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Extremely suicidal and other problems

I was thinking for a very long time to write a letter to ask questions that have accrued over the past years. So instead of writing different emails to ask each question I am asking all the questions I have in this single email. Since there are number of questions asked here, it will be alright of Hazrat takes time to fully address the questions. I can wait for the answers but I would be highly obliged if I get deep and meaningful answers. Continue reading

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Consulting Murshid for Marriage and Travel (Mercy Oceans)

In Mercy Oceans Book 2, P.19 it is written:
For a humble mureed following a murshid, if he is consulting the murshid in every matter it is good, but for three things it is a must. These are marriage, divorce, and far journeying. Continue reading

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Permission Of Girl’s Father For Marriage

I am in a relationship with someone for more than 3 years now. we both always had an intention of getting married and we have tried kept our relationship very pure and hence we don’t meet and talk much with each other. Continue reading

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Confused, stressed, chaos

Hello. I’d rather write a long email I guess that would explain better. But I’ll try to be precise as there isn’t much space. My question is concerning my relationship I had some problems some ups and downs. Continue reading

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Dilema in choosing a wife

As I am looking for a wife I’m confronted with a certain social reality: among the salafists I find in my poor working class neighbourhood many modest, practical decent simple minded shari3a binded gloves and niqab wearing salafist who look at their shoes. Continue reading

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Dream: Istikhara for Nikah

I am with the girl in the backyard of a house. I leave her there and come inside and fall asleep. When I wake up I go and look outside in the back-yard for her but I can’t find her. I can see a garden hose and water running from it. Continue reading

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Dream: Ahadith Laq’ah of Holy Prophet (PBUH)

I was asked to reach my hand out, and I did so. After a while I saw that a white globe shining brightly with white light was handed to me in my right hand. And I was told, that I am being awarded Ahadith-e-laqaa of Holy Prophet (PBUH). Continue reading

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Dream: I fear he will leave me

I saw a dream my boyfriend was with another women. It’s not me and she wad taking off her clothes. She was trying to seduce him kind of a feeling I had when I saw. Continue reading

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Marriage in order to heal from homosexuality

Need u to understand that even talk about this issue is hard for me. Astaghfirulah, I have problems with homosexuality. Alhamdulilah at least never had sex with anyone, man or woman. Continue reading

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Prayer Request: Hand in Marriage

im going through hard time i was proposed to by someone called [private]. We both want to marry each other for six years i been waiting for him to ask me to marry him but now his family are not agreeing to it because of the caste… Continue reading

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