Dream: Blood Sex

Question:

About to sleep with my ex-girlfriend. Before anything happens an excessive amount of blood begins gushing from her anus.

Answer:

In a previous post, Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani said, “Any blood seen in a dream makes the dream invalid and it cannot be interpreted.”

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Isthikara Prayer for marriage

Prayer Request:

[Private info] Please offer isthikara prayer for marriage and let me know if he’s the right choice for me and procceed for marriage. I didn’t get result when I prayed isthikara. Please.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam
It is good in sha Allah. Trust in Allah and go ahead.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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My prayers go against me

Question:

Salaam,

I wanted to know if it is possible for black magic to cause your prayers to have the opposite result. As I don’t know what I am doing wrong, I pray my awrad, read the salawat book by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham, plus other wazaif and on this site. All my life I have had problems with my health, whatever I pray for I get the opposite occur. I pray to be saved from certain illnesses and I have gotten them all. I prayed my siblings be protected from what I have suffered but they are now also getting them. I read many durood and read bismillah 1000 x daily, but still my family problems persist. What am I doing wrong? Why does nothing go right

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
All the black magic in the world from all time cannot lift a speck of dust from the ground were it not for the divine will (irada). Hence when you obey Allah you not only consciously place yourself under the divine will (as all things are in any case) but also under the divine good pleasure (rida) because Allah commanded prayer.

The problem is that we view duress as a curse whereas for the believer it is a blessing, “even a mosquito bite” as the Prophet (s) said. Another hadith states that trials for the believers are expiations and graduations or levels. And the angels are at the bedside of the suffering servants saying Amin to every duaa. It is win-win. Do not expect a soft path of roses in exchange for piety when the Prophets of Allah endured and bore with every enmity and disgrace with patience. Take stock, cheer up and keep steadfast on your duty as so many blessings already encompass you and the reward of the hereafter is much greater yet.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dua

Prayer Request:

Aslamualaykum

Dear respected scholars of Islaam

I humbly ask for your dua that Allah remove from me the mental diificulties that I am facing in my life that have been going on for the past six years.

Wasslaam

Answer:

Wa `alaykum salam,

Fatiha, bi hurmati Nabiyy, sallaLlahu alayhi wa salaam.

Abdul Haqq

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Dream: Mother sees a LOT of head lice on daughters hair

Question:

Asalamu – Alaikum. My mother had a dream that LOTS of head lice was crawling on top of my head. She combs my hair & a lot of dry scabs come out from the back of my scalp. She is surprised and says to me “the wound on your scalp has healed, it’s healed.”

Answer:

Walaikumas Salam Wa Rahmatullah

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
Lice represents material prosperity. Your mother is the key to your success for prosperity of this life. Request her to make doa for you. Keep her happy and obey her as long as she does not say anything unIslamic and unethical.

Syed Shahzaman

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I need help

Question:

He asked for 150 pounds and I sent it via Western union. Then when I spoke to him again I told him very clearly I DONT have any more money to send. I’m single parent making ends meet the rent food etc.. living a simple life style Alhumdulilaah. He reassured that there may not be any more payments to make. So then I called when he told me to and he made me make oath that I will pay. I kept telling him I can’t I don’t have the means. He kept saying just say yes I help you pay. I said wahoo hai to that he said say it 3 times wa book hai. I did. Then when he said u need to pay 1800 pounds I started crying and told him that I don’t have the money or the means to pay. He then said that whatever amal he did it will affect my children. It will harm my children. I told him again and again I don’t have the money or the means to send that amount. I don’t know what to do. Please help. Please pray for my children. I feel so cheated. It’s like being raped. I told him I don’t have money but he kept on and on. Is this right? Please can you send me tawiz for my children for their protection. Please for the sake of ALLAH swt help me here. Crying and shaking whilst am writing to you all.

Answer:

Alaykum salam,
For an oath to be valid the precondition is firm intention. However your intention both before and after the oath was never to pay. Therefore, it is not valid. Furthermore, even if it had been your intention it would still not be valid, because an oath made under coercion is invalid. Your compliance qualifies as compliance under coercion. Thirdly, it is invalid also because another contractual precondition was a service which you never got. This makes it all null and void for three reasons.

Wear Mawlana’s tawiz and recite Fatiha, Ayatul Kursi, Amanar Rasul and the last three Suras of Quran every morning and evening for 40 days. In sha Allah nothing will harm you or your children and any sihr will return to its senders manifold and destroy them by permission of Allah.

