Marriage to a non muslim

Question:

Salaam.

I hope this message finds you in great peace.

I have a few questions regarding this matter. Firstly, can a muslim women marry a non muslim man? If he converted after they got married (50/50) this would be a risk to take but could happen so would this be acceptable? What is a nikkah was done the muslim way and the non islamic way? I have many friends who are in two minds and want to find out if there is anything in the Quran which states this is wrong.

We are all human before we take on our religions.

Appologies if this questions is straight to the point. I know there are many people in this world puzzled and stuck in depression and have health issues because of this.

Jazak Allah Khair

W’salaam

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

As Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani said, many men entered the religion of Islam for the love of a woman, and there is nothing wrong in that.

See the Post: “Marriage to a non-Muslim man

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Dua for Family

Request:

Asalaam Alaykum,
Thank you for your time on reading my request. Please prayer for my family and me. Please prayer for my mother and brother to be guided on the right path. Please prayer I marry a good practising brother inshAllah. Please prayer noor is both in to our lives.
Jazakallah.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Doing Zikr with Family

Dream:

Salam,

My family are not on tariqah and are quite sceptical about some things we do. I had a dream that I was in my room and started doing zikr from the Khatm Khawajagaan and my mother joined in reading loudly and then my brothers and sisters. And my mother looked at my Sufi books & said MashaAllah you really look like one of them now (meaning Sufi).

This night I didn’t hear my alarm for fajr and had the dream just before I woke up at about 10am.

JazakAllah Khair

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

The Prophet (s) said, “whoever imitates a people is one of them,”  and so your  mother saying you look like them means you have become a true Sufi. As that dream indicated you have been accepted by our mashaykh, Insha-Allah. Through your sincere example, they too will soon join this holy path.

and Allah knows best,

Taher Siddiqui

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Interfaith marriage Moslem man with Christian woman

Question:

assalamualaikum
My beloved Shaykh, my question is, can we marry a Christian girl?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

See these postings:

“Marriage to a non-Muslim”
“Marrying deobandi and palestine
Marriage with a Shia“.

Abdul Shakur and Staff

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How Many Spirtual Stations/Levels Are There?

Question:

Hi,
i asked you previously about my dream (https://eshaykh.com/dreams/playing-frisbee-in-a-park/). My question is how many levels/stations are there in spirtual development. And how does one reach higher levels. Thanks

Answer:

a`udhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem

Nawaytu al-Arba`in nawaytul i`tikaf, nawaytu ‘l-khalwah, nawaytul `uzlah, nawaytur-riyadah, nawaytu ‘s-suluk lilLahi Ta`ala al-`Azhim fi hadhal masjid.

Insha`Allah, we hope that Allah (swt) opens onto our hearts and our ears to understand the meanings of heavenly knowledge that Allah (swt) gave to Sayyidina Muhammad (s) in Laylatul Isra`i wa ‘l-Mi’raj (Night of Ascension).

Grandshaykh, may Allah bless him, said in his notes that all the knowledge exists today, combined with whatever knowledge existed from Sayyidina Adam (as) until Judgment Day, all together it is like one drop in the ocean of knowledge of Sayyidina Muhammad (s).  The rest of the ocean is still there.  Why? Prophet’s (s) ascension doesn’t stop.  Huwa da`iman fit-taraqi – he is always ascending.  In life he was ascending, and in the afterlife he is ascending.

He is always in ascension without stopping, and what he is receiving from these high levels, he is giving our.  But no one can take more than he can carry.

لا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّه نَفْساً إِلا وُسْعَهَا

{Allah doesn’t burden someone more than he can bear} (Surah al-Baqarah, 2:286)

And that’s why there are different levels; like today, people are tested.  They say, “That one has an IQ of this, that one has an IQ of that, so they measure the intelligence that they have – how much is your IQ? What is the highest IQ that people can have? .  So if you have… I remember they tested my IQ in the American University in Beirut, it was around 168.  So they test IQ, and they see how much you can get.  If that is with normal people, then also in spirituality and for different knowledges, there must are be different levels of ability to understand.

وَفَوْقَ كُلِّ ذِي عِلْمٍ عَلِيمٌ

Wa fawqa kulli dhi `ilmin `Alim
{above every knower there is a higher Knower.} (Surah al-Yusuf 76.)

