Homosexuality….

Question:

Salaams Maulana,
why is there so much homosxuality in western countries, and what is leading people to beleive they are homosexual? Openly homosexual men are found in every part of western society. They, and indeed the majority of people in society today beleive that homosexuals have been born this way and that they have no control over their sexual orientation. In many ways western society celebrates homosexuality. Disapproval of homosexuality is now viewed in much they same way racism. I was shocked to learn that there are many high school children as young as 14 declaring themselves as homosexual and embracing a homosexual lifestyle. How should we deal with homosexual that we encounter in the workplace and socially?

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

As our Shuyukh have mentioned repeatedly, we are living in the Last Days when truth is considered falsehood and falsehood truth. Among the signs mentioned in hadith:

Men will imitate women; and women will imitate men. (ad-Durr al-Manthur)

People will indulge in homosexuality and lesbianism. (Kanzul-`Ummal)

See the Post “Homosexual Acquaintances” for further discussion of this delicate subject.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: Prophet Isa (a.s)

Dream:

Asslamualaykum

I was with my auntie by the balcony with the doors closed, and I was saying dua out loud so she was listening too. When I finished I noticed my auntie was crying. I started to look around and then a mansion suddenly appeared close up and on that balcony I saw a figure wearing a purple cloak, but they were really blurry at first. But it was as though they didn’t want anyone else to notice. I wondered who it was and I suddenly got the feeling that it was S. Isa (a.s) watching me. I told my auntie that I saw Prophet Isa (a.s). And I felt safe in the knowledge that Prophet Isa (a.s) was watching.

Could you please interpret this dream?

Shukriya

Interpretation:

wa `alaykum salam,

Seeing Sayyidina `Isa (as) has many meanings and benefits, the least of which is safety from affliction for the whole year inshaAllah.

Ali Elsayed

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Prayer Request: Visiting Mawlana with my dad and Hajj.

Prayer Request:

As-salamu aleykum Mawalana,

I am asking for your permission to visit Mawlana Sheikh in spring inshallah with my father. I am saving up but money might become an issue.
Also, I am making intention to go to Hajj al-Akbar.

I apologize for asking but please make du’a for me.

You are always in my du’as with Mawlana Sheikh and your families.

We love you.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

InshaAllah no problem.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Wazeefa to purify rooh

Question:

Are there wazeefa, which we can read to purify our souls, heart, aql( intellect) and nafs so that we can achieve spiritual success?

Answer:

Yes, recite 1500 times Allah Allah and 100 salawats.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Poor Memory and forgetfulness

Request:

Assalamu’alaikum dear respected and beloved shuyukh,

I have always had a bad memory, forgetting things very easily. People sometimes point this out and it upsets me.

These are some of the problems:- I forget where I have put things. Sometimes when I am driving, I forget which way I came or went. When out shopping, I forget what I needed to get. In the past, I gave up learning certain surahs of the Holy Qur’an because I kept forgetting and could not memorize.

Apart, from my memory I have no other problems. I am still quite young, I was wondering if I can recite something after prayer or in general.

Jazakallahu khair

Response:

`Alaykum as-Salam,

Your reward for trying is greater than for those who can memorize easily. Ignore what people tell you and be with Allah Who knows your state. Do not give up memorizing. Keep jogging your memory and use whatever means help.

Recite Astaghfirullah x100 daily and 100x Ya Hafeez daily, also:
– Surah Quraysh and Surat al-Kawthar in your Salat or after your Salat.
– or the verses

فَاللّهُ خَيْرٌ حَافِظًا وَهُوَ أَرْحَمُ الرَّاحِمِينَ 12:64

and

إِنَّا نَحْنُ نَزَّلْنَا الذِّكْرَ وَإِنَّا لَهُ لَحَافِظُونَ 15:9

Before sleep, read Surah Tabarak.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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order in the zikr

Question:

Assalam u alayekum sheikh hisham !
I want to ask that whether it is necessary to keep the order of award same as mentioned through out or is it necessary to keep the order only up to ihda.?i.e can one recite 1500 times Allah and salawaat before the rest part of award (From shahaada to fatiha (i) yet keeping the order of award from shahaada to fatiha same as mentioned. ) or does he have to follow through
shahaada,fatiha(i),then recitation of Allah,Salawaat,sura ikhlas.?
shukran ya syyedi.