Shaykh Gibril Haddad

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Dua to Protect Husband from Desiring Other Women

Question:

Assalamu ‘alaykum.

I’m [private] years old [private]. Im married for [private] now with a baby son, alhamdulillah. My husband is 4_ years old British convert, he was convert 20 years ago based from his on conviction. He was married with several women before me. He was a favorite of Sheikh Nazim’s murid before. He does huge amount of zikr. My husband is fine with everything as being a husband and a father, he is not into duniya things but he has problem with opposite sex. It seems his trial are the women. Everywhere he goes, there is fitnah from women for him and my husband is not good in handling this matter. Alhamdulillah, he does not involve zina but I need some duaa to read to avoid before something bad happen. nauzibillahi min zalik. Please tell me what should I read , zikr, wazifa, or duaa to make. I am striving myself very hard to help my husband to be better servant of Allah s.w.t.

InshaAllah to hear from you. May Allah s.w.t reward you abundantly with your kindness. Ameen Ya Rabbil Alaameen…

W’ssalam.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you both insha-Allah.

Recite law laa an ra’aa burhaana rabbihi kadhaalika li-nasrifa `anhu ‘s-sooa wa ‘l-fahshaa innahu min `ibadinaa ‘l-mukhlaseena 10x from Surah Yusuf, 12:24, daily for his protection from desiring other women, and Allah knows best.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Quran and Black Dog

Question:

Salaams,
I kept seeing the same type of dream a couple of times and thought I should get some interpretation. I remember seeing the same kind of dream where I walked into this majlis that’s underneath a big mountain and there were people who would go there to visit including myself. And in the left corner of the place were some people who were selling Holy Quran with different colors and to the right was the wudu area. So it so happened that today I saw myself going to the same place where people were selling Holy Quran and I went to make wudu and after I came out of that place, I took an inner street and made a right to go back to that building, but there was this black dog who was in front of me and once it saw me it started heading back to bite me. I had a piece of string that I kept wrapping the dog’s mouth and the dream ended. Would this dream mean anything?

Answer:

Alaykum salam,
Mountain represents awliya and you are under their dome. Buying Quran means you leave dunya behind. Black dog is the things that try to distract you from Allah and dhikr. String is Mawlana’s wird and wazifa which makes shaytan powerless.
And Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Spiritual Disease affecting others

Question:

Salaam shaykh,
How is it possible to get my amal, dua, zikr answered without affecting anyone else? Right now the only thing that doesn’t affect anyone is salawat because it’s a straight request that doesn’t need to come down to me. However how do I make amals, zikrs without this ruh connection from going thru the chain of awliyas to Prophet saw and getting people affected by my problems? This has become a very big problem for me shaykh. I understand even if I make one request when making amals or zikrs it’s constantly going up and down and even carries my ruh connection with all my diseases. I need this amal to be a straight request that goes up and get answered on it’s own without giving my problems to anyone this request goes through shaykh.

Answer:

Alaykum salam,
It is like a bird picking up a speck of crumb in his beak and swallowing it. All our negative traits, sins and badness is smaller than that speck in the ocean of mercy of Allah. Therefore, we worship Allah. We do not worship our sins. They are nothing and they become zero when He grants His mercy. We do not affect anything or anyone. Only He affects us and everyone with His mercy.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Marriage with outsider?

Question:

Salam,

There is a man that I love and wish to marry inshAllah. I have done istikhaara and have seen positive results. He is Saudi , I am from Afghanistan. I don’t know if his family would allow him to marry me. He says that Saudi’s in general don’t marry outside of their race. But I also learned that the Gov of Saudi Arabia doesnt allow interracial marriages. I dont know what to do. I was upset about his family not wanting the marriage but now his government? I feel discouraged, the Prophet married women from all sorts of races. So should I give up? A new law was passed in S.A that interracial marriages are allowed but the person has to be 30 years or older. I am only 22 and I dont want to wait until Im 30. But I dont want to forget about marrying him either.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
If a groom’s parents or bride’s parents are against a marriage the son or daughter will not want to break their parents’s hearts. A hadith states “Approval from parents means approval from Allah” and the sign of permission in a project is ease and facility, not difficulty on top of difficulty. Make dua, give sadaqa, trust in Allah and have some patience. If the obstacles do not clear by Eid’s time it might be best to move on.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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