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need help on marriage

Syeikh, I have a problem with my plan to get married. I have a boyfriend currently living in Pakistan, but I live with my family in Indonesia. Continue reading

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Prayer Request: Intention for marriage

I have intention to marry a girl that is a few years older than me. We both have niyyah for marriage, as we both have the same shaykh, we do the same things and think the same. Continue reading

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Marriage

Q: Save yourself and herself from problems – let each one go his own way. It is easier than later to get married and bring children and then it becomes complicated. Continue reading

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Prayer Request: hardship

Please may I request for Shaykh Nazim to make dua for Junaid Mohammed Khatri who lives in India. He has had a life full of hardship for a long period of time. His whole family are going through a lot of difficulty. Continue reading

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Dream: Carrying mother on the back

I dreamt I was carrying my mother or grandmother ( I cannot remember which one) on my back and showing her places she used to bring me to. Continue reading

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Prayer Request: Forced Marriage

My mother will not let me marry a girl whom i am in love with. She is forcing me using every technique possible to marry her niece. Continue reading

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obedience to parent for this specific request

Q: I just recentley got a black turban since Mawlana Shaykh Nazim had asked his murids to do so. I did, and my dad says to not wear it outside ppl will think your a terrorist. Continue reading

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Bad Feelings to Mother

I was raised by a single mother and ever since I can remember our relationship has not been a typical mother-child relationship. As a child I did not like my mother to touch me and was not very attached to her and often had bad feelings toward her (I have been told this was the case since my birth). Continue reading

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Paying for Cousin’s Hajj

Q: My cousin who wants to give money for his parents to do hajj but he yet has not done it himself. Is this permissible? Continue reading

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Guidelines for Raising Children

Q: In Islam how are parents expected to bring their children up, what guidance should they provide? Continue reading

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