As-Sabuni in his abridgement of the commentary of Ibn Kathir, a hadith from al-Hasan al-Basri, “There is not scholar except that there is one above him, but it ends when it comes to Allah” (ie the meaning it doesn’t apply to Allah, because He (saw) is beyond this). On this, Ibn `Abbas (ra) said, “How wretched for you to say, ‘Allah is the All-Knowing above every scholar.” (Meaning the monstrosity of placing Allah in the same category as His creation, by comparing Him to His creation, while He is above that, in transcendence)

So that verse means that it never stops.  Don’t say “This is too much.”  It’s not too much.  What you are hearing is according to our level, and our level is the minimum level of understanding.  So what they give us is very little.  What they have is very enormous.  But all of them combined are still minimal compared to what Prophet (s) has.  Wa fawqa kulli dhi `ilmin `alimabove every knower there is a higher knowerWa fawqa kulli maqaamin muqeem – above every station there is someone sitting on that station.  And stations never end.  Do they end?  Why don’t they end?  Because Allah is the Creator, the creativity of Allah doesn’t stop. Dynamic.  Continuous.  It’s impossible.  If you say creativity stops, then Allah is not the Creator.  Since it doesn’t stop, it means levels never end.  And if levels never end, His Names, Attributes, never end.

Because He is Unique.  He is One, and He is Unique.  Ahad.  Qul Huwal Lahu Ahad. “Say, Ya Muhammad (s)”, to people, “Huwa” – the complete Absolute Unseen.  Allah is saying, “No one, Ya Muhammad (s), knows My Essence; no one knows Me.  But you can tell people about Me under the Name of Allah.”

Allah is the whole Name.  Allah is a Name under which go all the Attributes.  Allah called His Essence Allah.  But the Essence, no one knows it except Him.  He described Himself as Allah.  Therefore He said “Say, Ya Muhammad, ‘Allah‘.” then in Suratul Ikhlas, He narrows it to “Ahad.”  (Unique).  He didn’t say “Wahid.”

How many billions of people are here in the world? However many.  You can say Ahadu rijalu – if you want to describe high quality of people, you say in these billions there is “one” – meaning “few.”  To show their specialness the Arabic expression is “ahad.”  We took that word from Allah’s Name, Ahad, The Unique.  There is no one that can be described except Him.  And that’s why He called Himself Ahad.  Wahid is the level of Oneness.

Maqamu ‘l-Ahadiyya and Maqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya – the Level of Sayyidina Bilal (ra)

When you say Maqamu ‘l-Ahadiyya and Maqamu ‘l-WahdaniyyaMaqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya, the level of Wahid, means everything points to Him, to that One.  Everything in this universe points to Him.  You can understand.  We call it Maqamu ‘l-WahdaniyyaMaqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya means everything. By sound, by knowledge, you can understand that Allah is One.  Maqamu ‘l-Ahadiyya is the Maqamu ‘sh-Shuhud – it is the level of witnessing, seeing.  That’s why Sayyidina Bilal (ra), when he was tortured, was saying Ahad Ahad.  He was witnessing because Prophet (s) pulled him to a level where he was able to witness the Divine Presence, smelling and witnessing the reality of that.  Therefore he was saying Ahad, Ahad, Ahad, Ahad.

Maqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya you are not seeing.  Maqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya is “La ilaha ill Allah.”  Everyone say “La ilaha ill Allah.”  It means saying there is only one God.  What do you say in English, for La ilaha ill Allah? Maqamu ‘l-Ahadiyya is Maqamu ‘sh-Shuhood.  What is Maqamu ‘sh-Shuhood in English?  The station of witnessing.  It is “Ashhadu ‘an la ilaha ill Allah, wa Ashhadu anna Muhammadan Rasul Allah (s).”  Witnessing.  They are completely different, witnessing and not witnessing.  Not witnessing, you are understanding, but without vision.  With the things around you, you can understand there is a Creator.  But you didn’t yet see that reality.  You can feel it, you can understand it.  That’s Maqamu ‘l-Wahdaniyya. In Maqamu ‘l-Ahadiyya, you see it.

