zikrs in jamat

Question:

assalamu alaykum ya sayyadi ive made intention to pray my 5 salats in jamat in my masjid in shaykh hisham kabbani book quidebook shaykh
gives duas and zikrs in between sunnah fards and nafls of salah is there
and short versions i can do. i dont want to miss them but some zikrs and suras shaykhs recites takes me time and the masjid would not wait for me to finish they want to lock up and go home. i hope to hear from you keep up the good work

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Please see Mawlana Shaykh Hisham’s advice in this post.

Staff

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wazifa

Question:

As salam mu alakum,

I did the dua of sayidina daud. I wore the taweez for 40 days. Nothing happened. I waited for her to contact me as I did not want to ruin my self respect. Did I do something wrong? Has this wazeefa been tested? Why do you people give these fake wazaifs and teach people false superstitions. Excuse my harsh language please. But I feel that these wazaif are false made up superstitions to mislead people. Correct me if I am wrong.

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

See the Post “History of dua’a of Prophet Dawood A.S.”

Also, see Shaykh Gibril’s answer given here.

Staff

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Sufi life

Question:

Salamualykum,

How to practice Tasawwuf?

Regards

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

First step is to take initiation with a guiding murshid (teacher) who is master of his self.

Taher Siddiqui

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A desperate plea

Question:

Kind Attn: Sheikh Muhammad  Hisham Kabbani

Respected Sir

Assalamu alaikum.

Hope this mail finds you and family in best of health and spirit by the grace of Allah.

First of all, I would wish to seek few minutes of your precious quality time to go through this e-mail in depth. I know you are a very busy dignitary and will not have time for such lengthy notes, my apologies. I have decided to write this plea after lot of contemplation and out of sheer desperation and nerve wracking compulsion, could never think of appropriateness, hence you may find it bit odd, my apologies again.

I am an Indian Muslim, currently unemployed and temporarily based in the ME on visit visa for job searching purpose, I have over 16 years of work experience in Healthcare/Pharma/Admin sector in the Middle East,I have worked for many years as Medical Office/ Clinic/Pharmacy in-charge as well as healthcare claims processing officer, healthcare services marketing & sales officer in Dubai and Saudi Arabia during my tenure and have a natural flair towards the sector with much needed compassion, empathy and indeed perseverance.  But, I am tired of sending job applications to various employers here in the Middle East and everywhere possible, and am registered with innumerable job portals, but none met with any result so far.  The world seems to have become so soulless and madly hyper-professional and appears eclipsed by inhuman technicalities.

I don’t know whether it is appropriate to approach you in this peculiar unprofessional way, but I had no other way, am totally disheartened by the unfortunate indifference I have been confronting from those hundreds of employers, and fraternal Muslim associations the world over, whom I had approached to seek a career. I have contacted many prestigious healthcare groups in  UK, US, Malaysia, Singapore and almost all over the world for a job, though all of them have suitable vacancies that perfectly suits my hard earned experience, expertise and flair, unfortunately none could extend a helping hand. I believe its because  I am a less privileged/less equipped foreigner without any local support. Though I duly respect their discretion, deeply pained by this disheartening situation and the sad inconsiderate response receiving from every corners. I am really shocked by realizing this depth of compassion deficit prevailing among the Ummah.

If your time permits, let me quote another startling experience I have encountered recently, I came across a job posting few months ago, as I am so desperate for a job I applied to it immediately, later I found out that the firm is run by a Evangelist group, some days later, a pastor replied to me by stating their recruitment policy, they only recruit people who are followers or are willing to follow their faith and culture. In other words, they are ready to offer me a job if I am ready to convert to their faith! But my self esteem and Imaan/cultural dignity never allowed me even to reply him, I have even immediately deleted his contact from my record. Though I could salvage my pride there in front of the pastor, our own Ummah is defeating me everyday by inconsiderately neglecting my desperate plea for a job.

These bitter empirical experiences forced me to share my grievances with you and to explore the possibility of a noble fraternal help in regards to my search for a halal means of subsistence, which as we all know is also an Ibada. I don’t know what more to say than repeat this , I request your high Islamic conscience and Wisdom, and seek your kind assistance for a suitable non-clinical healthcare/pharma/hospice/admin support career, or any other suitable career, anywhere in the world, using your goodwill, contacts, friends/professional/community circles, where I can peacefully make a living and stay with my family. My family is staying in a rented house back home in India, I was not able to build a own home so far, if I don’t pay the rent and utilities my family will be in trouble, I also have school going children, I have been working all these years detached with them, I am not only tired financially, but emotionally also. I also know this is a testing time from Allah, but Sir as a family man, how can, and how far I can withstand such a helpless, distraught situation.

Since being such a renowned/widely admired Scholar and Spiritual leader admired by millions, I am sure you will have lot of fraternal ties and community bonds across the world, I humbly plead you to kindly use some of those for this life saving cause, It is not just a job I am seeking the help for, but for a means of very survival. I know that whatever I say, I am a foreigner for you, but trust Ummah has no such boundaries.
I am tired of hearing evasive inhuman technical reasons and not a soulful help, completely drained and exhausted, but I still have hope and faith in exceptional compassionate fraternal dignitaries like you and Ummah/Humanity. More than anything, this, literally is an SOS from a sinking human being. My eyes blurring, fingers burning can’t type anything more…I leave the rest to your High Islamic Conscience and virtues, with prayers. I can’t bear a negative response from such an highly respected influential dignitary, hence prayfully awaiting a life saving breakthrough.

