaving my previous thariqah? are my chain of bay-ah with my previous syaikh broke when I had take bay-ah online with syaikh Nazim, because my bay-ah with my previous syaikh is taking by person while with syaikh Nazim, I took bay-ah online or in very far distance?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Keep doing both awrad and your baya` is still valid for both Shaykhs.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani


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How could I bridge/bypass the time

Question:

Salam aleikum

How could I bridge/bypass the time until I get married. One
of the brothers of my potential wife gave me her mobile number,
but I don’t know how to bridge/bypass the time until we get married.

Please pray for us that ALLAH chnage the hearts of her relatives to our
benefit
and that ALLAH bless and ease our marriage and our travel to Dubai
and to find a house and everything according to the documents and our marriage

and that ALLAH guids ALL my relatives to Islam

Wassalam

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Spend time in learning Arabic, reciting Quran (however poor your recitation may be) and doing dhikrullah and salawat.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Focusing while praying

Request:

Assalamualaikum warrah matullahhiwabaraqatu
Mawlana ,

I’ve been told that the only way of my dua being accepted is for me to pray with intensity and full focus and concentration. And that 100 years ago one of the shaykhs had to amputate their leg and his students suggested the doctor to do it when he was praying as he would not realize. When the amputation was being done he did not know of it. I know it takes years to get to that point , but how do I at least be focus and not be distracted by thoughts and be able to pray with such great focus ?

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Don’t worry too much. You only need to raise your hands and ask. Know what you are asking for and ignore all whispers and distractions. The best way is to face the Qibla, start your du`a with praises and glorification to Allah Almighty, followed with Salawat and Salam upon the Prophet Muhammad (s) and ask. End your du`a with Salawat upon the Prophet (s) and praising and thanking Allah the Lord of the Worlds.

Alhamdulillah, with the blessings of our Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani (may Allah grant him long life in health and happiness!) and the favours that Allah Almighty grants to the Ummah during the last days, we need not go the way to amputate our legs. Just do our dhikr and ask Madad from our Shaykh, Insha-Allah, this will be enough.

Abdul Shakur

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Dream: The Prophet on the last day

Dream:

Assalamualaykum Shaykh Hisham

I am 16 years now. About 4 or 5 years ago I dreamt that Yawm ul Qiyama had arrived. I was in a large room with many persons whom I was unaware of. Then the Prophet entered where upoun we all kissed his hand. Then a little later I saw a setting sun along with me a line of people were silouhetted. I was wondering what good we had done to take us through.

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,

Prophet (s) said, “People will be raised with whom they Love”. Insha-Allah the love of Prophet (s) represented in this dream will save you in the approaching Yawm al-Qiyama.

wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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