That’s why Allah called His Prophet (s) to His Presence in Laylatu ‘l-Isra` wal Mi`raj, to tell him, “come and bear witness.”  There is “Ashhadu“, I bear witness.  “Ashhadu an la ilaha ill Allah.”  I bear witness that Allah is my Creator.  It means seeing.  What Allah showed him there, Allah knows.  No one knows.  What Allah opened to him from these high stations, no one knows except Sayyidina Muhammad (s).  From that, Prophet (s) distributed to awliya, he is releasing continuously without ceasing, knowledges to the hearts of awliyaullah.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Dream: A Satanic Table?

Dream:

Assalamualaikum,
Please help me interpreting my weird dream..

I put my cell phone in my brother’s dining table and suddenly my cell phone moved itself to the floor. I tried to hold it, but it stuck to the table as if there was a magnet.
When I wanted to take it, my brother screamed and said, “Never put your cell phone in that table, there’s an evil spirit there!”

My cell phone kept moving to the floor and suddenly flying to the backyard. My brother was so panic and he followed the cell phone while kept saying Audzubillahiminassyaiton nirajim.
My cell phone kept moving and finally stopped in front of a water hole.
Then my brother once again told me not to put any gadget such as cell phone or laptop in the table.

I’d be thankful if you could give me tha answer. Barakallhu…

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,

This dream indicates how technology has a negative gravity. As Mawlana said, nature is healing, technology brings trouble. Try to keep a less dependence on technology and keep natural things in your life.

Wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Dream: Istikhara to shoot guns

Dream:

Assalamu’alaykum
I did istikhara about what I should do in my personal project (learn how to shoot guns as it is hadith or do ihtiqaf, which is sitting in the last ten days of Ramadan in the masjid), but I got a dream which had nothing to do with what I wanted to know. In my dream I saw that my little brother (12) was sitting on the floor and the bone on his lower arm was broken (it was popping out). I rushed to my mother and told her to come and look at him, and when I came back to my brother, he was holding that bone in his hand. Then my mother quickly took him to the hospital and when he came back, he was lying on the floor with his arm looking weird (as if he didn’t have a bone in it).

Thank you, and salam

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

It is not Sunnah to shoot guns.  It is Sunnah to learn archery. They are not the same. Leave the ideas of guns and focus on curing the sicknesses of the self such as anger, envy, hatred, etc. These will save you from breaking of the Sunnah of Prophet (s).

Wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Dream: Blue dress

Dream:

Assalam Ya Sayyidi
May Allah keeps us in your blessed feet. amin
I saw myself dressed in blue color. I was wearing silver color shoes that look nice on my feet and then I saw my hands having silver bangles.
Please interpret
Remember me and my family in your blessed prayers .
Love you Maulana
Jazak Allah
wasalam

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,

This shows you being dressed in honor and spiritual knowledge.

Wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Dream: Sun Rising from the West

Dream:

Assalamu alaikum,
A couple of years ago I had a dream within a dream. I fell asleep after fajr-prayer. I saw the sun go up in the West and I felt paralyzed, trying to get up to see and calling for my mother to come and look. The sun was rising fast and soon it ended in an explosion. While watching this coming towards me I uttered the basmala and it all went black. What followed was me feeling my soul flying in the sky, from cloud to cloud. A voice was answering my questions about where my family members were, saying that they too where there. I woke up and called for my mother again to tell her about the dream. The dream ended and I woke up for real.

what does it mean?

jazakallah kahyr

Interpretation:

audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,

Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,

wa `alaykum salam,

These are layers of the spirit being opened relating events of Judgment Day. There are good tidings in this dream of the ascending nature of your soul, alhamdulillah.

Wa’Allahu a`lam.

Kamau Ayyubi

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Forex (Currency)Trading is it allowed in Islam?

Question:

Asalam Alaikum,
I was wondering if anyone could tell me if it is permissible to trade (buy/sell) shares (stock, commodity, currency). I am interested in Foreign exchange market (currency trade). I would like to know, is trading on the Forex market halal or haram? Meaning whether or not it is allowed by the religion. Thank You in advance.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

It’s Halal.

Imam Senad Agic, Ph.D.
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
www.mesihat.com

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