If it is unable for you to help me find a job kindly help me through any other means, either way please do not let me down completely in this dire do or die situation, I am sending this ultimate plea as a last resort, I do not have any other hopes left with this grossly merciless, madly materialistic compassion less world.I know it is easy for a dignitary like you to ignore such an email plea amidst the flood of other routine correspondances, and also at a time when fraudulent/ scam mails also circulating every corner, but Sir, the very life of a human being is at stake here in this, being an Islamic scholar and Spiritual leader with high wisdom and virtues I am sure you can well distinguish good and bad.
Thank you for your valuable time and kind attention.
May Allah reward all your noble deeds.

Respectfully,
With Prayers
[private]

Answer:

Dear [private],

wa `alaykum salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani says that you must know that these rejections are only a test and checkiing to see your persistence. He says that Allah likes to see the ilha in du`a, constant crying and petitioning your Lord and turning to Him as the Source of all good without stopping.

Keep applying and Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for your success. Recite Allahuma akfinee bi halalik `an haramik wa ‘ghninee bi fadlika `amman siwak 10x a day.

Taher Siddiqui

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darood nariya

Question:

Can you please give me permission to recite darood nariya? Also as I am 27 years not married facing a lot of problems not getting loved by my father from a young age as he cares for others is disturbing me very much.

Answer:

Please see here and here.

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parental disapproval

Question:

I met a man and we both wish to marry – for the right reasons – piety, good character and compatibility. We both feel that we were intended for each other. However his parents have disapproved of me because of our age difference. He is 35 and I am 44. He has tried his best to persuade them but they have refused and told him that if he marries me, they will disown him. He is not willing to go against his parents and despite being heartbroken he has told me that we have to go our separate ways – maybe we will be reunited in another life. This is so unjust! Please help.

Answer:

As-salamu `alaykum,

Sorry to hear that. In-sha-Allah you may follow the advice here.

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Iron touch hadith

Question:

Assalam-o-alaikum dear sheikh,

A sheikh said that the following hadith relates to sexual touching, not mere touching of the opposite gender:

“It would be better for one of you to have himself stabbed on the head with an iron needle than to touch a woman that is illegal for him.” (Bayhaqi, Tabarani).

I was thinking over his explanation and it doesn’t make sense to me. The explanation would mean “its haram to touch non-mahrams sexually. The opposite meaning inferred is that its halal to sexually touch mahrams“? Thus the explanation doesn’t make sense.

However, if the explanation is “its haram to actually touch (meaning the literal meaning of “touch/mass”) non-mahrams, then the opposite is that its halal to touch mahrams“. This explanation makes sense.

What are your thoughts respected sheikh?

jazakAllah khair for your time.

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

His explanation relates to intercourse with other than a spouse, although the scholars generally understood this hadith literally as mere touch (misas), not figuratively as intercourse, and it is one of the intensively preventive hadiths such as the prohibition of khalwa and the description of woman as `awra, like the verses, “Do not approach this tree” and “Do not approach zina,” where the approach itself is a sin although what is ultimately meant is the greater sin of partaking from it.

Nevertheless, he may have a basis in the Hanafi (and majority) interpretation of the term laamastum al-nisa’ (touch women) in the verse al-Nisa’ 4:43, “And if you are ill, or on a journey, or one of you comes from the latrine, or you have touched women…” wherein lexically the cognates of l-m-s are synonymous with those of m-s-s. However, the latter approach is based on athar from Ibn `Abbas and others, whereas there is no such precedent for the hadith, and Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Urgent Prayer For Cousin In Hospital

Request:

Asalam Allaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabanni. On Sunday my cousin, [private], fell down a building. A friend there by the name of , [private], tried saving him when he fell down as well. [private] is currently going through multiple surgeries and is suffering from internal bleeding. [private] is undergoing several surgeries on his chin and his knee. Please Mawlana pray for them. We are all very worried and are praying our hearts out for them.

Jazakallah and Asalamalay Kum Warahmatullahi Wabaraktu.

Response:

Alaykum Salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for your cousin and his friend. In sha Allah blessings will come out of this trial. Have patience, believe in qadar without resisting it and give sadaqa on their behalf to your intention.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Mawlana Shaykh Nazim’s sickness

Dream:

I saw millions and millions of people gathered together. It was night time. The people were all standing. I was told these people are the Dalits (or Harijan-God’s people). These are the oppressed people (from India). MSN helped them all secretly and quietly. All these people are now standing in the night and praying for MSN. MSN was covered in a blanket. I was next to him and could see the blanket covering him. I told him that I liked to bow to him and he replied that bowing to him had an immense benefit. To a little distance was a big hump or bump or something covered with cloth. I was afraid that this covering had equipment for surveillance on MSN. He told me, “No, this is the tablighi jamaat. They don’t like to bow to me and I am tired of this. It would have been better for them if they did.”

Interpretation:

As-Salamu alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

This dream is indicating the high status of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim among the servants of Allah and His spiritual influence on the people of the world to even those whom never seen him physically. These oppressed people of India are humbled and quick to show respect to pious people and that is why Allah helped them through the Sultanul Awliya. Showing respect to awliya Allah is a sign of humbleness and key to success and brings immense benefit. People who intentionally refuse to show respect to awliya Allah will be veiled from true wisdom and blessings of the religion indicated by the cloth covering them. The big hump is indicative of their arrogance. By refusing to submit to awliya Allah, one would be filled with arrogance in spite of one’s good amal.

Syed Shahzaman

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Can Muslim men go to prom or dances?

Question:

Salam Walaykum. This book based on us Afghans called “my name is Muhammad” said that a Muslim man can go to prom but not the woman. I for one find it ridiculous. It made Islam sound sexist and I am pretty sure both male and female cant go. I think it is culture they let their kids go to dances and proms at school. What do you think?

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Please read the Post “In need of wisdom” on the subject of beneficial knowledge.

Staff

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