Answer:

Shaykh Hisham answered previously that you may keep the tartib, sequence of recitation, by starting after Maghrib, as the beginning of the Islamic day with Shahada up to the Ihda and then continue the remainder of the awrad in the morning, Allah Allah and salawat, Ikhlas and so forth. Obviously, if you absolutely cannot keep the order, then do it in any order that enables you to complete the awrad, as completing it is more important than the order.

Taher Siddiqui

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Dream: destur ya sheykh Nazim!

Dream:

SELAM ALEYKUM VRB! today after salat of sabah when i was sleeping i felt a strange bad energy touching me and pressing on me in my bed i sad destur ya sheykh in that moment i heard Allah Allah i was quite for a while but that energy atacked me again i sad destur second time n i heard beutiful salawat and hearing shaykh Nazim in a sohbet live!(id never see shaykh Nazim except his sohbets but i believe in his guide)

Interpretation:

You were attacked by a negative  entity and due to your belief in Shaykh Nazim, you called on him and he helped to stop that harm.

W ‘Allahu`alam,

Taher Siddiqui

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Darood during menses

Question:

Can a woman recites Durood Shareef during periods? What other Tasbihat she can do? Because that was the time a woman need protection from outer sources, as her body becomes more sensitive.. What can be done to protect oneself? I ve seen in section Quran and menses but didnt find satisfactory answer. Please guide accordingly.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Darood Shareef and all du`as and dhikr can be recited during menses even if those du`as come from the Qur’an, as long as one is not literally reciting the Qur’an. Even the latter is permitted for women who are hafiz of Qur’an or on a regular study routine according to Imam Malik (Allah be well-pleased with him).

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Waking vision of Habib Paak (sallu alihe wa alehe wa sallam)

Question:

Assalamualikum ,
This incident I heard from my brother-in-law.
1.He saw Allah taila’s beloved (sallu alihe wa alehe wa sallam) in awakened state ( may be time of iftar,he was in nafil “saoum” in the month of Holy Eid -e-Miladun Nabi. Habib Paak(sallu alihe wa alehe wa sallam) said to come with Him (AS) and eat, but he said that he will eat ( where As-hab-e-suffa was) and his face will see “rawda shareef“. Habib Paak(AS) smiled and left. 2nd day Habib Paak(AS) again came and asked the same and he answered  the same. This day Habib Paak(AS) asked somebody to bring some water and He (AS) drank some of  the water and gave the rest of the water for him to drink. 3rd day my brother saw in dream and recognize that it was Habib Allah (AS) came to him.

pls advise.
Allah Hafez,

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Your brother-in-law is the object of special care and attention from Rasulallah upon him blessings and peace, he should increase his Salawat every day and reflect on this blessed state.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Want to marry a girl I know

Request:

I’m 26 and I want to marry a girl. Her parents let me know the girl. It’s been 3 years know that I’m at her house, talk to her family and everything, but she has been very different with me. I’d like to get married soon, but her family says I have to work and earn an amount equivalent to marry her. I do not make much money, and she began to despise me now. I’ve paid for some but not told marabouts. I got the expected result, since I came to do Ya Lateefu 21,000 per day but also got no results in this situation. What should I do?

Response:

You will get the great blessings of the Divine Name Ya Lateef; but regarding your marriage the signs indicate it is better for you to move on and Allah Most High will compensate you with another match that will be better for you. Recite after every salat: Rabbana atina fi ‘d-dunya hasanatan wa fi’l-akhirati hasanatan wa qina `adhaba ‘n-nar.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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