Vegetarian

Question:

I heard Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s Suhba on cruelty to animals and was greatly heartened. I have been uncomfortable with causing death where not necessary and to this end, I became a vegetarian ten years ago. I feel it is my duty to cause as little destruction in the created world as possible, that I may exit it with a light heart.  Death is a spiritual event and it seems disrespectful to me that I should consume an animal which I did not give the respect of slaughtering myself. In a conversation with a Murid of the Naqshbandi Tariqa I was informed that my view was erroneous, that I was, in fact, the perpetrator of a great disservice, as it was the highest honour for animals to be consumed by humans. I found this disconcerting. Is refraining from the consumption of meat an inferior lifestyle?

Answer:

a`udhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem

As Salaam `alaikum,

There is moderation in everything.  It is reported that the Prophet (s) did not eat meat everyday but he did not refrain from eating meat either. He (s) is also reported to have said that one should eat meat at least once in 40 days to balance one’s composition and not deteriorate.  Islamic Law forbids cruelty to animals, including during slaughter so that they do not suffer.  The Prophet (s) was the most balanced and merciful of human beings and he ate meat.

W’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Prayer Request: Increased strength of character and calm heart

Request:

As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu,

I ask that the Shaykh pray for my character to strengthen in what is good and right; that my heart is calm and open, and that I am pardoned my sins.

Ameen.

Response:

Wa’alaikumussalam

Insha-Allah, Mawlana Shaykh Hisham will be praying for you. Keep your connection with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim always and you will be absolutely fine. Our prayers are with you.

Abdul Shakur Hadi

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Prayer Request: To get married

Request:

Assalam-alaikum,
I am a 30 yr old woman and unmarried. Can you please tell me a strong Dua which help me get married soon to the one my heart desires. Also, I would request you to pray for me too.
JazakAllah.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah you wil get married. Recite Ya Mu`ti, Ya Ghani 100 times each.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Wear scarf or not

Question:

Salaam Aleikum honorable ones,
Sounds silly question, compared to the major problems people face. I know part of it is connected to my vanity, fear, and upbringing. I became Muslim two years ago, happily wore scarf, and proud of this. My Christian friends were disgusted by it, my kids told me I look ugly with it. A lot of people here in my country are hostile to the scarf. I did not care. Then I married a very sweet younger Muslim man. He told me I look ugly with the scarf and he said he does not want people to be hostile to the scarf and me.When I wear it, he takes it off. When I confront him, he says, do what you want, but I  cannot since I feel he thinks I am ugly with it on, and will start to think about other beautiful women. But he cares for me, and the hostile feeling of others towards. Forgive me please for this silly question.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

You are doing it for Allah swt’s sake, so you decide what you want to do.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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House Possessed By Evil Spirits

Question:

Assalamualaikum,
Hazrat, My name is [private]. I am a mureed of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim Al-Haqqani, took bayyath online. Please Hazrat help me up, as I am in need of it. My family is facing  a lot of issues regarding our house being possessed by evil spirits and my sister not getting good marriage proposals. Someone among us is falling ill regularly. Please do help us in this matter as we are having financial problems also. I can handle any problem as for me everything either it may be good or bad comes from my Shaykh, and that is you my Shaykh. If it’s good than it’s a reward for me and if it’s bad then thats a test for me. But I can’t bare my family members facing problems. Please do pray for my family and help me up in removing those evils.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Read Ayat al-Kursi daily 7 times and blow around the house.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Auntie’s Mental Health

Request:

Asalamalaikum WaRahmatullah WaBarakatahu, to Mawlana Sheikh Hisham (QS) and family and to EShaykh and to all.
Ya Sayedi, please forgive me I am a foolish and stupid and weak person.
My Aunty is currently suffering from a mental health problem and we would be grateful for you prayers to grant her good health. She has four children and we are begging you Seyedi so that she can be well and look after her children. I love you so much Sayedi and I do so many stupid things that I kiss your feet and beg for your forgiveness.
JazakAllah Khair.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah, we are always praying for all of you.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Marriage with little income

Question:

As Salamu Alaikum ya Shyukh, I am writing to ask: if a man works part-time in a skill he has had for 7 years and still studying at University to finish his major but really knows how important marriage is for his soul and deen and so desires to marry, and he may have even met someone, what do you advise Shaykh Kabbani? And if its ok to marry what should one do about finances? Thank you

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Go ahead and marry. It will bring a lot of Khayr (goodness), you will see.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Permission in Dhikr Group

Question:

Assalamu alaykum Sayyidi,

I am currently leading a Dhikr group and wanted to know if Ijazah can be granted to me to continue to deliver small talks before our gathering. I do not speak from the heart as I do not have I permission to do so, so I rather read small passages from Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s books, also from Suhbah’s and also from Sultan ul Awliya’s books as well.

Our group is growing steadily as we are spreading the Dhikr throughout our area (province), at Masajids and also have a weekly feeding scheme. Sayyidi please make du’a for us and to build our own Zawiya.

Shukran,

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Yes no problem to continue with the talk, as long you connect the people to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Asking to be closer with Shaykh Hisham

Request:

As salaam’alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh ,

Earlier this weekend allowed me to see and sit with Shaykh Hisham maashallah. Already I feel a great love for him, and ask that our connection can be further strengthened inshaallah. For reference, Shaykh Hisham, please excuse my manners, I was the boy with dreadlocks.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

May Allah bless you.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Istikhara Request Guidance

Request:

Bismillah Irahman Irahim
Asalaam Alaykum

Pray you are all well InshaAllah

ASalaams and much love for our beloved Mawlana Sheikh Nazim and Sheikh Hisham and family. May you all be protected and your stations raised higher InshaAllah.

I have been getting to know a brother within 40 days for marriage purposes. We have done Istikhara but not yet seen anything to help make a decision. If you have time please could you help make Istikhara. My name is [private] my parents are called [private] and [private]. His name is [private] and his parents are called [private] and [private].

Any such guidance from you would be an honour Ya Seyiddi.
Forgive me for any mistakes.

Shukran

Wasalaam

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

InshaAllah it is a  good decision to take your time until Rajab and continue to get to know each other. Decide at that time.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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